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  1. waheguroo !!

    go to GURDWARA PLZ.

  2. i phoned him today at his workplace and he says he will call me back later as his family now know about the baby. Is this just another lie? so I dont go writing to them I dont think he deserves to be part of my babys life after what hes done and why the change of tune all of a sudden? The lies he has told me are "meaningless" he said , but they just prove to me that he is nothing but a liar and cannot be trusted. If he can walk out on me like he did, he isnt going to be in babys life to just walk out of it again whenever he chooses. btw everybody......... its a baby girl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i will let u know his excuses .............
  3. I had a phone call late last night from a girl who had seen the advert Id posted trying to find my babys dad it turns out that he didnt even give me his real surname and is actually 6 YEARS YOUNGER than i thought too !!!!! she gave me his real name and ive found his address using tracesmart but im still at a loss as to whether to contact his family or not. What shall i do????? I cant even write a letter to his mother as ive been told she cannot speak any english
  4. im not sure how to go about this. I wouldnt dare just turn up to the gurdwara. Would I be better writing a letter? can i ask, was he a turbaned sikh? and also like to say thanks for not taking an abortion, its totally wrong. god bless you and your new born no he did not wear a turban, i think he wasnt particularly religious although his family are. He only ever dated white women and at the age of 36, i guess his family must have known he was not interested in dating another woman of his own ethnicity. I still cannot hate the man , in fact i still love him very much and thats what hurts. My children thought the world of him too and cannot understand why he left. I can, he was a coward and unable to face up to his responsibilities. I grew up in a small village where everybody was white, and yet, my mother still taught me to respect ppl from all backgrounds and never to judge someone for what colour their skin was. Its such a shame it doesnt work both ways sometimes and I could scream because my baby is probably never going to know one half of its family because of my skin colour/beliefs Its not like its going to be easy for my child or me bringing him/her up in this rotten one horse town i live in. im expecting to receive comments about my babys skin and they can expect a few choice words right back at them too :TH: In fact I shalln't say anything, I will rise above it !!!!!!
  5. WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

  6. im not sure how to go about this. I wouldnt dare just turn up to the gurdwara. Would I be better writing a letter?
  7. thankyou all so much for all your messages of support, I am already raising two fantastic girls (10 and 17) up on my own , one is at college doing a public services course so she can be a policewoman. I know I made the right choice in choosing to keep the baby and lose him in the process. I did try and find him on a Derby site but didnt realise that my mobile number had shown on the advert. Unfortunately the only reply I got was in the form of 100s of texts from someone that said they would tell me where he lived if I "SLEPT" with him. After weeks of nasty texts I finally contacted the police as I was under so much stress from this stupid man and finally the texts have stopped. He did text me today with my babys fathers address but I dnt think I will contact him or his family. He made the choice to walk away and as some of you have said, he will spend the rest of his life wondering. I go for my scan on thursday and am so looking forward to seeing if I can see what sex my baby is Im holding my head high no matter what and I look forward to my beautiful baby thankyou everyone, I will keep coming on here now I know that you all have nothing but good advice and support for me x claire no he wasnt married, he travelled for an hour to get to see me at least 4 times a week. His excuse was that he just never wanted children and that he wouldnt be able to see me again if I decided to keep it
  8. i am expecting a baby to a 36 yr old sikh man in august and he chose to have nothing to to with me when i told him I couldnt go through with a termination I am a 39yr old white christian woman but have been told that his family would not take the news very well and that his decision to walk away without trace has to to with the fact that his family woul be ashamed. Im left heartbroken as I love this man very much. I respect people of all faiths and find it hard to accept that him dating a white woman is ok, just not having children with her. anyone any advice? apart from searching the streets of Derby to find him
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