jasleenk

what's all the money for? sikh wedding = anand karaj and langar. raagi fees can be split and langar can also be split (both seva and money). problem solved. oh wait, are you talking about a PUNJABI wedding with parties and booze and meat? if so, it's not sikhi anyway, so i doubt sikhi ideas of equality have much meaning there.

in certain cases husband or wife can chhak amrit separately. you have to go before panj piyare and ask their advice and permission. i know more than one women who has had the misfortune of a paapi husband and has been granted amrit alone. every case is different so just go ask the panj. no one can help you on an internet forum.

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just be careful where you buy it... i ordered one from an "official" looking website and got ripped off.

the laws of the US DO take faith into consideration. federal prison code says he can keep his kes. HOWEVER, the jail in FLORIDA says his turban is a safety issue, so they cut his kes. note that the governor of Florida is the dumber younger brother of George Bush, so it's not too surprising that he doesn't care about non-christians' religious requirements. this is the same state that was refusing to give drivers' licenses to Sikhs because they said you can't have any head covering in your license photo. they're a bunch of red-neck idiots down there, apparently.

if you know you're offending your sikh brothers and sisters, why say it?