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  1. Gurfateh Sangat ji, We see large number of new membership trying to join our forums and we are not approving those new members who are coming from India. Some of them are non-punjabi names or email ids and we are rejecting all those memberships for the past few weeks. We do not know if they are genuine or some troll for anti-farmers group. For the past 5 years or so, we approve members manually; which is a daunting process but we want the quality in. With recent anti-humanity GOI and their goons trying to use good platforms to spread their agenda or propaganda. For that possible reasons,
    16 points
  2. You're marrying the love of your life (supposedly), and you're more worried about whether if you're walking behind, beside or in front of him. Rather than booking the nearest wedding date available in great anticipation, to get married to person you love, you're delaying the process because of your insecurities. I suggest you go back to basics and ask yourself, what does this person mean to you? why are you marrying him? and why Anand Karaj? and what is your priority in this relationship? Its not too late to reconsider, modern Sikh marriages suggest that marriage isn't for everyone.
    13 points
  3. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa , Waheguru ji ki Fateh , firstly what you are doing is throwing out sikh culture and gurmat for some supposed 'modern' and WISER ???? way , in some mistaken impression you know what Guru ji meant better than he did. If you are happy and grateful for being a sikh on the long line of sacrificing sikhs upon whose bodies you stand then it should not be US the descendents, telling the GURU that 'we know better than you' and altering his given ways to bless you both as a Couple. If you look at the history of the Lavaan it has ZERO to do with Vedic resams as we ar
    12 points
  4. We are Sikhs not Cultural Marxists. If you have it the traditional you are both equally distant from Maharaj. If you have both people level then one is going to be further away. You adapt to Sikhi, Sikhi should not have to adapt to your whimsical ways. If you want a western ceremony, I suggest you have a registry marriage. Simples
    12 points
  5. A village near my house in Ludhiana has a significant Muslim population. The granthi Singh of the Gurdwara Sahib in the village is a jeevan vala Singh and my friend too. A Muslim family in the village were going through huge financial and health problems. The Muslim bibi in the house started suffering from depression and started having suicidal thoughts. She regularly read Quran but nuthing changed. She told her mental agony to the Granthi Singh. He told the bibi that if u want to be near to Allah do paath of Jaap Sahib and if u want to be protected by Allah do paath of Chaupai Sahi
    11 points
  6. Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh Sangat ji i would just like to say one thing, In some of the recent threads where there was talk of Khalsa Raaj,some of the Sangat were convinced that Khalsa Raaj is no where near and that the Panth is in a bad state now.Sangat Pyare Jeoo this is not true at all.The Panth is in Chardikala and Maharaj is taking care of his beloved Children.It is us who have turned our backs away from Him and because of that and only that we are not receiving the full benefits.Do not think that by having Khalsa billionaires we will achieve Khalsa Raj. We need
    10 points
  7. One for his saura and his saala if he has one. One for his wife:
    10 points
  8. So there are individuals willing to conduct such a ceremony, but you don't want to pay their rates? Do you not feel the actual religious or spiritual method by which you are enjoined to your partner is worth the financial outlay? So, the problem isn't "Sikh society" but your frugality, because if the issue truly lay with these backwards Sikhs, you'd be unable to find even one individual willing to conduct whatever abominable concoction of religiosity you deem to be en vogue in the current year. As for the rights and wrongs of the ceremony itself I guess it's a matter of tradition. If the
    10 points
  9. What part of his is good looking or Sikh? He is a punjabi with trimmed dari. Compare him to the ones such as these. They are not only better looking but they are also better and true Sikhs, with fine facial expressions in their eyes and faces, amazingly long and loose dharra and shastar bastar dari all over It’s the Best looking race on earth.
    10 points
  10. Maybe because Jats are the only remaining group who are still actively alpha amongst the Sikh community. We could also ask why are Jats the only group to aggressively take on Delhi in the protests. You can’t knock a group of people who still possess the hot blood needed to take risks.
    9 points
  11. I really am making a conscious effort to adjust my frame of mind so that I'm not viewing reality from a purely masculine and patriarchal perspective, but reading 5hit like this hammers home the absolute futility of it all. We know what she's going to come back with: "Sikhi is outdated / sexist / patriarchal / anti-female" and we're all pendu b**tards who wants to ruin her special day.
    9 points
  12. Lmao, bull5hit. Again, what's the definition of "pray" and how is it enacted? What exactly are they praying for, btw? This is like when people were polled about who they'd vote for between Trump and Hillary. People overwhelmingly asserted for Hillary... then the results came in and Trump won, which means the polled folks didn't reveal their true thoughts / intentions. There's a specific term for this phenomena that I can't remember at this time. You get someone confront you with a clipboard about your religious habits, and unless you completely DGAF you're going to embellish your
    8 points
  13. Focus on the road instead of the people.
    8 points
  14. I love you Watch the movie chaar sahibzaade, read jeevan of sants, and shaheeds. Channel the emotion towards how special opportunity you got. You got a chance at Sikhi only because countless died for it. Remember them, pray for strength like they had The only reason you fall is because you’re trying in the first place. It’s never too late. Test of faith can be brutal but love for Guru Ji carries you through Review what people to keep in your life and those to remove. Do seva of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji and his sangat. Beg Guru Sahib Ji to let you taste the anand of his charan
    8 points
  15. I was 9 when my immediate family member passed away. That’s how the spiritual urge started. Might share more another time.. anyway a few points; - when do happy people remember god? People only remember god in pain - religion is a game, spirituality is something completely different. If your third eye opens you’re in for a big shock. Many religious folk who are famous/respected wear bana are on complete zero within. - 1st stage of bhram gyan is called sub icha (genuine desire of enlightenment arises). Pain is the only thing which finally pushes a person hard enough towards searc
    8 points
  16. From my understanding, Gurbani doesn’t dimmish the contributions of avataars, like Krishan and Raam, but reminds us of their limitations and end mortality. It’s telling us to look beyond the messenger. The way to convey this to the sangat is not easy. That’s why you have extreme positions in the Panth with some discarding all aspects of vedant/sanatan references and concepts, while the other extreme leaving sikhi indistinguishable from another branch of sanatan dharm. Also, giving references from gita is the same as Gurbani mentioning various events and personalities from the past. I
    8 points
  17. dallysingh is a typical Kenyan Ramgarhia going on about his hatred for Jatts. Being of an Indian Ramgarhia background I've never understood why they have this hatred. They are a stuck up bunch who love to show off and think they are better than Indian Sikhs, but they are all show and no substance. They've made Ramgarhia gurdwaras a laughing stock with their relaxed rules. Now he lives in Britain the country which took in his family when Idi Amin and his like were threatening and kicking out the Indians in Africa, and he calls the English people whiteys, honkies etc. Chill out and hav
    8 points
  18. Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh Sangat ji,please read as much bani as possible and do naam simran. May Vaheguru do kirpa on all and protect all. Bhul Chuk Maf
    8 points
  19. Do you honestly think that Americans can even tell the differences between the different styles? Or care about the differences? What a joke. Most "Sikhs" these days can't even tell the difference between different pagh styles.
    8 points
  20. This is not true. I have been to a lot of Sikh weddings. The tradition is for the groom's family to pay $500 to some guy who recently arrived from India to tie a red turban on him.
    8 points
  21. There is no discriminatory practice here, as in Gurbani we as an individual are represented as a bride. A lot of today's society is seeing discrimination in places where there isn't. Please try and adhere to the traditional way of Anand Karaj. No one calls discrimination when the bride comes after the groom in christian marriages - it is a metaphor as well In the past, one had to take Amrit to even have an Anand Karaj - http://dailysikhupdates.com/gursikhs-anand-karaj-1900-says-elderly-grandmother/
    8 points
  22. To any brothers and sisters on Twitter who have the time to do so, screenshot every single genocide-and-rape threatening Tweet made by these BJP / RSS supporters, and compile them into one single image / document. In the middle, scaled slightly bigger than the other Tweets, place Kangana Ranaut's Tweet that encourages genocide and destruction of Sikhs. When these people claim India has never been hostile towards Sikhs and that our claims of them attempting to wipe us out are fantasies, present this particular document that lays bare their true depraved and bloodthirsty cravings. This
    8 points
  23. Thank you, for helping reduce my anger levels.
    8 points
  24. Clear as day that these people were not brought up in Sikhi and have no knowledge of Sikh history. They just parrot what their liberal arts and womans studies courses teach them. SINO=Sikh In Name Only
    7 points
  25. There is no need to be aggressive with anyone. Knee <banned word filter activated> reactions are never a good idea. Just don't be a liberal a$$hole and challenge those in our community who are. The external enemy is never as dangerous as the internal traitor. The biggest traitors are those who look like they are devout Sikhs and yet are willing to subvert our religion and go against the Rehat Maryada just to win brownie points with their liberal backers.
    7 points
  26. Because that was a paid agenda bro, it's a paid program that was set up here, and it had ways of enticing people into it, some of those ways were cult sex practices. White people are also more than happy to appropriate something rather than assimilate to it and so they are happy as s*** being the real Sikhs while the rest of us are sidelined you know what I'm saying? These white Sikh organizations are paid for, they're set up by Intel services. Have you ever seen how smug these guys are when they're confronted about being in a cult they know and they're happy as s*** about it bro. Yogi b
    7 points
  27. Now that villains with long beards and turbans are once again dominating the American news cycle, I think singhs who are living in America need to be on guard. The backlash is coming. Stay safe brothers.
    7 points
  28. In order to get ANYWHERE in your Jeevan it is vital to take out 2.5 hours for Akaal Purakh, on top of the 7 Daily prayers we all fondly and dutly do. 2.5 hours can be Mool mantar, Gurmantar (1.15 hour on each) or Gurmantar followed by one Sukhmani Sahib (this prayer takes an hour) or three Baanias from Dasam Granth (which could take an hour) followed by going Gurudwara for 1.5 hours of Simran, Seva and Sangat. In short no Matter what u select it should be 2.5 hours minimum, time excluded from 7 Baanias. Now, there are two dangers here. First, "I can't concentrate so I won't do it..
    7 points
  29. As I've said for a while, if you've got kids or nephews and nieces of a certain age, foisting them onto others in a religious camp for a few days isn't going to turn them into little gianis. Keep them away from those places because you'll get religious predators making it their first port of call. There's probably a reason they're called a CAMP. If you're British you'll know. The clue is in the name.
    7 points
  30. My friend from Punjab who is very gurmukh has his agricultural farm in district Shahjahanpur, Uttar Pradesh. The manager at his farm is a Hindu whose wife suffered from acute depression as their younger son died in an accident. She had been going to psychiatrist for about 10 months and there was only minor improvement. My friend taught her mool mantra Sahib and she started doing it and started feeling better. Within a week, she started doing 600 mool mantra daily and within few weeks her depression got cured. She has started smiling again and has started cooking and doing her daily a
    7 points
  31. Why didn't you punch your dad?
    7 points
  32. Human life is unbelievably, extraordinarily precious gift, that’s why coming times (many people dying) are no joke. It’s the compassion of mahapurkh they keep delaying bad things. Daas has had visions of coming times, I don’t want to scare anyone Focus consciousness completely on feeling the presence of Guru Nanak Ji as being ang sang, with you. Then do as much vaheguru jaap, mool mantar, gurbani jaap as possible. Ang 986-7 gives us encouragement -
    7 points
  33. Sikh and Hindu women just throw their religion in dustbin if they marry muslim man. But muslim women try their best to lure their husbands in islam.
    7 points
  34. The Lower Mainland gang violence disproportionately involves (Canadian-born) Punjabis. Most of the gangland killings involve Punjabis killing other Punjabis. The police considers them mostly low-level guys who can’t control themselves, unlike the sophisticated Asian and Biker gangs that work silently but control most of the networks. It’s saddening to see another dead young brown kid every second week. It has nothing to do with bullying or racism, or other any economic reasons. They come from our typical well-off Punjabi households with immigrant parents who have worked hard to realize th
    7 points
  35. Are you looking for someone? cuz I'm single.
    7 points
  36. Very honest video and discussion, its refreshing for a change. Only got uploaded an hour ago, I think Sikh feminists and Sikh fem-men will get very upset with it. It's good they got a Sikh woman to talk about it, and allowing a man to have a say as well.
    7 points
  37. Totally ridiculous thread. My suggestion would be to get married in a church or court marriage. Skip Anand Karaj if not too keen of our pious traditions.
    7 points
  38. Cannabis comes in 2 forms: hemp and marijuana Both these forms r a gift of God. Shaheedi degh is the best medicine in the world.
    7 points
  39. I am laughing because someone downvoted because they can't accept the true words of Sant Ji.
    7 points
  40. This is amazing. Just finished this. It's gonna trigger some people but what needs to be said needs to be said.
    7 points
  41. His depiction of Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj really caught my eye as well. Really talented Singh.
    7 points
  42. Jatinder Singh Durhailay makes some nice art as well.
    7 points
  43. Good move, I dont want to see posts about bobs and vagene.
    7 points
  44. http://chng.it/bQLmKxkNcV We want the Akal Takht to 1. Assemble a temporary security force of 2000 Sikhs and send them to Delhi to secure the safety all protesters from attacks by the BJP and its Police Force and 2. Institute a permanent Akall Takht Security/Reilief Force to defend the weak, hungry and downtrodden. We demand the Akaal Takht Chief Giani Harpreet Singh to pick up the baton from Baba Deep Singh and Akali Phulla Singh and serve the Sikh mission from the front as his predessors did or stand aside for some that will accept this mandate. This week we have all s
    7 points
  45. Sometimes I wonder what world young Sikhs live in. These petitions have no sway over Sikh institutions. Yet people waste their time with them. I don't mean that to say any of you who support this are bad, just very unsure of how things work. We Sikhs always seem to start the fight top down, rather than bottom up.
    7 points
  46. Although I feel it was not necessary for the Kisan morcha to go to red fort but even if it has been done the propaganda of Godi media is disgusting today the least. But I'm not surprised since lying and twisting the facts is their main trait. They lied by saying inflammatory things like calling the Nishan Sahib as Khalistan flag. Even though this same flag (nishan sahib) has recently been hoisted by Sikh soldiers in Ladhak, then they don't call it Khalistan flag. When this flag is used to defend Hindus and India then it is called patriotic but when this same flag is used for defending on
    7 points
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