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In Christianity there is a concept called the natural order. It states that God is over man, man is over woman and woman over children. It basically sets the man as the head of the house. Is there such a concept in Sikhism?
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Where to get a Wedding Bana/Cholla for Singhs? in UK preferably.
by Guest Singh001- 1 follower
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Where can i get a wedding bana/chola with Kadaeh (Embroidery) around the edges/cuffs.? Based in the UK but dont mind traveling to Punjab but need to know where to get from? is there any links or images or anything someone can direct me too. thank you in advance.
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shouldi give up sikkism, or wait till i'm more control of my life?
by Guest AMANDEEP- 2 followers
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so, i'm in year 12, uk. my parents are like sort-of connected with sikhism, but not much. they still eat meat and modify the hair, and while i try not too. my parents forces me to like remove the hairs and eat the meat and i try not to but i most of the time don't win and i feel guilty. i wanted to take amrit, but my parents don't let me and say im too young. i've learnt gurmukhi and the rehat myraada from online and gurughar. every time i take a step towards being a sikh, they pull me back. i feel like i'm losing my faith what should i do? should i give up or should I wait till i'm more control of my life?
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Prayer vs Hukam
by Guest 🧁🧁🧁- 1 follower
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If everything is prewritten, what’s the purpose of prayer that asks for things from god. Are we suppose to do such prayers or just stay in guru’s hukam, because i think gurbani preaches both which is contradictory.
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eating meat and punishment
by Guest amandeep- 0 replies
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i ate meat, and i stopped and i don't have amrit. but if i want to take it, does that result in a punishment for braking the 4 bujar kerehta?
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Need Help with my life.
by Guest RV Singh- 2 replies
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WaheGuruji ka khalsa WaheGuruji ki Fateh 🙏 WaheGuruji recently Blessed me with Amrit and by his grace, i have been reciting and learning Gurbani and kirtan since the age of 5 (22 now) but my life is filled with problems, i have not recieved any happiness until now. I got anxiety and depression due to overthinking. I am afraid that my faith will start to shiver this way 🙁 what do i do ? I do path by his grace whenever I have time (besides my daily nitnem) Maharaj ji takes kirtan seva from me as well. But i am still suffering from so many Financial problems. I don't know if i would be able to survive with this mind. Chint bhavan man paryo humara …
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Inquiry
by Guest Alex- 0 replies
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hi. i am new to sikhi and i going over the rehat maryada, i still have few questions about amritdhari living, hoping i could ask. 1) i've read it is mandatory to do cold bath in the mornings? is that true or do warm showers work? 2) during bathing, ive also read that you need to keep your head covered with a cloth until you wash your hair and then tie it again as soon as the soap is out. i'm confused on this, is it mandatory? what does it mean? how does the hair dry? 3) do you have to wash with soap everyday, or soap in main parts, and water on rest work? 4) as someone who has heavy and curly hair, it takes a long time to manage and dry. do i have to w…
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Sanjog, Marriage, Destiny, & Free Will 1 2 3
by Guest Life- 20 replies
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I just have afew questions that I would like your help and thoughts on, as I have been thinking alot about life lately and on this aspect. I believe/think that in terms of marriage your sanjog is already. Your husband/wife is already chosen for you at birth (like the saying in wedding cards) and it is just a matter of Waheguru brining the two people together on this earth. Then I question and think of how come so many people are getting divorced even after they have been married 10/15 years or more/less. But then I think of someone couples, how they met the situation etc and think no sanjogs are written, its true. First of all, if sanjog is written then how come in thi…
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Requesting Ang please
by Guest illiji13- 1 reply
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Kee Fateh! Sangatji, can someone please let me know what ang the attached sloak is on? Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Kee Fateh!
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I have been using head and shoulders for as long as I can remember. I have never had any issues with it. It completely sorts out the itchy scalp and dandruff. That all changed about 3 months ago when for some reason head and shoulders changed their formula. They said that the new forumula is better and more advanced. What a load of bullsh1te. The new formula is made my scalp worse and is alot worse then the old bottle. Anyone notice with their new version bottle. Not sure why they had to go change something that worked.
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Any Easy to understand punjabi katha
by Guest Learning punjabi- 2 replies
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Learning punjabi and wanted to know which punjabi kathvachaks speak in an easily understandable punjabi which will help me
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What does guru sahib say about suicide? 1 2
by Guest Roughwinds- 1 follower
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What does maharaj say about suicide? Taking ones own life? I feel like I have nothing left to live for. No will left. I just keep thinking about the future. I really don't want to do this. I don't want to be alive. Everything about my life. I've failed so bad. I don't want to continue. I know the afterlife is going to be hell but I guess because I've not experienced it, I don't really care much about it. Deal with that when I get there I guess. I don't know. I don't like feeling like this. I don't know what to do.
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Beard care from the past
by Guest Beard- 0 replies
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Taking a look at some old pictures, and was wondering what was the beard care from the Singh’s that used to live during those times?, would love for some more information
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Same pind marriage
by Guest Has to be anonymous- 1 follower
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I want to discuss something I’m going through. My grandfather moved from neighbouring pind to our current pind, at that time my father was little. My grandfather barted some land in this pind from our original pind. I was born here in this pind. The real problem is I want to marry a girl from our current pind, She’s also very serious to get married. We don’t share any ancestral relations at all and we are jatts and our surnames are different. Currently I’m in Canada and she’s also coming to Canada soon. I’ve been backing of because of this problem but she always stood still. Could anyone suggest a solution to what we’re going through?? Our parents know each other …
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Social anxiety and shyness
by Guest Sahib- 1 follower
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh I am a 17 yr old amritdhari sikh boy . I have been struggling with extreme shyness, social anxiety and introversion as long as i could remember . I was always insulted by school seniors , students and other people. I never said anything wrong to anyone but still had to suffer from all this stuff. Nowadays, i am even so scared to leave my house . I always remain tense and anxious whenever am in my house or outside . Everyone of my neighbours , relatives seems like hating me or thinking weird about me . I dont know what to do . I recently have completed my 12th class . Now i would have to go abroad for higher education . …
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Is that...? ਵਖੜਿਆ ਦਾ ਝਟਕਾ? and not ਬਕੜਿਆ ਦਾ. Unique ones not goat ones. -
Was listening to Sant Ji's katha on youtube. Sant ji stated apart from the traditional raags, there is nothing wrong if Kirtan is sung in other NON - Raags set up by our Guru Ji's. His example: Think of poison in a bowl. Drinking the poison then blaming the bowl is silly. The poison is bad not the bowl. Likewise, we will never call a bowl Amrit once it contains Amrit init. Sameway it's not the raags being good / bad... it's WHAT we put into those raags. How many times Kirtan was sung but on a track of sum Bollywood tune? It is happening in Gurudwara by Raagis! Youtube also has Kaweshri jatha singing history of 1984, on Dr Dre's - Still Dre track. Rap instrumental/ Bolly tunes stand neutral. We can either put bad things and sing with our own remixes and lyrics... or we can recreate to sing Shabads of Gurbabi, kirtan and Sikh Prachaar over them.
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Suraj Prakash is History on our Gurus. The main Gurudwara in Leicester does katha on it 6 days a week. To get the answer very important to listen to WHOLE of Suraj Prakash.
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