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Bipran Ki Reet 1 2 3
by Guest Sheena- 26 replies
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May I please ask what Bipran Ki Reet is?
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Tapoban
by Guest Guest- 3 replies
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What's happened to the forum?
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Other Options Other Than Meat
by Guest Pavanjyot Kaur- 5 replies
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Sangat recently i have just known that I'm lacking red blood cells. The docz advised me to eat meat. But I dont want 2. What other foods bust up red blood cells? HELP PLEASE !
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Simran
by Guest _GUPT_- 6 replies
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Recently, I feel like crying and feel sad when Im doing Simran. Has anyone been through this as well?
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I know of someone who tried to take an overdose and were amritdhari at the time...would this be considered as a kurehit? Would they need to re-take amrit?
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Death. How Did U Deal With It?
by Guest confused- 7 replies
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how did u guys deal with loosing close loved ones???? did it bring u closer to god or not??? im probably guessing most replys are going to be sayin do as much simran and read bani etc but i mean the other stuff....at home with family,school/colege/work,friends etc etc etc
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Youth And Sikhi
by Guest ~-devotion-~- 1 reply
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waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh!!!! Sangat jio, I was sitting outside today, just thinking, and then i started to think about todays Sikh Youth. Young Sikhs, shud be Striving to learn about their religion/sikhi. And the thing they strive for in their lives is fasion, Boys/Girls, Etc. Gurbani is also very important. Reasoning for this is that, Gurbani is Our guru's Teachings. Many of todays Sikh youth reject wat the ir religion is, and wat sikhi means to them. Living in weastern Society, youths of almost ever culture give up on it, because its to strictt and they would never be able to fallow it to the full extent, so then whats the point of being 'part sikh'…
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Hunkaar Vs Sikhi
by Guest Guest- 4 replies
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How do u distinguish between hunkaar and sikhi? For example, i was recently in conflict with a member of my family where I said that as per sikhi, we should be trying to go to gurdwara as often as possible and they told me that as gursikhs, we have to perfect in everything (not just spiritually), so if i was not the best at studies or at work, then I wasnt a gursikh! When I tried to explain my point of view, I got told that I was displaying hunkaar and that because they were older than me, they were definately correct!! I have had other conflicts with this person and because from my understanding of sikhi, their point of view doesn't seem to be in line with my understand…
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Got Told Off 1 2
by Guest Paramveer Kaur- 15 replies
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Dear brothers and sisters, I thought that a sikh is allowed to oil their hair. Today I was in town with my friends and this Aunty come up to me and asked whether I was sikh. I said yes to her then she told me that I'm not suppose to oil my hair if I'm a Sikh it agaisnt Rehit Maryada. (I'm not Amrit Dhari yet but hoping to be to the near future). I just wanted to ask why are some people against oiling hair? I only oil my hair because they get dry quite quick. It's not like I'm doing it for the sake of beauty. Why do so many sikhs stick to superstitions and twist the Rehit Maryada words around regarding themselves being Sikhs?
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Alcohol On Side
by Guest Guest- 9 replies
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ITS RECENTLY BEEN BOUGHT 2 MY ATTENTION THAT MY MASSAR MIGHT BE CONSUMING ALCOHOL HE IS AMRITDHARI HE HAD A DRINKING PROBLEM IN THE PAST HE WAS CAUGHT BUYING BEER CANS IN A SHOP BY MY OTHER COUSIN ALSO EMPTY BEER CANS WERE FOUND UNDER HIS BED BY HIS SON ALSO IT HAS BEEN NOTED THAT YOU CAN SMELL IT ON HIM I DONT KNOW HOW I SHOULD CONFRONT HIM IM AMRITDHARI AND IT MAKES ME SO SAD AND ANGRY THAT SOMEONE IN MY FAMILY CAN DO BEADBI LIKE THIS OF MY FATHER AND HIS PRECIOUS GIFT OF AMRIT ALSO I DONT HAV EVIDENCE MYSELF IM JUST GOING BY WHAT I HAVE BEEN TOLD I DON'T CARE IF IT CAUSES AGGRO BETWEEN OUR FAMILIES BECAUSE DISRESPECT OF MY KHALSA FAMILY MEANS SO MUCH MORE …
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About Tell Me About Rss
by Guest manmeet singh- 3 replies
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PLease any body tell me that how the harmful RSS for sikhi in india?
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Parents- we all know how undermining they can be not to mention some things too embarrasing toask them about :wub: Giani ji's - tend to be too blunt or will talk about something completely different then what you cam to them for, and 100 percant of time will talk in panjabi! Your bros or sisters - reliable source but sometimes you need to ask things that even they caould not be asked Youth/sangat/without going to them/at anytime - now that seems comfortable, free, easy and for some people if htey require a gupt place to share their problems, seek help of any questions :wub: :wub: So for the paajis or penjis that take mick out of sum pples questions, read above fi…
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Help Me Please 1 2 3
by Guest _Singhnee_- 27 replies
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VJKK, VJKF Sangat Jee I'm stuck in a massive Dillema. I don't know what to do. My parents want me to get married but abroad mainly because they think there are not enough Amrit Dhari's in UK. I'm an Amrit Dhari myself aswell. This guy from India they chose come down to see me, but I didn't like him as he doesn't even have general knowledge. I'm studying pharmacy and all he wants to do is plumbing. However I also know another Amrit Dhari guy, we only chat at the moment but I kind of like him, and I he likes me too. (Havent done anything wrong). But I'm scared of my parents that they'll get upset if I dont go ahead with the one from India because they seemed to like …
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Mum's Making Life Hell
by Guest Amar Singh- 6 replies
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I donno why but my mum seems to want to make my life hell and wants me out the house she even says that openly....... i'm at the age where they are starting to talk about marriage... and before I do get married I need a good job and a place of my own, which I dont have. I see friends and cousins doing great and settling down but I don't see future. I feel like crap and mum doesnt understand she just keeps hurting me mentally saying im not trying hard enuff looking for a job even though I am she doesnt care. I wish I could just have my own place somewhere right now away from the grief im getting at home..... but I dont .... Anyone feel the same? any advice? Is there…
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Attachment?!
by Guest ....- 3 replies
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ok so i have a really close mate we get on really well.we talk ALOT about all sorts of things. hes someone i can really open up to and tell my problems etc. ive known him for years and years and is like a brother i never had. but recently i havent been able to speak to him and feel really let down which is really silly!!! and sometimes even feel that he doesn't want to speak to me! its as if i NEED to speak to him and i get so confused because gurbani says that all friendships etc are false but i think im too attached to him! i dont know! so what should i do?!?! a dont want to loose a good brother, hes such an amazing gursikh!!!!!!
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