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dealing with shame and guilt
by Guest Anonymous- 1 reply
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mental health +guilt/shame/anxiety + accepting hukam So, i was wondering what parts of SGGS ji and Bani speaks on mental health as well as dealing with shane and what not. To elaborate, i have bpd and as such have trouble detaching shame/guilt/etc from my past actions/situations/circumstances. As i try to incorporate Naam more and more into my daily life, i become more and more educated on/aware of/conscious of past behaviours/their consequences/behavioural cycles that i had/have or regurgitated from family and loved ones. Thus, as i learn more (thanks to Waheguru ji ofc), i find myself hurting and feeling shame for the actions i had taken/ways i behaved and tre…
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Grief, doubt and paath
by Guest Preet- 0 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji Fateh, My question is in relation to feeling scare of doing paath. I used to do paath regularly and do ardaas for my mother's health but she passed away. then I did not do paath for many years. I gathered my courage and started praying when my brother fell sick and he also passed away. Now I am very scared of doing paath. I want to do it but feel scared that something might go wrong. Is babaji angry with me? If not, then why did this happen and how can I deal with it?
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Confused To Do Paat?
by Guest Gupt- 4 replies
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Well i've got this urge of doing paat! - i wanna do it and feel like doing it to refresh the mind and get closer to God. I eat meat/fish (whenever), me and my family buy meat/fish and we have acohol in the house. I wanna try and set days of consuming meat/fish, i do wanna (in time) stop eating meat..fish maybe. Anywho, we have Gutkeh in our house in the top room, we cleaned our house and moved things.. and we had acohol in that room and we moved it in my room ( we had a wedding! ) And in the back of my mind it sprung to me that when i do Kirtan Sohila ( you do it just before u go sleep, in bed ) that i have acohol in my room. I dont want this to set me back, as i wanted…
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About relatives and marriage
by Guest Kaur- 4 replies
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Sat Shri Akal ji, I was thinking many times should I discuss this topic in sikh forum or not. Now, I decided to share that. I am living in Australia. When I came Australia after 1 year my father died. My all relatives tell or can say pressure my mom now you should found a girl for your son that will help you to come up from this situation. My mother was already in trauma so she thought thar her father, mother or bother, sister thinks good for her. So, all relatives started to found a girl for my brother. My mother’s sister(my massi ji) tells about a girl to my mother and said she is doing IELTS you should marry your son with that girl. Your daughter and son will be toge…
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Sadh sangat ji waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh The following is an old maryada of doing paath of bhram kavach baani 1. Time: 3 hours before sunrise (excluding the time of brush,kesi ishnaan. ...) Wear clean clothes, sit on floor with carpet or any sheet on it. 2. Requirement: a.Keep pure water in a clean sarabloh container (baata), b. Dhoof. c. Pure desi ghee di jot ( diva). 3. Process : a. After kesi ishnaan, arrange the things of requirement (dhoof, batti) b.do nitnem of 5 baanis c. ardas of 5 baanis d. 32 paaths e. Ardass of 32 paaths Dont for…
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Kathavachak name list 1 2
by Guest raj singh- 11 replies
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wahguru ji ka Khalsa wahguru ji ki fateh can someone send me a list of Katha vachaks that do katha/katha with dharma/kirtan some that I know are masken ji Giani pinderpal singh giani Kulwant singh giani sher singh damdmi taksaal kathavachak/jathedar sant ranjit singh ji sant ishar singhji sant Hari Singh ji randave wale sant Jagjit Singh harkowal sant baljit Singh dada sahib wale rampurkhera wale sant thanks
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Dream of visiting gurudawara and praying
by Guest Ruby D- 2 followers
- 5 replies
- 457 views
Hi can someone pls help me interpret my dream. Last night (rather I should say early morning) I had a dream of visiting a gurudawara sahib and praying there. What could this be.
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Requesting original Simran recording
by Guest Sangat1- 2 replies
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WJKK WJKF, requesting support from you all to identify the original recording of the following Simran. I have been through all ~2k comments and unable to verify who’s voice/simran this was. C
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Alcoholism recovery
by Guest Singh- 4 replies
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I am struggling with alcohol use disorder - my drinking has put me in unsafe situations and I have no doubt that if I continue down this path, I will be back in jail or in the hospital. Does the Gurdwara or community have any resources that can help? I have looked into AA and things, but it felt cultish to me- I would prefer to pursue my recovery around the word of our Gurus, and I am not sure where to begin. Do I just show up to the Gurdwara and say I have an addiction problem? Do I perform service every time I feel a temptation? Any advice is welcomed.
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Sikhi matrimonial site recommendations
by Guest MrSingh7- 7 replies
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Hi, Is anyone able to recommend sikhi matrimonial sites/apps as i'm struggling currently. Looking for Sehajdhari/Amritdhari women. I know Shaadi.com is taken the mick out of but has anyone used or would recommend? Thanks for any replies in advance.
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Why do some Singh’s and singhnia, refuse degh?
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Panth da gadaar
by Guest Gurjant Singh- 1 follower
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Just came across this video, apparently this gadaar is still living in the uk, can anyone tell me more details on who he is
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I Dropped A Gutka Sahib 1 2 3
by Guest s- 1 follower
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sadh sangat ji yesterday i was doing some sewa at a gurdwara sahib and unkwongily by accident when cleaning a sundar gutka sahib dropped frm the shelf ( it was my fault coz i moved stn) now i fl real bad, sadh sangat ji what do i do other than ardaas?
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Is love marriage in same pind allowed? PLEASE HELP 1 2
by Guest Stranger101- 17 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji Ki Fateh I am a 20 year old girl living in Canada with my parents. A few years ago, we went to visit family back in India where I met my childhood bestfriend who I grew up playing with (they were our neighbors). When I came back to Canada, we started talking and became really close. When my parents found out I talk to him, they got extremely mad, threatened to kick me out of the house, and said I was gonna ruin their “izzat” in society. I don’t understand what I am doing wrong. I only lived in India for a few years of my life so how is this wrong? My dad says that everyone in same pind are siblings... but we are not related in any w…
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Is "Sikhni" an appropriate word to refer to Sikh girls or is it a slur as I've only heard non-Sikhs using Sikhni.
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https://www.sikhawareness.com/topic/13602-destruction-of-panjabi-education-system-post-annexation/ -
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By dallysingh101 · Posted
You can skim through it, you'll get the idea.
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