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Posted 28 October 2012 - 06:01 AM jaswinder singh

LOL ur n extreme singh yet ur DP is of a cartoon character out of madagascar! :O looool

every one including the guy u r refering to has right to is own pov.but the matter is are we
going for ghetto -isation of our community , what way do we think we can expand our faith?
our faith teaches to respect all ideologies yet we do not, our Gurus tell us we shuld discard
casteism and gendre discrimination , we do not ; what direction we are taking?
omg so many ways of not following the way our gurus taught us , still we are sikhs

Posted 15 July 2012 - 05:59 AM

If your religion was important to you then you wouldn't be going out with her to begin with . break up with her

LOL ur n extreme singh yet ur DP is of a cartoon character out of madagascar! :O looool

Posted 04 February 2012 - 01:44 PM DalbirSingh

I know quite a few people who intermarried with tamils they are running okay, guess people find common ground and carry on. It is not something to advise and push forth it can cause problems if you don't have the same page to run with. For those thinking about it before they do, understand being born a sikh is a great privilege, the awesome culture, food, traditions, history, philisophy and metaphysics. Sikh men and women are full of lots of rough and tough behaviour full of love, some people can't take it but that is how lions behave hence why they are king of the jungle. You need to be more concerned with what your parents are going to say rather then religion says. If she believes in sikhi to the extent where you can share your life together then you have common ground, if she is going to make you go to pandits and brahmins all the time and stop going gurdwara then allow it. If you both can do your thing on the side it is okay. Sikhs that married hindus both men and women in the past were on the same level of belief, it is mainly in abrahamic world were what religion you are is a believer or non-believer. Loads of hindus naturally grew up in gurdwaras and practiced as sikhs, they also married in gurdwaras and spent life in gurdwaras the only reason they choose not to call themselves sikh was mainly because they didn't keep kesh some still kept dastars and even abit of dhari. These days it is difficult to know the difference in an integrated society. Some tamil mandirs actually have photos of guru nanak and they are doing pooja of guru nanak. Depends if you can connect with sikhism.

Posted 12 October 2011 - 04:26 AM xtremesingh18

Is everyone really being serious? Or is this some sort of sick joke?

According the the replies here: Sikhisim mandates that you must break up with a girl who is inlove with you and vice versa because she is a different religion.

Wow, this religion does not source from Abraham, it comes for Dhun Guru Nanak Dev ji..there is no place for this kind of behaviour.

You have been with this girl you like here, its only 6-months in, see where it goes. But please do not break up with her soley based on religion that is not the Sikh way.


the SIKH way is that you wouldnt involve yourself in a relationship in the first place.
Learn something about the religion before you tell people what is right and wrong according to sikhi

Posted 11 October 2011 - 07:17 AM Mehtab Singh

You know its not really that complicated as we think it is. It all depends on what matters the most to the 2 of them. If Sikhi is what matters the most, the original poster wouldn't even be in this situation to begin with. If its the girl, then he can do whatever he feels is best.

Posted 11 October 2011 - 06:25 AM

Marriage is a comittment for life. If she really loves you, she must love your relegion and convert to Sikhism before getting married to you. If she does that, there is no problem for you guys to get married and raise your children as Sikhs.


holly muslim thinking batman.

Guru Sahib says: there is no jaath paath, yet you are creating sikhisim into a caste.

Posted 07 October 2011 - 05:25 PM JSinghnz

Marriage is a comittment for life. If she really loves you, she must love your relegion and convert to Sikhism before getting married to you. If she does that, there is no problem for you guys to get married and raise your children as Sikhs.

Posted 05 October 2011 - 02:02 PM

Is everyone really being serious? Or is this some sort of sick joke?

According the the replies here: Sikhisim mandates that you must break up with a girl who is inlove with you and vice versa because she is a different religion.

Wow, this religion does not source from Abraham, it comes for Dhun Guru Nanak Dev ji..there is no place for this kind of behaviour.

You have been with this girl you like here, its only 6-months in, see where it goes. But please do not break up with her soley based on religion that is not the Sikh way.

Posted 28 September 2011 - 09:39 PM Only five

^ and what of the tables were turned and the woman wanted her kids to grow up as Sikhs and the 'Man of the house' was against that? Would she still be accused of having an ego the size of an elephant?

Just a thought...


I believe little boys shouldn't play with guns...if you catch my drift. Please take the time to understand the cultural revolutions and how freedom does not mean the person is always going to act out in good intentions. Stuck up is the slang word for what i am saying.

Posted 28 September 2011 - 02:56 PM Hazoor

^ and what of the tables were turned and the woman wanted her kids to grow up as Sikhs and the 'Man of the house' was against that? Would she still be accused of having an ego the size of an elephant?

Just a thought...

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