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Sandhu & Ghotra marriage 1 2 3 4
by Guest Arsh- 35 replies
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Sat Shri Akal... I am girl coming from Sandhu family of Bathinda ,Punjab. I have been in relationship with a guy from lubana community (surname-ghotra) for last 7 years. Now as we decided to get married my parents stood up that this can’t happen. We are jatt and can’t marry BC. Lot of horrible stuff going on, they say I have lost it. I am ruining there image and what will relatives say and that nobody in our families married this way. Situation is that I have to choose one. Very difficult choice to make. The boy is well educated,settled and comes from decent family of Gurdaspur. I don’t understand how to make my family understand. Can someone explain me who are…
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I am lil slow in reading punjabi....... n the words are difficult to understand.. please somebody help me out with the explanation for the same. here the link: http://i.imgbox.com/abduaAAO.jpg Thanks :D
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guidance Need help and guidance
by Guest gunjan- 0 replies
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Can someone pls give me a link to shastar mala paath because I am confused when I am checking on YouTube it shows very short video but when I am checking pdf It shows pages after pages . Also can I do shastar mala path 11 times for 40 days ? Any Bhul chuk maaf
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Help needed
by Guest gunjan- 0 replies
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Can someone pls give me a link to shastar mala paath because I am confused when I am checking on YouTube it shows very short video but when I am checking pdf It shows pages after pages . Also can I do shastar mala path 11 times for 40 days ? Any Bhul chuk maaf
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Feeling disconnected from Waheguru Ji
by Guest Kaurgupt- 0 replies
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Hello, Sat Sri Akal I’m seeking advice regarding feeling disconnected from Babaji. Due to a recent event in my life (which I feel guilty for), I have been feeling very disoriented and unaligned from Waheguru Ji. I have been doing nitnem and ardaas multiple times everyday but it still doesn’t feel like I’m in tune with Babaji yet. I have asked for clarity and forgiveness from Babaji but I don’t feel that Waheguru ji is listening. Maybe it’s my guilt that’s causing this but looking for advice to move forward. apologies if I have said something wrong or offended anyone. Thank You
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Embarrassing Nose Hair
by Guest _embarrassed singh_- 8 replies
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im a singh, im really embarrased to have long nose hairs sticking out of my nose and i obviously dont want to cut it, but i was just wondering if theres anyone else with a similar problem and if so what do they do about it. this is a serious topic and its affecting my self confidence
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Pakistan Rishta
by Guest curiousjah- 0 replies
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It seems like with feminism becoming a strong issue and difficulty of finding traditional women in western and indian sangat, just curious as to what process might be in terms of finding a Sikh girl from Pakistan?
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Bujjer Kuraits
by Guest Mistake- 0 replies
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Physical relation or par istri sang is bujjer kurehit. what about mental lust on par istri? I believe this is also BK? With new kal yug morcha - porn - this is also BK? What if someone accidentally did huth russ(masturbation) but thought only of their own wife would that also be BK? What does DDT maryada say? See attachment.
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Thinking about someone 1 2 3
by Guest JaiKanhaiya- 24 replies
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I keep thinking about someone that I should no longer be thinking about and Im not sure what to do? I want to forget them, they forgot me, But I cant shake this. My life has moved on but my memory hasn't
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Mind wandering during Simran
by Guest Pawandeep- 0 replies
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh I have a question for which I need suggestion/help from the members basee on their experience and learning. Whenever I sit to do path or simran, my mind wanders a lot. Its been 5 months now but I cant fix my mind at one place even for 2 minutes. Sometimes when I am doing path I would not even realise that I have finished half of the path and not being there. My mind is day dreaming and thinking various things and the visions are in front of me This is really painful as I try my level best to concentrate but after a while I am somewhere else. I want to be able to develop my focus and grow from there. I …
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh When I path/simran I get bad thoughts. I start saying bad things to Guru Ji and Gursikhs, and it distracts me and puts me off sometimes when I get a lot. It makes me feel down and I start getting headaches when I force my self to try and focus. I feel guilty, that these thoughts are coming. When I wake up or am half asleep these thoughts come, and I feel that Guru Ji won't really love me or the Gursikhs. Sometimes my mind says bad stuff to happen to my family or friends, I don't mean these thoughts they just come. Is it ok if i just say Waheguru and ignore these thoughts when they come? Any advice on how to stay strong …
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Sleeping And Reciting 1 2
by Guest _sleeping_singh_- 18 replies
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Might be a wierd question but it is something that I thought about after it had happened. Sometimes (when I say sometimes, I mean like maybe once every 5-6 months), when I'm asleep I kinda wake up. I'm still asleep, my body is still asleep, I know I'm still asleep. I know of nothing around me. I don't whether it's day or night outside or anything but I'm awake. Wierd to explain - bit like a lucid dream when you know you're dreaming and you can start to control it, except on these occasions, I'm not dreaming. Any way, I'm asleep and awaken gradually whilst still in my sleep. As I wake up whilst still asleep, I find my mind reciting Japji sahib. It's wierd, it's like a ta…
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Hazur Sahib Maryada
by Guest Sevak- 0 replies
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Has anyone lived for a considerable time in Hazur Sahib or knows family there. I have heard it is routine for amritdhari sikhs to take alcohol and other drugs? Is this true? Does the Takht Hazur Sahib consider Alcohol as one of the bujjer kuraits? Do almost all Nanded Sikhs take alcohol.
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Feeling unwanted
by Guest Truth- 1 reply
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Male, married for 10 years to my Wife, who I met via a relative for 6months prior to settling down. 3 young children, 2, 4 and 6. Hard working, respectful, strong minded, commited and reliable. Coming into the 10th year of being married, finding that my Wife had taken a keen interest in another male that she meets regularly at the gym. I thought I have my Wife everything, including, comfort, love, stability, emotional and physical support, yet she felt the need to pursue interest in another male, half my age, of an English, white background. I graft hard and look after myself, both physically and mentally, but since my wife's relationship with this younger male developed …
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Can Sikhs Straighten Their Hair? 1 2
by Guest Confused- 14 replies
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Gurfatehji, I am keshadhari but I am not amritdhari. I would like to know if we, Sikhs, can straighten our hair. As I know, we cannot cut our hair or dye it. What about straightening it? Is it allowed? If no, please provide a reference or evidence so that I can understand more. Thank you in advance.
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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