I still disagree with much of what you wrote. I think you are taking complex situations and oversimplifying them. I do think that your belief that she should follow gurmat over emotions is very valid, but perhaps she was not aware she was going against it? I certainly am not personally attacking you... from what you have posted before I think you are a great dude who is giving out what you believe to be honest advice. I find fault with some of it, but perhaps I am wrong. Perhaps you are. Perhaps both. God only knows.
-W