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thnk u all 4 ur reply. I will send all of ur suggestions on2 her. But wat she really wnts is 2 walk on d marag of sikhi. She wants help 4rm guru ji. In terms of gurbani wat shud she do???

she fears 2 tell d police as she thinks more and more ppl wil get 2 no about it. She no's hu d man was. He was a relavtive. She has nt told any1 bcus she fears the trust of the mans wife and child will break. She does not want the mans child 2 hate his own father as much as she hates him til dis day. She just wants 2 get mukti from dis without telling the police. as her own family members do not no abt dis

It doesnt make a difference wer she is.

i wud lyk 2 no wat ur views r on a child being raped at the age of 8. Dis child is a sikh and unfortunatly was raped by a sikh man. At the tym the child did not no wat was happening to her wen d abuse was happening. Its only wen d child grew up she began 2 realise wat had happened 2 her has scarred her 4 life. Dis child is now 23yrs old. A grown up women. She stills has nightmares about d whole thing. She considers herslef to b dirty. She has never revealed her secret 2 any1. She fears ppl will luk dwn at her. She even fears 2 get marrid. She crys everyday. A day has not gone by wer she has not shed a tear. Wat wud u advice her 2 do????