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hi im a sikh women (24) and i am not a virgin but i want to marry a turbanned singh with beard. i found such a guy we became best friends first and he said he liked me when we first met. i told him i didnt see him that way and he decided we could be friends then only. we talk to each other about anything and everything and he has NEVER judged me and when he told he had never been with a women i was happy. but he is a virgin and i am not and he knows it...............i have fallen in love with him but i am scared he will never be want to be with me because of it...............i wasnt religious before but NOW i am so will a singh like him want to be with…
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what are the sikh beliefs on having anand karaj whilst pregnant. 1 2
by Guest tarsem- 10 replies
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dear sat sangat ji, can you tell me what are sikh teachings and beliefs og having an anand karaj whilst being pregnant. this has been on my conscience for a while now and have mustered the courage to ask. i have looking for advice and answers but have so far been unsuccesful.
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Waheguru Ji Ka khalsa waheguru ji or fateh According to some puratan Sikhs and Sikh accounts, Havan Maryada was performed by shamshir pita Sri satguru Gobind Singh ji Maharaj. If so, how was Havan performed and what was the Maryada for Havan? E.g what banis were read? Bhul chuk maf Karo ji
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I've made a mistake
by Guest amsingh- 0 replies
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I've made a mistake, I am 17 years old and I cut my beard for the first time, I'm instantly regretting it and I am now questioning what made me do it. I don't want to do it again but am afraid people will consider me a fool for cutting then keeping again straight away. Many relatives and friends used to push me to cut and used to say one day I they think I will cut. I have made my mind up that I will keep it again and never again dishonor my kesh. How do I do so without looking foolish.
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Nihang Singh Nitnem: 1 2
by Guest neeliyan fauja- 12 replies
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WJKK WJKF, this is the nitnem of the nihang singh, whoever calls themselves a nihang should recite these baniyan if not then they are just abusing the name and playing dress up in their bana. In fact, anyone and if not everyone should strive to do this nitnem, rthe amrit vela nitnem may seem like a lot of baniyan but trust me its not. its just puranparmaanand. GURBARAKAAL morning (in the following order) dumalla da salok, jap ji, shabad hazare, jaap, shabad hazare P10, tva prasadi, tva prasadi dinan ki, nihaklanki avtar, 33 svaiiye, sampuran chaupai sahib, anand sahib, chandi di vaar, ath chandi svaiye, Shastra naam mala, bhagauti astotra, karninama, khalsa mul …
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Hi all, First post, apologies if this is a topic that many not might want to open up or discuss because I have done searches on it myself. I have a friend that has been in contact with 'sikhs' and ever since she has she's changed. She has been in contact with people on the Satnam Info website related to Dassan Dass and others in that group which are in the U.K. After noticing many changes in her behaviourisms and mentality on life it moved me to explore what was going on because I know what true religion is about and what these guys seem to be doing seems extremely wrong. I don't know if this is going to upset some people but it just feels as if shes part of some sort o…
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Throughout history we have been tested and tried. We remained steadfast and resiliant. The events that took place in Punjab and outside of Punjab in the past years made it quite clear we are big players in the game which kept the world powers on edge. It started off with the drug pandemic in Punjab, to the uproar by Bhai Amritpal Singh to the Farmer's protest. Outside of Punjab the deaths of Avtar Singh Khanda (UK) and Hardeep Singh Nijjar (Canada) created a stir within our community. This was probably our first real opportunity to establish something but how quickly members of our own community forget history. We have been a threat to civilization in the past and th…
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Need to retake amrit feeling really guilty
by Guest Gupt Singh- 0 replies
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Wjkk wjkf Ive recently done a really bad mistake and have had homosexual relations with a male I am an amritdhari sikh and I feel really guilty. Im not very good at punjabi and I dont know what to say to the panj pyare.
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Is it me or a lot more young people dying?
by Guest Curious- 4 replies
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Seems as a lot more deaths in younger age groups since covid began, mostly of heart attacks does all seem abit fishy
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(dsgmc-sangat q&a) what to do?
by Guest .1699- 0 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji Ki Fateh. I was born in a semi Sikh family (mother Hindu, father Sikh ) .my grandmother was amritdhari but my grandfather is Hindu . i am some how attracted toward "Sikhi" and want to become Sikh but mother is against it she do not want to see me as a Sikh . she has been fighting with my father for not keeping (kesh) I want to follow reheat maryada but i am enable to do so. i hesitate to talk about all this to my father. I do not know what to do ...
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(dsgmc-sangat q&a) what to do?
by Guest .1699- 0 replies
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I was born in a semi Sikh family (mother Hindu, father Sikh ) .my grandmother was amritdhari but my grandfather is Hindu . i am some how attracted toward "Sikhi" and want to become Sikh but mother is against it she do not want to see me as a Sikh . she has been fighting with my father for not keeping (kesh) I want to follow reheat maryada but i am enable to do so. i hesitate to talk about all this to my father. I do not know what to do ...
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Looking For The Older Shere Punjab That Used To Hang Around The Farcroft Pub In Handsworth 1 2 3
by Guest Mysticrosen40- 28 replies
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28years ago. I'm looking for the older Shere punjab.bush,monkey,kiree,rarge,jota,Tony and the rest does anybody still talk to them,cus my uncle who is ill wants to see them guys before he goes,I'm begging you for all the Sikhs or hindu''s that no them thank you mystic x
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Baba Lakh Data Peer and Dargahs
by Guest learner sikh- 3 replies
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Sangat jee, on my last visit to Punjab, I noticed so many dargahs and tiny shrines dedicated to different muslim peers, most popularly Baba Lakh Data. I also noticed and heard that in most pinds they have at least one dargah dedicated to a peer. How come there is so much sufi influence in Punjab? Did anyone else notice this?
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Sant Baba Jaswant Singh Sodhi
by Guest Gupt- 0 replies
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Does anyone know who Sant Baba Jaswant Singh Sodhi is? Never heard of them before but can anyone share anything about them?
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Sandhu & Ghotra marriage 1 2 3 4
by Guest Arsh- 35 replies
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Sat Shri Akal... I am girl coming from Sandhu family of Bathinda ,Punjab. I have been in relationship with a guy from lubana community (surname-ghotra) for last 7 years. Now as we decided to get married my parents stood up that this can’t happen. We are jatt and can’t marry BC. Lot of horrible stuff going on, they say I have lost it. I am ruining there image and what will relatives say and that nobody in our families married this way. Situation is that I have to choose one. Very difficult choice to make. The boy is well educated,settled and comes from decent family of Gurdaspur. I don’t understand how to make my family understand. Can someone explain me who are…
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"sabh sikhan ko hukam hai, GURU MAYEYO GRANTH". If HUMAN BEINGS could show us how to be perfect sikhs then Guru Gobind Singh ji wouldn't have ended the line of human Gurus and passed gurgaddi over to Guru Granth Sahib Ji . Remember that Guru Nanak Dev Ji predicted we were only one of thousands of universes hundreds of years before science discovered this. The Gurus were capable of predicting the future; if they wanted us following one select human in the future they would have predicted them and told us who to follow. Don't call me a fake sikh loooool. Cos you know what "Sikhs" who follow humans like YOU do are called? Namdharis. Sikhs only answer to the 11 Gurus and Waheguru ji. Nobody else. That's part of why Sikhi is so beautiful, the simplicity. We can ACKNOWLEDGE what other people say but not when it contradicts the orders or nature of our Gurus (in this case, using the most modern & effective martial arts/ weapons like they did instead of blindly trying to preserve history, then thinking a 300 year old martial art would still be effective today). If Sikhi was abt preserving history rather than practicality, then Guru Ji could've given us a caveman club instead of a kirpan/2 foot long sword. But then we go into the whole "is a gun a kirpan" argument... -
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Ridiculous. Just chuck your history away because it's not gurbani. What a joker.. typical modern day Sikh. "Sikhism" 🤣🤣🤣 If it wasn't for rattan Singh bhangu how would you even know of your itias? Someone like you just came out of thin air. -
Shastar vidiya . The basis of the unarmed is foundation for the armed combat. There can be a point where u can't get to your weapons. What will you do? Of course the khalsa had unrmed skills. If your sword or weapons broke. What would you do? Grappling etc. wrestling etc. Unarmed combat is known as "platha"
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