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[mundasingh123]

Are amritdhaaris allowed to use cuss words ,use abusive language and back stab ie making fun of people behinds peoples backs cos i find that cheap

[dalsingh101]

Are amritdhaaris allowed to use cuss words ,use abusive language and back stab ie making fun of people behinds peoples backs cos i find that cheap

I don't think they are but plenty do.

[ishvtan]

i don't really knw if rehat maryada says that but i knw guru ji is against this as u knw gurbani says "mith bolna ji mith bolna" and its nt a very nice thing so say stuff behind ppl's back and khalsa is pure so they shouldnt be doing these kinda karam, it doesnt suit khalsa.

bhulchuk leyi maaf karna waheguruji ka khalsa waheguruji ke fateh!

[Gurooo]

Do not Backbite-
chugalee kar jokaaj bigaarai dhhrig this janam jdhharam bisaarai ||
Those who back-bite and ruin their lives are cursed and have wasted their lives by abandoning righteousness.

Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

Do not Swear and have false speech -

guroo kaa sikhga(n)dhaavaakee naa hovai
The Sikh of the Guru should never speak disgusting speech.

Rehatnama Bhai Chaupaa Singh Jee

shabadh giaan bin karehij baath || thaa(n) kai kashh naa aavehihaathh ||||
Those who speak words which do not reflect on the Guru's teachings will never attain even an iota of spiritual bliss.;

Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

[2128]

well said

Do not Backbite-
chugalee kar jokaaj bigaarai dhhrig this janam jdhharam bisaarai ||
Those who back-bite and ruin their lives are cursed and have wasted their livesby abandoning righteousness.

Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

Do not Swear and have false speech -

guroo kaa sikhga(n)dhaavaakee naa hovai
The Sikh of the Guru should never speak disgusting speech.

Rehatnama Bhai Chaupaa Singh Jee

shabadh giaan bin karehij baath || thaa(n) kai kashh naa aavehihaathh ||||
Those who speak words which do not reflect on the Guru's teachings will neverattain even an iota of spiritual bliss.;

Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

[mundasingh123]

Do not Backbite-
chugalee kar jokaaj bigaarai dhhrig this janam jdhharam bisaarai ||
Those who back-bite and ruin their lives are cursed and have wasted their lives by abandoning righteousness.

Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

Do not Swear and have false speech -

guroo kaa sikhga(n)dhaavaakee naa hovai
The Sikh of the Guru should never speak disgusting speech.

Rehatnama Bhai Chaupaa Singh Jee

shabadh giaan bin karehij baath || thaa(n) kai kashh naa aavehihaathh ||||
Those who speak words which do not reflect on the Guru's teachings will never attain even an iota of spiritual bliss.;

Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

So are those False AmriDharees Listening !

[jassa]

Just sharing but in old school punjabi sikhs even "munda" is cuss word for sikh kids. Many would not know but our great great grandfather would end up in a fight if someone would have called our great grandfather "munda" 100 years ago. Ask your bajurgs for more information.

[AvnitK]

I know many that do ...and yes i agree on the fact that after hearing it from their mouths makes you change your whole outlook onn the person

[Singh559]

Just sharing but in old school punjabi sikhs even "munda" is cuss word for sikh kids. Many would not know but our great great grandfather would end up in a fight if someone would have called our great grandfather "munda" 100 years ago. Ask your bajurgs for more information.

I said that and MundaSingh nearly killed me a while back.

It's true. What happened in olden days was if someone was caught doing something bad, the people would say "ehno mun'deo" and the person became a munda.

[mundasingh123]

Just sharing but in old school punjabi sikhs even "munda" is cuss word for sikh kids. Many would not know but our great great grandfather would end up in a fight if someone would have called our great grandfather "munda" 100 years ago. Ask your bajurgs for more information.

In Punjab , there were lots of words used to look down upon someone . "Bhappa ", "Baiyya " are also words used to chastise someone . I am originally a "Bhau " from Amritsar . It doesnt mean anything bad . Sardars of amritsar are called Bhaus . If i were to call someone in Doaba or Malwa , a Bhau , He would feel as if am mocking him . There is no end to all this potpourrri of words .
Ethe te kucch wi chalda . So do you encourage this trend of calling names by accepting it .
PS : However the reason i chose this id was totally different , perhaps to stand out as an iconoclast