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I'm not gonna lie to you, yesterday was probably the greatest day ever to be non-white, British and alive. It was the day that white supremists / racists were foaming at the mouth....engulfed with anger....overcome with sheer rage......tearing their own hair out....smashing plates in the kitchen and punching holes in their own walls n fits of temper. For yesterday........these people found out that the first Britons looked like us (with even darker skin than us) I just love the look on cheddar man's face. It's like he knows how much this is going to annoy the racists. They're gonna have to tell themselves to 'go back to where they came from' now
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We were all excited and upbeat , esp my parents over the pregnancy . My wife is around 9 week pregnant [first trimester] .But then our world came crashing down as she got fever . Her gynaec had told her on day one that no medicines can be given during pregnancy. This was when she complained of pregnancy-related body pains. She was all well since then. Her initial sonography gave us the glimpse of my baby's beating heart and we even got to hear it . We were all thankful to god. But then suddenly the night before yesterday she developed fever . Yesterday it keep alternating between high and low . Today morning it wnt beyond 102F. By this point we had already…
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Sadh sangat ji waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh The following is an old maryada of doing paath of bhram kavach baani 1. Time: 3 hours before sunrise (excluding the time of brush,kesi ishnaan. ...) Wear clean clothes, sit on floor with carpet or any sheet on it. 2. Requirement: a.Keep pure water in a clean sarabloh container (baata), b. Dhoof. c. Pure desi ghee di jot ( diva). 3. Process : a. After kesi ishnaan, arrange the things of requirement (dhoof, batti) b.do nitnem of 5 baanis c. ardas of 5 baanis d. 32 paaths e. Ardass of 32 paaths Dont for…
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Hi all. I just want to ask how comman is this thinking in Punjabi communities or is it just a mindset my own family and extended has. basically everyone in my family and extended family have a mindset that Punjabi/ Sikh girls that are from UK are somewhat not marriages material and it's best to avoid getting there sons married to Sikh girls from UK and instead invest £££ in a girl from india! last year I had an argument with my mum regarding this topic, my eldest sister is happily married to a mona Punjabi guy who is uk born and they have been happily married for 3 years no problem. Last year my mum wanted my brother to get married, she insisted that she on…
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh I have noticed that some Paatth teachers tell us to apply the word "sh" in Gurbani. For example: Ishnaan, Darshan, Shabad, Paatshah and Akaash etc. But some don't apply the word because it isn't used in Gurbani. Or is the word "sh" GUPT? So i am confused on this.
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh I am an amritdhari singh and I got married to an amritdhari dumala tying girl just 6 months ago. I consider myself a beginner in terms of sikhism and I got baptised just a year ago and still trying to adapt. However, I am always trying to be better sikh. Anyways, coming back to my marriage, first couple of months were great. However, after that, I got to know about my wife's previous relationship which ended few years ago as she said the guy was abusive and did not trust her. At that time, she was not baptised and the guy was a hindu. But the fact that she did not talked about this before our marriage has really left an imp…
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Hi All, I am Amritdhari Girl..... My parent n family members being a sikh opposed me to become baptized... just because its hard to find Amritdhari boy... but still as i luv my religion and my Gurus i became Amritdhari.... I want to know is this true? I have seen the attitude of Sikh boys also... after i became baptized, i came to know.. even normal Sikh boys don't prefer being amritdhari and Amritdhari girls... Want to know y?
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I am posting this about my husband to get some suggestions from married people. i am from punjab and married to a gursikh boy about 9 mnths ago. It was fully arrange marriage but i am still trying to understand what his nature is. he is jalandhar born but permanent resident of canada, i also came here 5mnths ago.here now. first when we got engaged, he didn't show much interest talking to me. He used to call me twice a week about 10-15 mins each. Now after marriage it seems like he never had interest in marriage life, much of the time he is busy with simran and gurbani. I am also a gursikh, do nitnem daily and i know sikhism but he is way too much devoted an…
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I came to know of bachans about the future (few years ahead from now till Khalsa Raaj). Something in me is itching to share this but I don't know If I should
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What's a good way and effective way to wash hair without doing beadbi of hair, I normally wash my hair on a sink, and I can feel a lot of hair breaking how can I wash my hair without breaking any kesh?
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WJKK WJKF i used to get up at amritvela but i now find i cannot get up early no more. my heart yearns to wake up early but when morning comes i fail. i now its a mind over matter thing and i hav to fight my mind and fight the laziness but nothing seems to work. i go to gurudwara to ask for help to wake up early and also do ardaas to wake up early. i dn't no, i just feel like a bad person, like a disgrace . I now how important amritvella is yet when morning comes i don't get up. my gran says people that are blessed people or hav guru's kirpa wake up and pray. does this make me a bad person. u don't no how much i want to wake up. i even plan wot prayers i shll do afte…
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i have two amritdhari friends who have got into a relationship and within a matter of days have kissed. they believe they are going to get married and feel this is ok, they said it just happened. sangat ji how do i tell them that this is wrong. fine if they believe they may get married but they should not have kissed. How do i tell them that this wrong? or is it to late to tell them. i have tryed to tell them that this is wrong but they believe its ok as they think they will marry.
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Let's start with the Boxer Rebellion in China. They teach you about in school history lessons but what they don't tell you is who the British sent to crush the rebellion in China. The answer is the Sikhs. They put together the Ludhiana Sikh Regiment and each man in that regiment was specifically chosen because of his height and build. Every last one of them was built like a brick <banned word filter activated> house. After service, many stayed on in China where they dominated the professions of Policemen, Watchmen and general enforcers. But being paid enforcers, whist doing wonders for one's own macho sensibilities, comes at a price. And tha…
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wjkk wjkf I'm a little confused on age gaps in Sikhi? What has Sikhi got to ay about age gaps whenn marriage, my sisters scenario is that the person whoshe is marrying is 4 years younger than her, should it matter about the age gap?
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Sangath Jio, I came across a Singhnee, happened to be my sister in law's friend and she's just recently had a baby. And she was saying that after a Singhnee gives birth she needs 2 re-take Amrit again, is this true? ... I've never come across this untill this Singhnee told me now I'm totally confused .
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then.
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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