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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH Well being a human first , i have always believed that god has created humans equally . GOD IS ONE. We have to respect other religion and races . We shouldn't be calling them by names such like "kalus" and all . Well they are also god's creation right? They are not different from us . We are all still humans. About punjabi girls marrying indians or other religion.... i feel it is not a sin or shame because no one is born with a religion at first Sanjog is made by the god and not humans Not to say all punjabi men are good right? Well if all punjabi men were perfect and if they truely care for their wifes then they wont end up with a divorce !!!! if a punjabi girl can live her life happily witg other race or if a punjabi guy can live his life happily with another race then who are we to judge them . Let them be happy. Love is religion Marrying another religion is not sin because somehow that person is marrying a human and not animal right?

Can you tell us the practicality of chaur sahib?

Lol, that sounds about right. Some are still sozzled from the night before. In recent times most "Sikh" families don't bother turning up to the Anand Karaj... y'know, the actual ceremony that's meant to be the foundation for the whole thing? The reception is where it's at apparently.

Problem with this is that too many girls use a skewed version of this to date their pakistani boyfriend, who sees them coming and either uses them sexually and dumps them; converts them; or at worst pimps them out to his cousins and chachay.

Wow. Racist.

He brings us closer and farther according to his will right? Is that why its so hard to find guru sahib? because he doesn't want me? I've made huge advances in my sikhi in the last few years. I'm slated to take amrit in a few months. So that means guru sahib must want me. BUT why then can't I make a greater effort to find him? Why do I keep getting involved in stupid things like KAAM!!! Why can't I Stop myself when I'm taking amrit da daat, and getting guru's naam in a few months? Whats wrong with me? How do I make the effort? How do i make it so that i want guru sahib enough that i can obstain from the filth that covers my soul? How do i find you? How do I love you? I know even now i receive your love and yet i'll keep sinning. why? because i'll get bored of you, but you'll still be there. How do I make it so that I am with you whenever you are with me? How do I not be me? The filthy retched me? How? How do i find you....in me? sangat ji, please help me not be me. please help me be the like gursikhs i see. the ones i strive to be like. But will never come close to.

Sat Sree Akal.

vaheguroo...... it is hard, but NEVER give up jee...... mahraj is with us every step we take... he loves us as we are his children....... jy BulI jy cukI sweNØI BI qihMjI kwFIAw ] jae bhulee jae chukee saaea(n)aee bhee thehi(n)jee kaadteeaa || Even though I have made mistakes, and even though I have been wrong, I am still called Yours, O my Lord and Master. why wait jee? just go for it quicker the better.... we need to conqer the 5.... it is hard, but build ur jeevan so strong that u will never be tortured by them ever again : ) because thats why ur here.... to recieve this amrit. realise that he is with you meditate on his name : ) ardas

gurfateh. this is a pretty heavy handed hukam to you! if this hukam nama was comming to me, i would just be so ashamed. i wud hang my head downward. i would take this to be guru ji giving me a few 'wakeup calls'. but thats just me.. if you put this shabad into your life, guru ji is telling you that ............... 1. you wernt always ful of kaam. guru ji tells you how you got to be in the kaam state that (you say) you are in. 2. you are showed where this state of self will lead you. 3. your also showed what will happen to you. (understanding bad and good will blend together basically) 4. guru is finally saying to you (in the nicest possible way) that when you die, how r u going to get saved/mukt?.. there is another shabad that has this same line. it is below.. laalach is like greed. so guru says, that you become greedy (for more) ... then t says that there is nothing in this..(only little happiness. and not all the time happiness...sadha sukh) this is below (bhagat kabeer jis bani) lwlc krY jIvn pd kwrn locn kCU n sUJY ]2] laalach karai jeevan padh kaaran lochan kashoo n soojhai |2| He acts in greed to maintain his life and status, and sees nothing with his eyes. ||2|| hor hor jIaUx leI lwlc krdw hY, ies nMU A`KIN (ieh) nhIN id`sdw (ik kwl-AhyrI qoN Cutkwrw nhIN ho skygw) [2[ the whole message is to shake you to wake you up.. the whole notion of being drunk on kaam is very famillar to alot of people. slowly slowly, you can stop it.. new question.. whats the best way to stop somthing? either 1. slowly stop it; so.... a reccouring event of kaam say 7 times a week should be cut to once a week for about 2 weeks. then cut it more... then cut it more, when one day, you will have no need to cut it, because it is then controlled. (the 5 choor are rachaaed into our body. they can only be controlled and cant get rid of them). or 2. substitute it. .... with bani. bani is where we get our strength from. and then on that bani, we do naam. the normal thing would be to choose 1 or the other.... but if you feel solid, then do both! cut it down, as well as sub stitute it... BUT! IF THAT EVEN DONT WORK, try blasting wkd keertan. that will work aswell.. 'pardhaan hai' in kaljug. so try and wake yourself up like this. another thing.. try doing this as a shabad abhyaas ਹੇ ਕਾਮੰ ਨਰਕ ਬਿਸ੍ਰਾਮੰ ਬਹੁ ਜੋਨੀ ਭ੍ਰਮਾਵਣਹ ॥ ਚਿਤ ਹਰਣੰ ਤ੍ਰੈ ਲੋਕ ਗੰਮ੍ਯ੍ਯੰ ਜਪ ਤਪ ਸੀਲ ਬਿਦਾਰਣਹ ॥ ਅਲਪ ਸੁਖ ਅਵਿਤ ਚੰਚਲ ਊਚ ਨੀਚ ਸਮਾਵਣਹ ॥ ਤਵ ਭੈ ਬਿਮੁੰਚਿਤ ਸਾਧ ਸੰਗਮ ਓਟ ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਰਾਇਣਹ ॥੪੬॥ {ਪੰਨਾ 1358} i would to not look at translations because god will give you the giaan... but, it may be better for you to see the translations.. i can translate if you wana.. this is the 'nit jang' to which we do 'raaj' within ourselves for the purpose of wining our mun so when we read ' mun jeetae jug jeet' in our nitnem, we can shout it our loud! gurfateh. one last thing.. sangat is so dam imporetnt!!!!!! sant mahapursh used to say that, if you cant find sangat, do your own mun da sangat... gurfateh plus!!! khalsa does NIT JANG which means he fights every day.. eveil has grows so much now, that we cant even see the enemy approching.. become khalsa and do your daily war.. true khalsa akaal purakh ki fauj. gurfateh

Veerji, Rub te bharosa rakhana sikho. there are times in life when u just have to say, ok, Babaji, I tried enough again and again and failed. So I don't think I can control my actions or world's actions. Babaji, I leave control to yourself only from now on. I am just going to do my nitnem, nam simran, good deeds, sewa and kirat karni. You take care of the rest. SO really from heart, then leave it to him. He is really great, you will see soon that you would be released from this fight between you and your mind. He himself will take care of your affairs. you just have to give up the fight. Rub kade kade udon bahuRda, jado asin laR laR ke thuk jande han. and drop our arms. Prescribing it because tried myself. Not your kind of problems, but some others.

I took an online hukam and this is what i got: Can someone help me understand this. I mean I get the actual shabad (theres translations), but is this shabad a warning of what could happen, or is it that I've done too much wrong that I won't "obtain liberation"?

its kaljug. so ur not along singho, im not gonna lie, i too find my self in that position sometimes, but after listening to katha, i realize that we need to do shabad di veechar we have to think about gurbani, and not just gurbani in general, find a line or shabad that hits ur hard. the one that gets to me is " mann mere, satgu kai bhanai chall" ang 37. maharaj is telling our minds, "hey mind, go along with the hukam on ur satgur, dont do things on ur own budhi, go along with ur satgur's teachings" and as far as the 5 chors, its gonna a long hard battle man, every single day, we have to fight off these five chores and until we dont overcome them, we wont find our maharaj. but only will maharaj's help will we be albe to over come them. lol, might seem like a maze sometimes, like a really complicated system. BUT, THE BIGGEST THING IS STAYING IN MAHARAJ'S HUKAM. maharaj says hukmai andar sab ko, bahar hukam na koe" everthing only comes with time, and only when maharaj wants it to happen. we just have to learn how to adapt to maharaj's hukam, and let me tell u, thats deff. easier said then done. but again, a pankti that goes with that, also on ang 37, "mann mere gur ki mann lai rajae" in which doing so will lead us to everything else.