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Sheemar surname
by Guest Singh- 2 replies
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Does anybody have any idea about the etymology of the surname Sheemar? Is it Punjabi? Is it based on a profession? If so, which profession? Please be respectful. Many thanks!
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Confused
by Guest papan- 0 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh .I just want to say I had made big mistakes in my life .like , I had indulged in lustful things as I was staying with bad company.I had ruined my reputation in my relatives .I feel ashamed .I tried to commit suicide as well but not successful.Even ,in the last year , I did not do path but ,in this year ,I have been starting doing path and now I relized how big mistakes I did .I had done lot of sins in th past year .I can say , I was the victim of all 5 vikars like ,kaam, krodh , lobh ,moh and hankar .But ,in this year , when I started to understand the meaning of gurbani , I feel guilty.I am in canada now and I have no one here …
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Bad Experiences at the Akal Academy at Baru Sahib
by Guest MobMaint6232- 5 replies
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Does anyone know any former students who went to the Akal Academy at Baru Sahib located in Himachal Pradesh? I keep on reading online reviews about the place which are full of positive feedback left by people who claims it is a top notch boarding school.
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My mom has cancer please help me. 1 2 3 4
by Guest Nimani- 34 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru Ji Ki fateh. My mom has a cancer at very rare place, the doctors are not giving much hope. But I have confidence in god and I know ardaas is always heard by our guru . I read before posting this that everyone is prayin for bibi Jagjeet kaur to get well I m praying to god for her too. Can I please ask sangat to do ardaas for my mom. She is in a lot of pain she wants to amrit shak as soon as she can but our gurudwaras do it when there is a mahapurush coming from India. But may be on baisakhi. But pleAse can I beg in front of you sangat to please do ardaas or mool mantar for my mom. That's all I can do for her right now I want my mom to get w…
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Alcoholic
by Guest Singh- 1 reply
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How does one help an alcoholic who doesn’t want help or think he has a problem.
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Social Anxiety
by Guest SINGH- 2 followers
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh. I am 17 year Amritdhari boy. I have Social Anxiety Disorder and i also have shyness since as long as i coukd remember . This disorder disables in almost every walk of my life. 😭 I am just anxious all the time whether while speaking, socializing or even just standing in people. It is so hard for me to practice Sikhi like this. I cant even attend Gurudwara Sahib as i feel so much anxiety meeting people there. I prefer to remain quiet, and alone . But i dont want to spoil my life like this. Any Gursikh , please suggest me or advice me what should i do to start bringing a change in my life . I want to become a Sikh . Ple…
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Food
by Guest Singh24- 0 replies
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Does anyone know if there is any Amritdhari restaurants near darbar sahib Amritsar please
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Marriage
by Guest Harshpreet Kaur- 0 replies
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Sat Sri Akal i m a girl from Punjab Residing in. Canada . I am from Sikh family from SC Caste(Shimmba) . My parents wants me to marry and they gave me choice that i can find my partner on my own . I never founf anyone sensible or caring . But now i founf a guy who is very mature caring and follows spiritual path in his life . He is from Sc caste (chmar). His family is also Sikh. When i told my parents they said u could have found anyone from general and BC caste we would have approved but we cannot marry u in sc caste . I tried convincing them he is well educated , mature person . His family is very good . That guy helped me alot at my lowest times and encouraged me…
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Help marriage issue 1 2 3 4
by Guest Gurvir101- 32 replies
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh Sangat please help me with this problem i am having. I am from the UK, and my family is sikh. Although i do not believe in caste because i follow sikhi, my family is chamar. I met a girl while studying at university and we became friends, however this accidentally blossomed into love without meaning for it to. She is also sikh, but her family is Jatt, and they are very casteist. Although she herself does not believe in caste because she also tries to follow sikhi, her family believe in it strongly. Now we all know here that there is no jaat paat in Sikhi, is there a way to convince her family? I have met the…
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Kathavachak name list 1 2
by Guest raj singh- 12 replies
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wahguru ji ka Khalsa wahguru ji ki fateh can someone send me a list of Katha vachaks that do katha/katha with dharma/kirtan some that I know are masken ji Giani pinderpal singh giani Kulwant singh giani sher singh damdmi taksaal kathavachak/jathedar sant ranjit singh ji sant ishar singhji sant Hari Singh ji randave wale sant Jagjit Singh harkowal sant baljit Singh dada sahib wale rampurkhera wale sant thanks
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During Simran 1 2
by Guest Hurting- 11 replies
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Vaaheguroo Jee Kaa Khaalsaa Vaaheguroo Jee Kee Fateh! :pray: Dear Sangat Jee, I thought it would be best to post on the gupt section due to the nature post and I am unsure whether this is a private matter between myself and Guroo jee. Since I first ever began doing simran whether during the day or amrithvelaa my whole body and mind goes into an uncomfortable and 'wierd state'. It first begins with a mild headache where there seems to be such a large force pushing onto the front of my brain. Then as I continue my mind makes me believe I am flying through the air and then begin to spin vertically its soo surreal. This problem has never gone away no matter what time I …
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Negative Thoughts during Simran and Prayers!!! Scary experience.
by Guest randomperson44- 0 replies
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WJKK WJKF, I am having great difficulty with my thoughts. Ever since I started doing Japji Sahib and Simran after a few months Ive been bombarded with negative thoughts and it is getting to the point where my mind cant focus properly on prayers or Simran. This never happened to me before and so I don't know what to do with this situation. But I had this experience where I was doing Simran and then I feel asleep and then had this sleep paralysis type of dream where an entity was taunting me of doing Simran (making fun of me). It is to the point where when I go the the Gurudwara, I get scared for some reason. I don't know what to do please help!!!
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Forgiveness for serious sin
by Guest H singh- 0 replies
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When I was young everything was good and I had really good time doing paath and attending gurpurabs. When I went to college I became worldly and started drinking as well. Then I started to become atheistic and started to question religion. I became increasingly angry towards religion and on one night I became so angry that I didn't think about the consequences and said some really bad words about Gurus. I other word I did beadbi in my mind. After that things became really scary and strange. In my dreams I saw amrithdhari sikhs with Kirpan on my necks and with very angry look in there eyes. I became really scared and I started asking forgiveness to Gurus about what I have …
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Kaam
by Guest hsj- 0 replies
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I am 15 years and had amrit at 13 years and by mistake had intercourse with my sister. Should I take amrit again?
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Mom-In-Law Factor.... 1 2
by Guest B@W- 15 replies
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The Mom-in-law-factor…. Ok so in comparison to everything in the world my problems are zilch! But I would like to post this in gupt because a) I don’t want people to know who I am b) I would like others to share their advice/experience in an anonymous manner if they so wish I don’t even know if I should be writing this on a sikhee board but I am just after someone to ‘talk’ too as I have moved from my parents town and left all my family and friends behind. I am married and live with my in-laws. I like to think I get on well with them and that I am useful to them and help them but my relationship with them is not so good at the moment I feel that my M-I-L does not re…
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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