।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।
I think you should try to get your boyfriend into Sikhi because then Anand Kaaraj can be done. However with that being said this act that you have committed can't be taken lightly. Remember it is a Bajjar Kurhet and a lot Seva will need to be done. (But remember Guru Sahib is very Dyaalu so the paap can be forgiven after going pesh, and by singing more Paath, Kirtan, Naam)
A few lessons that need to be learned:
- a Gursikh can't have a boyfriend or girlfriend
- Dhan Guru Maharaaj has blessed the Panth with the Kachhera. It has a Naala (string to form a knot) as a reminder to not take part in lustful actions. Remember the Panj Kakkars are not just symbols for the look of a Gursikh but have both a physical and spiritual benefits for our Jeevans. Find out about the benefits if you don't know about them already.
।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।