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difference Gurbani Paath is NOT enough
by Guest goabove !!!- 1 follower
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Reading gurbani doing Paath is not enough. This is not my own opinion. Gurbani clearly tells us: ਪੜਿਐ ਮੈਲੁ ਨ ਉਤਰੈ ਪੂਛਹੁ ਗਿਆਨੀਆ ਜਾਇ।।੧।। ਪੜਿ ਪੜਿ ਥਾਕੇ ਸਾਂਤਿ ਨ ਆਈ।। And we can see this in many aspects. So many many people pray every day but still carry worries ,hate and anger in their minds. Why have I seen here many posts about amritdhaaris who are unhappy, have anxiety? No one!!! talks about Simran. Yes gurbani is wonderful and powerful. But if one only reads it, and only takes that giaan but doesn't do abhyaas kmai, simran it's just more ego. There's a big difference between reading gurbani and doing naam Simran meditation. There is…
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Social Anxiety
by Guest SINGH- 2 followers
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh. I am 17 year Amritdhari boy. I have Social Anxiety Disorder and i also have shyness since as long as i coukd remember . This disorder disables in almost every walk of my life. 😭 I am just anxious all the time whether while speaking, socializing or even just standing in people. It is so hard for me to practice Sikhi like this. I cant even attend Gurudwara Sahib as i feel so much anxiety meeting people there. I prefer to remain quiet, and alone . But i dont want to spoil my life like this. Any Gursikh , please suggest me or advice me what should i do to start bringing a change in my life . I want to become a Sikh . Ple…
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Alcoholic
by Guest Singh- 1 reply
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How does one help an alcoholic who doesn’t want help or think he has a problem.
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Is everything karma
by Guest Kylie- 1 follower
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Is everything we go through in life result of our own actions/karma or can there be other factors involved. I have been going through tough time and wonder what have I done in my past life to deserve this.
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Amritdhari living 1 2
by Guest Guest- 1 follower
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hi. i am new to sikhi and i going over the rehat maryada, i still have few questions about amritdhari living, hoping i could ask. 1) i've read it is mandatory to do cold bath in the mornings? is that true or do warm showers work? 2) during bathing, ive also read that you need to keep your head covered with a cloth until you wash your hair and then tie it again as soon as the soap is out. i'm confused on this, is it mandatory? what does it mean? how does the hair dry? 3) do you have to wash with soap everyday, or soap in main parts, and water on rest work? 4) as someone who has heavy and curly hair, it takes a long time to manage and dry. do…
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Anand karaj
by Guest -_-- 2 followers
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Vaheguru Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji ki fateh Ji I want to do an simple Anand karaj. I'm amritdhaari. Can anyone tell me how a simple Anand karaj looks like? Does it go for 1,2 or 3 days? Like the day there you do the lava and a second day for a little "party"? What to do after lava? Music alcohol,dancing, .and are there other things which shouldn't be in an gursikh Anand karaj? Vaheguru Ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji ki fateh
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Adultery with Fiancé
by Guest Patit- 3 followers
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WJKK WJKF, Looking for advice, me and my now wife while we were engaged due to the power of Kaam we fell from the path of Sikhi and committed adultery. I really want to go pesh infront of panj pyare however my wife is scared. What advice could you give us?
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IPTV
by Guest anon- 1 reply
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Does anyone use IPTV? Used it before but then went "legit" but thinking of getting again for all the international channels, but doesn't feel right as its not entirely legal.
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Feeling unwanted
by Guest Truth- 1 reply
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Male, married for 10 years to my Wife, who I met via a relative for 6months prior to settling down. 3 young children, 2, 4 and 6. Hard working, respectful, strong minded, commited and reliable. Coming into the 10th year of being married, finding that my Wife had taken a keen interest in another male that she meets regularly at the gym. I thought I have my Wife everything, including, comfort, love, stability, emotional and physical support, yet she felt the need to pursue interest in another male, half my age, of an English, white background. I graft hard and look after myself, both physically and mentally, but since my wife's relationship with this younger male developed …
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Questions to ask before marriage
by Guest Abibijehikaur- 1 follower
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Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji ki fateh To the Singh's: What Questions would you ask your ("future"?) Wife before marriage? What questions should be asked? Vaheguru Ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji ki fateh
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Suffering & Depressed
by Guest user5467123- 1 follower
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- 393 views
I’m not sure where to start or where to begin. I am due to get married and live together with my partner soon. I have recently lost my job. I have been praying to Waheguru all week to help me but nothing has helped. In fact I don’t know why this is happening. I have prayed to Waheguru on a daily and wished him to help me but I just feel like it has gone in the opposite direction. I have spoken to my partner and she has reassured me that things will get better but I just don’t want to be here anymore. I feel so hopeless. Everyday I chant Waheguru to myself through the day weather I’m leaving to go somewhere to I’m about to do something. Why a…
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What path should I do to seek guidance
by Guest Kaur- 0 replies
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I am a uni student and have to decide my career path . What path should I do to seek guidance from Waheguru and make the right decision .
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I got married recently, which was an arranged marriage through a common sangat of gursikhs. Few days into marriage I came to know that my spouse is sufffering from psychosis which was not revealed to me before marriage. It was a major setback for me that a gursikh amritdhari family would do a treacherous act like this. The condition is of such a severity that it impacts all spheres of my life including spiritual. As family not willing for proper approved treatment of the condition. I have following questions related to my current situation 1. If we have done lavaan and parkash of GURU maharaj was there , is it justified to proceed towards seperation keeping…
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eating meat and punishment
by Guest amandeep- 0 replies
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i ate meat, and i stopped and i don't have amrit. but if i want to take it, does that result in a punishment for braking the 4 bujar kerehta?
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Inquiry
by Guest Alex- 1 reply
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hi. i am new to sikhi and i going over the rehat maryada, i still have few questions about amritdhari living, hoping i could ask. 1) i've read it is mandatory to do cold bath in the mornings? is that true or do warm showers work? 2) during bathing, ive also read that you need to keep your head covered with a cloth until you wash your hair and then tie it again as soon as the soap is out. i'm confused on this, is it mandatory? what does it mean? how does the hair dry? 3) do you have to wash with soap everyday, or soap in main parts, and water on rest work? 4) as someone who has heavy and curly hair, it takes a long time to manage and dry. do i have to w…
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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