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ok so, i've read pretty much all of posts regarding this kind of stuff....but here i go still So, i kinda cant stop thinking about this girl (not in a bad way or nething). so when it first happend i tried to become friends with her at uni n stuff....but then later on i realized i shouldnt be doing any of that....so now for a last 3 months or so i've been trying to NOT think about her. a while back, i broke any and all contact with her without telling her anything in the hope that this is just a "phase" and it'll blow over any day if i stop seeing her. but so far i have had no luck at all. in fact its gotten worse. there are times where i cant do any work because its …
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GuruFateh to the sangat. I know that this post is long, but it would mean so much to the panjees out there if you take your time to read this. It's a humble request; Please read it. As you all know, there are people in our day-to-day lives who commit immoral deeds. They do such things either to find hilarity for themselves, or to make others happy. For them, all that matters in the end is finding a satisfaction after commiting the deed(s) they wish to accomplish, knowing that they are wrong. When people aren't punished for such sins, the victims are usually left thinking that they deserved the affliction. I would just like to address a matter that I have encounte…
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Leeds Akhand Jaap Keerrtan
by Guest leeds akhand jaap- 0 replies
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wen will recordings be up !??????
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Breaking An Engagement
by Guest I dunNo- 8 replies
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Gurfateh... I got engaged and it seems like I was outta my mind and still cant believe I did. I HAD NOOO Say and was basically blackmailed into it. The guy and his family are nice but My Sikhi is deeply hurt. I saw this Bindi stuff coming on my forehead and bangles that I have never worn!! wHen they brought it, I felt like swearing but I just sat there crying inside. This family is Amritdhari but ALSO punjabi! the 2 dont go together and I dunno what i got myself into. They didnt take any Hukum and the ardaas was done in my absence. All was a social gathering at a house and they gave me this BIG huge dipped out golden ring that covers the whole of my finger... haha I lau…
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Sikhi & Chura? 1 2
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My sister recently got married and her wedding was done all in the "traditonal" way, e.g. Gohn / Gidha(singing), Maiya, Chura, etc..etc... I'm an amrit dhari sikh and I wanted to know whether are amrit dhari sikhs alowed to o ahead with all the tradition of the Chura (red bangles) ceremony? Sorry this may sound a stupid thread but I wanted to remove away some confusions
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EzAIeLVLj4...20gracious%20me OMG
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Coming Or Going?
by Guest Unsure- 2 replies
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Lately, I'm not sure if I'm coming towards or going away from Sikhi. I use to have sangat but they made me feel guilty for things I didn't even do, always accuzing me. They made me loose my confidence completely and I always left feeling horrible about myself and in general. I wouldn't be able to concentrate in anything, specially paath, and would just keep thinking about whatever conflict ocured and what they said to me and how they hurt me. Before this started, I used to do lots of paath, but then with increasing conflict in the sangat, my paath declined because I couldn't concentrate and always felt depressed and stuff about what was going on. Since leaving sangat, I…
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That is completely out of order deleting the original message of the poster when below her original message we've given our views in good faith, now it seems like what we've said in reply to her time at university is out of context. http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=19695 Why was it removed? what kinda policy is this that upon request the original thread message is removed there was a lesson to be learned from her experiences at uni and now its been lost cos of change of heart.
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Taking Amrit
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how do i know im ready to take amirt?
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Abuse Towards Boys.
by Guest Shamed!- 3 replies
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I just wanted to provide a story for the male victims of molesters etc because I know it’s a problem for girls but I just wanted to make sure the sangat is aware that boys can also be targeted. Well when I was younger about 4-7 I was constantly sexually felt up by my older cousins, I don’t keep in contact with them anymore and my family don’t either for other reasons. I never told my Parents because they used to tell me its normal behaviour and that it is rude to tell others and that I would be in trouble. When I was about 8-10 and once more at 14 I got sexually abused by my Mama (Mum’s Bro), and he is an AmritDhari, once again I don’t keep in contact and my family rare…
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My First Year At University
by Guest haha hehe- 4 replies
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Time Passing By
by Guest aloo- 8 replies
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Dear friends, Asking that age old saying WHAT IF I have not met some one for over 20 years and now time is passing by as so is my life I would love/ like to see that some one special that I knew such a long time age, just once more time before its too late, Should I or should I just leave it alone…… Is it worth chasing that dream or is it just a dream to let go ….
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Saachee Preet Tum Sio Joree
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anyone have this track please\?
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Panchain
by Guest ...................- 5 replies
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what is panchain? or who are they? thnx
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Am I Being Selfish?
by Guest selfish?- 1 reply
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Ifffff I stick around and do what my parents ask that will make them and the guy I am supposed to be getting hooked up to and his family extremely happy But will most likely make me miserable :D If I however go away and do my own thing that will make me happy but my parents and family miserable See thing is my parents want me to be married but I don’t want to be married To me a grisht jeevan does not just mean being married, I would still be in touch with my family, would still work and all that, just I would not be wed. nothing would please me more than spending a few years in India with a great ustaad and learning raag kirtan and to be able to come back and share…
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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