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[TuhiNirankar]

I read in Gurmat Rehat Maryada that " If a married person takes Amrit by themselves and their spouse is not Amritdharee, then he/she can not have a physical relationship with them unless they too become Amritdharee"
I thought this made sense so when i told someone whos going to take amrit soon there like thats right but what about so and so they just got married and hes amritdharee and shes not. The only answer i have is it's Kaljug. Sangat ji what are your views on this.

[Revolutionary]

"you shouldnt so bad"
"but so and so does bad"

Thats the logic your friend is using. Why use someone else's example/mistake to justify yourself huna?

[TuhiNirankar]

:TH:

[khalistan_zindabaad]

gurmat will remian gurmat,even if only a few follow it, they will get the blessings of akaal purakh. . . you may have the whole of the world following someone, or sumthing else however, numbers dont matter, some sikhs may wear bana read bani and do abhiyaas simran, however if they have shanka and question our guru, they wont get many of his blessings.

[JustME]

what if one is amrithari and teh other isnt shudnt the amrithari try encourage that person into sikhi? if the non-amrithari person is a decent human being and wishes to take amrit in the future but wants to adopt the lifestyle before becoming amrithari.............is it still wrong to get married before both r amrithari?

forgive me im a murakh and if i offend the plz bhul chuck maaf carnah.........

[TuhiNirankar]

what if one is amrithari and teh other isnt shudnt the amrithari try encourage that person into sikhi? if the non-amrithari person is a decent human being and wishes to take amrit in the future but wants to adopt the lifestyle before becoming amrithari.............is it still wrong to get married before both r amrithari?

forgive me im a murakh and if i offend the plz bhul chuck maaf carnah.........

your suppose to encourage your spouse to take amrit with you. Say 2 people are married and both are not amritdharee, if one wants to take amrit and goes to the amrit sanchar by himself/herself they punj piarey with give him/her amrit one condition that they will not keep a physical relationship with their partner until they too become amritdharee. The choice is yours it comes down to what rehat maryada you go by strict or whatever.
I think its a great thing if 2 people get married then they get amrit together the key is to get amrit together or alreayd be amritdharee be4 marriage.
bul chuk maaf carni(sor y if iv offended you or made any mistakes in the above statement)

[singhni wannabe]

forgive me im a murakh and if i offend the plz bhul chuck maaf carnah.........[/quote]
your suppose to encourage your spouse to take amrit with you. Say 2 people are married and both are not amritdharee, if one wants to take amrit and goes to the amrit sanchar by himself/herself they punj piarey with give him/her amrit one condition that they will not keep a physical relationship with their partner until they too become amritdharee. The choice is yours it comes down to what rehat maryada you go by strict or whatever.
I think its a great thing if 2 people get married then they get amrit together the key is to get amrit together or alreayd be amritdharee be4 marriage.
bul chuk maaf carni(sor y if iv offended you or made any mistakes in the above statement)
[/quote]

I agree it is best your both amritdharis but i fink beta ur amritdhari b4 getin married as wen u gt married u becom married to maharaji as well da marriage will b more of a significance if ur already amritdhari!! well dats my opinion.

sorry if i offended ny1 :TH:

vaheguroo ji ka khalsa vaheguroo ji ki fateh

[Bored]

take amrit and then the wedding

wikid!!