Gurdwara Scandal - Singh Sabha Uk (havelock Road, Southall)

[Wake_Up]

What your about to read is 100% true. I have proof to support my claim.

Bascically, many gurdwaras nowadays have a matrimonial service which is supposed to help Sikhs find a partner for marraige. The Gurdwara recently held a "Mix N Mingle" event which was held at Days hotel in Ruislip.

Ok here's the thing, there were Hindu guys and girls there. Have Sikhs in general lost the plot? Im my opinion the answer would be a resounding Yes. You may argue that there are plenty of Sikh/Hindu dating events organised where any1 can attend if they purchase a ticket. However, these events are organised by people who are making money from a business. The Sikhs who attend these events are pathetic in the leaset, but when the gurdwara organises such an event where they are openly letting Hindus come and get our girls, this cannot be tolerated. Why not also invite other men from other religons to meet our girls, because that is what they are condoning.

What the hell is going on with the committee? What is going on with Sikhs in Southall ,allowing this to happen? Do Mandirs have events where Sikhs can attend and try and marry Hindu girls? Before you ask, No the Hindus there, were not seeing only Hindus for marraige.

Sikhs have become pathetic. We need to sort this situation before it gets out of control and the numbers of non-Sikhs going to these events. We can stop this if we act now. I hope the major Sikh organisations take this issue extremely seriously.

There was a recent post about a Sikh guy who's sister legged it with a Hindu and got married. Some people on the forum were blaming parents for not educating their kids about Sikhi (I agree with this), however if our own gurdwaras are organising for this situation to openly happen, let alone behind our backs, what is that saying?

I have attached the document that was emailed to people who wanted to attend the event. Look at the bottom of the page. Yet another shocking revelation - a Facebook group - Sikh & Hindu Punjabi Matrimonial service.

Mix_N_Mingle_Final.doc

Mix_N_Mingle_Final.doc

[arjunsingh]

How do you know there were Hindus at the event? Did you do a Hindu test on them?

And so what if there is a Sikh and Hindu Punjabi facebook group?

Do you want to institute some kind of legislation against Sikhs and Hindus being friends?

Lets write to MPs demanding an end to this evil.

The taliban in Afghanistan have the right ideas.

[Wake_Up]

Did you read my post carefully? The Facebook group is a "MATRIOMONIAL" group. READ IT. I was at the event. You clearly have a relative in your family who is hINDU, HENCE WHY YOU DEFEND HINDUS attending the event. You are NO Sikh. You can obtain the list from the gurdwara who attended the event. I met Hindu guys myself, Is that proof?

[arjunsingh]

The Sikhs who attend these events are pathetic in the leaset, but when the gurdwara organises such an event where they are openly letting Hindus come and get our girls, this cannot be tolerated. Why not also invite other men from other religons to meet our girls, because that is what they are condoning.

Are you only frightened about Hindu men meeting Sikh girls, or do Sikh men meeting Hindu women frighten you as well?

Also, when you say 'our girls', do you think that you have part-ownership of every Sikh girl, as if she is an animal or buffalo that we all have a stake in?

I mean, do you walk down a street and see a Sikh girl and think that you have ownership rights over her?

Also, like I asked earlier, did you do a Hindu test on all the people at the function? Let us know your evidence. I want photographs and birth certificates to prove it. Only when we have such evidence can we move to the next stage.

Which is of course, the ritual rounding up of all our girls, and placing them in a house-prison with a moat around it, steel doors, no telephones. They will only be allowed out of that prison-house with the permission of random Sikh men like you and me, who have part-ownership of them.

This is a great idea. Let's start working on it.

[Wake_Up]

The Sikhs who attend these events are pathetic in the leaset, but when the gurdwara organises such an event where they are openly letting Hindus come and get our girls, this cannot be tolerated. Why not also invite other men from other religons to meet our girls, because that is what they are condoning.

Are you only frightened about Hindu men meeting Sikh girls, or do Sikh men meeting Hindu women frighten you as well?

Also, when you say 'our girls', do you think that you have part-ownership of every Sikh girl, as if she is an animal or buffalo that we all have a stake in?

I mean, do you walk down a street and see a Sikh girl and think that you have ownership rights over her?

It's quite clear you are a Hindu or non-sikh. In the Rehat Maryada it clearly states a Sikh can only marry a Sikh. Not a Hindu like you.

Also, like I asked earlier, did you do a Hindu test on all the people at the function? Let us know your evidence. I want photographs and birth certificates to prove it. Only when we have such evidence can we move to the next stage.

Which is of course, the ritual rounding up of all our girls, and placing them in a house-prison with a moat around it, steel doors, no telephones. They will only be allowed out of that prison-house with the permission of random Sikh men like you and me, who have part-ownership of them.

This is a great idea. Let's start working on it.

[arjunsingh]

You clearly have a relative in your family who is hINDU, HENCE WHY YOU DEFEND HINDUS attending the event. You are NO Sikh.

How can you speak about whether I have a Hindu in my family with so much violent surety?

And when did God grant you psychic powers to see that I an 'NO Sikh'

And when were you granted the power of declaring whether someone is a Sikh or not? That's an excellent power to have, I am so jealous. You are like judge, jury and executioner, it's amazing.

Please let me know I want to share in these superpowers. Can you spin webs and swing through the air like Spiderman too?

[Wake_Up]

In the Rehat Maryada it states a Sikh can only marry a Sikh.

if people on the matrimonial list are listed as Hindu, is the gurdwara lying about that.

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[SaRpAnCh]

What your about to read is 100% true. I have proof to support my claim.

Bascically, many gurdwaras nowadays have a matrimonial service which is supposed to help Sikhs find a partner for marraige. The Gurdwara recently held a "Mix N Mingle" event which was held at Days hotel in Ruislip.

Ok here's the thing, there were Hindu guys and girls there. Have Sikhs in general lost the plot? Im my opinion the answer would be a resounding Yes. You may argue that there are plenty of Sikh/Hindu dating events organised where any1 can attend if they purchase a ticket. However, these events are organised by people who are making money from a business. The Sikhs who attend these events are pathetic in the leaset, but when the gurdwara organises such an event where they are openly letting Hindus come and get our girls, this cannot be tolerated. Why not also invite other men from other religons to meet our girls, because that is what they are condoning.

What the hell is going on with the committee? What is going on with Sikhs in Southall ,allowing this to happen? Do Mandirs have events where Sikhs can attend and try and marry Hindu girls? Before you ask, No the Hindus there, were not seeing only Hindus for marraige.

Sikhs have become pathetic. We need to sort this situation before it gets out of control and the numbers of non-Sikhs going to these events. We can stop this if we act now. I hope the major Sikh organisations take this issue extremely seriously.

There was a recent post about a Sikh guy who's sister legged it with a Hindu and got married. Some people on the forum were blaming parents for not educating their kids about Sikhi (I agree with this), however if our own gurdwaras are organising for this situation to openly happen, let alone behind our backs, what is that saying?

I have attached the document that was emailed to people who wanted to attend the event. Look at the bottom of the page. Yet another shocking revelation - a Facebook group - Sikh & Hindu Punjabi Matrimonial service.

Mix_N_Mingle_Final.doc

This commitee needs to fix up they are really begining to annoy local sangat with their infighting and pathetic crap like this , A MESSAGE TO SINGH SABHA COMMITEE MEMBERS READING THIS FIX UP.WE WILL NOT TOLERATE HINDUS DATING SIKH GIRLS,through you dating services funny really how some linked with the commitee are always moaning about Sikh girls going with muslims and others majority of the time they cry about the Muslims issue,BUT its shocking they aint said nothing about the Hindus taking our girls throught their own event

[arjunsingh]

Hey, how do I know you're not a Hindu? Or a Muslim?

See, two people can play at this futile game.

Anyway, lets assume that there are Hindus on that list, what form of action should be taken. Convince me and let me know, I might join you in your protest if you are convincing enough.

Let me know what you think should be done.

[Wake_Up]

Answer the following question:

Is it ok for a Sikh to marry a non-Sikh according to the Rehat Maryada and the teachings of Sikhi?

Y are your posts defending Hindus?

Y would you now be willing to co operate with me regarding the issue I raise, since you thought it ok in the first place?