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  1. Who said feminists see men as an atm. House duties need to be done, whether by men or women.
    4 points
  2. Janamashtan Guru Ramdas Ji Chuna Mandi Lahore. Guru Sahib was born here, there also is the place where Guru Sahibs mother did his first ishnaan. Gurdwara was built by the wife of M.Ranjit Singh Rani Datar Kaur. Its amazing as these are the very lanes that Guru Sahib would of grown up in and walked through, selling chickpeas as a child.
    3 points
  3. I won't beat around the bush. There are a few members -- from what they've shared on this forum -- who are going through a rather tough time in terms of spiritual issues related to their personal lives. That's probably an understatement. But it's at times where we begin to feel doubtful about certain things; when we feel alone and abandoned, the vulnerable of us are the most susceptible to outside forces that choose to capitalise on that vulnerability for nefarious purposes. These so-called beacons of hope offer so-called support and understanding; a shoulder to cry on. Don't fall for it, and end up in a situation where you're drawn into the web and the schemes of a wolf in sheep's clothing. Such people will approach as a friend, but their intentions are less than friendly or honourable. I refer in particular to the bibiya on this forum who are at their lowest ebb, and are perhaps most susceptible to these types of individuals. Those from other non-Sikh communities can read everything you post here about your struggles and experiences. Be smart.
    3 points
  4. Sorry what I meant is the 3HO kundalini sikhs, I've read a few of their articles on guru sahib
    3 points
  5. Goreh? Do you not think that white people use this forum aswell or is it strictly for brown people?
    3 points
  6. I’ve been friends with women earning over 100k a year who say that they’d marry a man on a way lower salary so that’s not true.
    3 points
  7. I love guru ram das ji, I feel a sense of peace knowing my life, my marriage is in his hand. I'm sure goreh don't call guru sahib the master of miracles for no reason ?
    3 points
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  9. Yeah he really isn't a well known figure in our community today. I saw a painting of him at a sikh empire exhibition painted by some gorah when bhai sahib was in jail thats how i found out about him. The fact that the british put a reward of 10,000 rupees on who even can capture bhai sahib despite the Sikh empire having already collapsed just shows how powerful he once was. Its sad how he got blind and was in pain in his later years, i guess the darkness of the prison ruined his eyesight. I'v also read how even though he was behind bars people would see glimpses of him outside the prison cell.
    2 points
  10. https://m.punjab.punjabkesari.in/punjab/news/muslim-groom-wears-turban-thank-sikhs-pictures-viral-on-social-media-1133988?amp
    1 point
  11. Gursikha man har preet hai, har naam har teri raam raaje dhan Guru dhan Guru pyaare!
    1 point
  12. No need to imagine mam. Its already happening. Go any famous matrimonial websites and there you will see "kaur" profiles stating "Clean shaven preferred". Most sikh women do prefer mona guy. They only marry sardars to please their familes OR after sleeping around with non sikhs and wanting to redeem themselves for their sins by marrying a sabat surat sikh OR bcoz most sardars are rich and successful. Hardly 1-2% sikh women marry sardars bcoz they love sikhi and love sikhi swaroop. And most of these sikh women are amritdhari or gursikh since childhood. But who cares? I hardly see any sikh woman commenting on these hardships faced by sikh men. Why do you think Amritdhari Sikh men like me want to get married to a non Sikh woman and hate "kaurs"? I live in India(delhi) and so many of my hindu/muslim female friends have complimented my Turban and beard. They find Sikh men more masculine and attractive than non sikh men. Kaurs have dug their own graves and playing typical "woman's card" and blaming ALL sikh men. Just bcoz 1 Singh wants a moni doesn't mean that everyone does. Infact grand majority of kaurs want a mona and pretty much vocal about it. What is your take on this issue? Lastly, read the replies carefully. None of the Singhs supported the guy in question rather told him to not disrespect amritdhari women with facial hair. Plz don't spread pseudo feminism virus here.
    1 point
  13. Wow, an inspiration for us all. I guess we're lucky that you've shared this with us as- it's an eye opener that there's still gursikhs out there who have prem. We can do it too! I hope waheguru ji gives us all the precious gift of his name.??
    1 point
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  15. The studies and anecdotal evidence from other sources would suggest otherwise. In our seemingly humble little community, a young woman (with her best years ahead of her) earning £45,000 would never deign to lower herself by agreeing to marry a male making "only" £35,000. Women on £100k would only ever marry a partner with a lower salary out of absolute desperation for obvious ticking-clock related reasons. And those aren't even the types who are content to embrace the spinster life.
    1 point
  16. You are right and thank you for sharing this reminder because when life's dragging you down you, nobody seems to understand and even your own family will just want you to 'get on with it'. The mind becomes weak and is instantly attracted to any so called 'support'.... What you got to remember is that you don't need anyone to support you, you don't need someone to comfort you- everything you need is within you. Be your own support and nobody will ever be able to bring you down again.
    1 point
  17. Well said brother. Social Media and internet are having some of the dangerous predators with not so good intentions.
    1 point
  18. You really do have a problem with Apnay who defended our community in the 80s and 90s. To take the pi$$ out of those who had the backbone to fight back shows just what a giddarh you are. A weak Islamophile like you wouldn't have lasted a minute in the areas these guys lived in. You really are a joke.
    1 point
  19. This is probably the most profound statement on this website since I joined it many years ago - because it's true.
    1 point
  20. Everybody's looking for the best deal in whatever situation they find themselves in. You give them an inch, they take a mile. Not just true for women either! It's instinctive i suppose.
    1 point
  21. I don't know if that was supposed to be funny but i found that really funny to read ?
    0 points
  22. Oh Ajeet, still complaining about the Mrs ? how is the new mother?btw plenty of females do work to help with family costs AS WELL AS doing the 'domestic' stuff , this is the modern necessity in the West because of high cost of living . But also Men don't want to hold onto old stereotyped roles and often WANT to help with the kids , help them with schoolwork, feed them, even change nappies as part and parcel of the whole 'this is my family' scenario . Not everyone wants to lord over the Other half . Remember two halves makes a whole future.
    -2 points
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