im not sure how to go about this. I wouldnt dare just turn up to the gurdwara. Would I be better writing a letter?
can i ask, was he a turbaned sikh?
and also like to say thanks for not taking an abortion, its totally wrong.
god bless you and your new born
no he did not wear a turban, i think he wasnt particularly religious although his family are. He only ever dated white women and at the age of 36, i guess his family must have known he was not interested in dating another woman of his own ethnicity.
I still cannot hate the man , in fact i still love him very much and thats what hurts. My children thought the world of him too and cannot understand why he left. I can, he was a coward and unable to face up to his responsibilities. I grew up in a small village where everybody was white, and yet, my mother still taught me to respect ppl from all backgrounds and never to judge someone for what colour their skin was. Its such a shame it doesnt work both ways sometimes and I could scream because my baby is probably never going to know one half of its family because of my skin colour/beliefs
Its not like its going to be easy for my child or me bringing him/her up in this rotten one horse town i live in. im expecting to receive comments about my babys skin and they can expect a few choice words right back at them too :TH:
In fact I shalln't say anything, I will rise above it !!!!!!