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  1. I have been living in India since birth. And believe me people don't care much what you wear and do , if you have beard and a turban , any random guy in India knows you are from Punjab. You can expect little kid sin South India singing "Singh is King" when they see you , with Manmohan Singh being PM for so many years , respect for Sikhs has increased manyfolds. As far as facilities are concerned , I don't know much . I never had any major health concerns , my advice is work out ! ,when in India , avoid the hassles
  2. I am 21 ,I just moved to a new city as part of my job, and I don't know why but I guess its due to the kind of water here , that I have been experiencing hair fall. Due to nature of work , I have to tie my hair back again in an hour or so (due to less time), so I think my hair don't get enough sunlight . And from past few weeks , each time I wash my hair (usually on sunday) , I have more and more hair fall , although I eat good ,the problem is still there. Also please advice me remedies to increase density of hair again , some parts of my head have very less hair as compared to other. I don't feel good each time a single hair falls
  3. DEKHO SIKHO APPA SAB AJJ PARESHAN HA K SIKH MONNE BANDE JA RAHE NE ....FIKRA CHAD DO...KYONKE GURU HARGOBIND SAHAB NE KARTARPUR VICH JUNG LADI C.... ES JUNG VICH SINGH SHAHEED HOYE ATTE USTO JYADA MUSALMAAN..CHEVE GURU DI KHASIYAT C K OH JITHE V JUNG KARDE C OH SIKHAN NU SANSKAR ATE MUSALMANNA NU ADAB NAAL DAFNA KE JAYA KARDE C .....JADO KARTARPUR VICH SINGHA NU HUKUM KITTA, K SINGHO MUSALMANNA NU V ADAB NAAL DAFAN KARDO ....TA SINGHA NE HAMMI BHARI... PAR GURU JI DE JANDEYA HI SINGHA NE SOCHEYA... K J MUSALMANNA NU DAFNAVANGE TA TOHE PATT K DAFNANA PAVEGA... ES VICH BAHOT DER LAGUGI... ATE SINGH THAKKE HOYE C...,KAL SHYAD PHIR JUNG KARNI PAVE.... EH SOCH K SINGHA NE MUSALMAANA NU SIKHA DIYA CHIKAVA VICH KATHA SAAD DITA....,JADO MAHARAJ VAPAS AAYE TA SINGHA NU PUCHEYA.... SINGHO SAREYA DE SANSKAR THIK TARAH HO GAYE.... TA SIKHA NE HAMMI BHAR DITI .....,MAHARAJ NE PHIR PUCHEYA KE SACH SACH DASO.... TAN JANI JAAN MAHARAJ AGGE SIKHA DIYA NAZRA THA HO GAYIYA ...US WAQT MAHARAJ NE FARMAYA.... K TUSI BAHOT VADDI GALTI KITTI... ESDI SAJA SIKH KOM NU MILUGI...SEYANE BANDEYA NE PUCHEYA MAHARAJ KHUL K DASSO KI HOUGA ...MAHARAJ NE FARMAYA KE AJJ JO MUSALMAAN TUSI SIKHA DE NAAL KATHE SAAD DITE... EHI MUSALMAAN AGGE SIKHAN DE GHARA VICH JANAM LENGE ATTE KESH KATA K AAPNE BACHEYA DE KES KATA K KEHANGE K ASSI SIKH HAN ASSI SARDAR HA.....ES LAI JO V SIKH PARIVAR VICH JANAM LENDA HAI ATTE KESH KATAONDA HAI OH MUSALMAAM HAI ....BOLE SO NIHAL SAT SRI AKAL.......ENNA MONEYADI FIKAR CHADDO ENNE NE ATTE ENNA DIYA KUDIYA NE ...MONNE MUSALMAAN HI LABHNE ATTE PASAND KARNE NE.... AJJ KAL DE FASHION BAAJ SANT ATTE DERE WALE EH SAKHI NAHI SUNAONDE ...KITHO SUNANGE BAI DIWAN VICH 80% SANGAT MONNI BETHI HUNDI HAI...EH SAKHI SUN K DIWAN CHO SAREYA NE BHAJJ JANA...PHIR SANT BABBEYA DIYA GOLKAN KON BHARUGA....DERE SANT CHADDO ....KOI SANT JA BABA AAPNE BACCHE KOM LAYI NAHI MARVA SAKDA ....BHAVE CANADA DA VIZA LAVA KE BAHAR JAROOR BHIJVAUGA....ENNA DHOLAK CHUMTEWALE BABBEYAN DE MAGAR LAGG KE GURU GOBIND SINGH NU BHULA DITTA APPA LANTA SIKHA TE (not written by me , but found it worth sharing) Thanks WJKK , WJKF!
  4. Maybe they are ashamed of defeat , a defeat in the game of society , carrying on the family name and Izzat... finally bringing disappointment to the Guru.
  5. wish I cud be like them. All respects
  6. Singh_Valiance

    Hair Issue

    Its amazing how a thread can completely go offtopic and start discussing Hindus !! , And I wholly respect whatever has been said by Nehmat. Even if Har Har is a Hindu , does it mean anything wrong?We are just concerned with what part of 'keeping hair' or 'not keeping hair' he resides in , and why? And as I have read from his posts , He seems to be a Sikh (but I wonder , if anyone use Har Har that often) , All he wants to say is that you dont have to be arrogant if you are keeping hair , and if you are not keeping it , it is not that the Akaal Purkh wont love you , The timeless almighty , regards everyone equal , regardless of Hair , in my view He's right , but in the framework of Sikhi , keeping Hair is definitely one of the steps towards Naam-Gyaan along with (Kirat karna,Naam Japna and Vand ke chakna) , that almost covers all the teachings , Guru's are our intermediates to get Naam di daat and finally experience the timeless. We are incomplete without the Guru's teachings. And as a Sikh , you should be mor einclined towards keeping hair , a valuable gift of our Gurus. We can stop the hate , Hate will fade away with time , only timeless will remain.
  7. Singh_Valiance

    Hair Issue

    Lemme just make one thing clear, My post was not to defend myself, it was just to make the sangat think from a broader prespective rather than just KEEP HAIR or BURN IN HELL. Is there anyone in todays kalyug that loved the true Lord like Namdev did, or Kabir? Please get out of your preaching selves and become followers first. I wasn't even in any conversation that I had to defend myself regarding anything. My choice is mine, your Choice.. Guru pyareo is entirely yours, thats what we think..lol..now dont we. But the truth is I am exactly how he wants me to be and you are exactly how he wants you to be. Vaheguru. I did not ever suggest that Namdev was a gursikh, the whole reason behind mentioning him was the post above me-->For Lord's love it is not a necessity to have hair, and IT IS WRITTEN NOWHERE or said nowhere that you cannot attain the lord without your hair. We are going astray from the point in hand, but I wholly agree with your view on this subject as I have commented on that'Punjabi youth gets beaten up" thread under General Category. My brother, you made a mistake thinking I am defending myself, mentioning a view point from a different angle does not mean they have the automatic liability to defend themselves regarding the same view point they just mentioned. Did I say i conside myself a gurmukh? You saadh sangat ji are 100 times great than I. I just realised his name some time ago while you I take it have been chanting his name for so many years. You are much much greater than what I am. I am a worm, not much different from the filth you talk about. There is or never was a comparison in the first place, then how can I defend it. If it is HIS will to forgive me, then I may be saved. 8 districts..hmm. I was born in UAE, and I kept my hair till the time i was there, around 16 years. Talk about onslaught, let me just say that you were still in Punjab, and the term onslaught would be well defined if you were in a isolated place where your culture has no value to the locals there. You seem to be a lil mature, so I will let you imagine what it would have been like staying between sikh hating muslims. Umm..One peice of advice to you, dont pity others, pity yourself, the gurmukh way. I would not explain anything to anybody, I would just tell them that we worship the one Lord of the universe, and we believe in righteous living and day and night remembering of him. I amnotthe preaching kind, as it is not my placeto preach. Lord knows we have enough preachers already in sikhism, bring into that all the religions of the world....boyy...it gets confiusing, so I would just tell them to chant his NAME, NAAM, thats it. And Guru pyaare, learn from history and the bani, talk like that where you judge others not to be a sikh actually drives the sangat away, we have enough baba's using those lines, right from the 80's and where did that get the youth of punjab^^^right where you dont want them to be. The best place to start is chant his name, day night, everything will fall into place by itself. Not by anyones speeches, and yes...ONLY by his divine will. You or I are illetrate fools and we cannot understand and are not meant to understand why he does, what he does. Dont make it so complicated, Chant Vahegurus, Har Har's NAAM. Jin mastar turr Har likheya; Tina Satgur mileya Ram Raaje Ageyan Andhera Kateya; Guru gyaan ghat baleya; Har ladha ratan padarthon; fir bohor na chaleya Jan Nanak naam aaradheya; Aaradh HAR mileya. Sri Guru Amar Das ji said you can chant and chant Har Har Har by your tongue thousands of times, that is not worshipping, you have to clean your heart, clean all the deep intentions of maya first, true love brother, true love for the lord is what we need for salvation, nothing else. May the Lord bless us all to chant his name true from our hearts, just focused on to his great-self and keep it from wandering. May the Lord bless you all, and the lowly me, for only he know of what sins I have commited. Mercy Vaheguru. Mercy. Bhul chuk maaf Guru pyaareo We are humans, we will always make mistakes. Thats almost exactly what I was afraid of , taking each and every line of my post and giving your views on it , I had do the same as I have the strongest arguments for your each statement right now. But I never do that here on these forums . When I saw your post , I was just afraid , about the difference that it can make to any young Sikhs studying these forums , they can find out reasons at the drop of the hat for cutting their hair , belieive me. I don't want my coming generations come up to me and say , "Sikhi is about Naam Simran and Hair doesn't matter to the God " , and if you don't like my comments (which as per you are from 80's ) , I had take pride in it , I am an old school Sikh , I have faith that I have survived till now , so that I can atleast if not anything else , inspire others to whatever extent I can , anyways come to Punjab sometime , we can have Langar together . , Maybe I can help you out with things or I had just Serve you in Langar.
  8. Singh_Valiance

    Hair Issue

    Namdev was a bhagat of Krishna , his compositions are part of the Gurbani because of his wisdom and learning , you just shouldn't take him as an example to defend yourself. My dear friend , today Sikhism doesn't need Keshdhari/Amritdhari men to defend the faith , it needs leaders , and leaders will be born in apt. environments where Sikhi will prosper and every single aspect about Sikhi is glorified , whether it is keeping hair or Naam Simran. Today the problem with Punjab is not politics as we often blame , the problem is about 80% rural Sikh Youth , who cut their hair , problem is with thousands of Sikhs outside Punjab who intermingle with typical U.P/Bihar filth , and forget who they are. Problem is with the youth who cut their hair , and call Keshdharis 'bhaapas' , problem is with Sikhs who keep fancy beards . I almost agree with whole of what you said , but I didnt like the way you defended yourself . A sikh's life starts with being a manmukh , and as He grows He slowly learns about Sikhi , Maryada and Rehat , and as He grows , He reaches a stage where he finally decided to give his Head to Dasam Patshah by taking Amrit. I have lived in 8 different districts in Punjab , and I have seen everything in front of my eyes. I have survived onslaughts of hundred of my fellow youth taunting my Sikhi , and when I grow up and see my Gur Maryada that was being followed by my family , I decided to take it forward , and thats what I am trying to do now , rest is GuruJi's agya .I always pity Sikhs who cut their hair . Problem is , you are a Sikh , and I am always afraid what an outsider will decipher about Sikhi when He sees you , would you explain to him , that you Jap Naam , whenever its His will? , no one has that much time , We are Sikhs , first look , and the world should know what we stand for. If you are a one bit Sikh , follow all the ten Gurus , especially the importance of Kesh as put by our 10th Guru , You are no one to choose whats good for yourself as long as their is a Guru who has already chosen the best for you. Waheguru.
  9. Singhs fighting is common in Punjab and areas around , I happened to visit Dalhousie(Himachal Pradesh) last month , and I saw a Singh being beaten up by four other guys , he fell on the road with his turban thrown away , and hair open , He was so drunk , he couldnt even get up , The other guys were also drunk , majority of these punjabi youth come to hilly areas from Punjab on their parents money , drink at nights , and look at girls during day time , And generally , in any group consisiting of Jatts/Cut Surds and Keshdharis , all behave alike , a Singh thinks he's as yo! as a Jatt , a Jatt thinks he's the coolest looking Sikh in town because he has his hair cut , and this goes on , they all wear adidas shoes , tight tshirts , and look around 360 degrees for Girls , Religous Sikhs in Punjab are confined to Gurudwara Sevadaars , good Religous families and in holy cities like Amritsar , otherwise the state of Sikhi is very bad. Just my two cents of reality. I am surprised Sarpanch , you are so upbeat about a Singh being beaten up , happens so often in Punjab , everyone gets beaten up here , everyone here is a Hero , Sikhi is about tashan , Amritdharis are your average 70-80 year olds in the house , all they need is petrol for their Bikes , and a shine for their Shoes , who cares for Sikhi , Sikhi is all about a Matha-Tek in Gurudwaras twice a month and about wearing the most tikhi-nok turban you can possibly get , which is so cool . I am sorry , but this is what I have seen in my 20 years in Punjab , I doubt if you even know about Punjabi Youth. You probably would have got this one video on YouTube , for God's sake stop posting these videos , and come to Punjab , if you think you can make a difference. I am here already waiting for fellows to join me.
  10. Nok style Turban has been adopted from the times of Sikh Raj in North India-Pakistan and part of Afghanistan , the princes in the Raj of Ranjit Singh wore a Nok-style Turban ,this turban was only worn by royals in the court of Maharaja Ranjit Singh , while the Army Units continued wearing Gol Dastaars , OR , they wore helmets , specially designed to cater to Sikh's identity of keeping hair , this helmet was in a shape to cover the Gol dastaar . Helments were introduced when European fighting skills were introduced into Misls , And they were designed to cover the whole of the face except the eyes and below nose area for proper breathing , After the IInd Anglo SIkh War , a lot of Army units which were inducted into Brithish forces , started adopting the royal Nok Turban , as well as the commons , but most of the Sikhs were fighters , and British army gave the Sikhs full freedom , because they knew they are a valuable race. Wear a Gol or a Nok , doesn't matter , we'll always be glorified.
  11. satsriakal to every one i m not an intelectual but one thing i am dead sure is that i m a man n god has given me a look which he thoughts fits to me n my fellow men brothers even if see our hindu history ram lazman hanuman krishna who they call gods avtaar had their hair intact n no one was clean shaven it is some ill mind people otherwise was there any barber in woods when ram was sent to vanvass ok lets not go in hindus people history. Do ui know that our hair is our identity that we r the choosen one we have the distinction from others if we make stand in 1 lakh people we will be different from them. Trust me brother guru gobind singhji was master of all kalas n true follower of the ultimate lord. He had immense powers through which he could had made all india under sikhism but he said i dont believe in quantity but in quality he said : mainu sikh pyaraa nahin sikh tu rehat payaree so dear brother trust the true guru n blind foldly follow him.Do u knw the worlds biggest truth its DEATH n there r rebirths we have to again born n again suffer in this world this life is actual punishment in this hell there is no heaven or hell in sky or bellow us its all here whatver your good deeds n bad deeds get carried over guruji says follow him n he will get u rid of this death n rebirth cycles I hope u dont need A miracle to prove that what guruji says is true just trust him n all ur sufferings will be zeroed to all you people our era has started u will see every where follwers of sri gurudwara r excelling in every field n soon we will be rulling raj karega khalsa is coming true please dont jump off at this juncture in a span of a decade u will realise what i m saying now JUST TRUST HIM N LIVE A SENSIBLE N FULLFILLED LIFE may guru gobind singhji bless n all our brothers n sisters WAHEGURUJI KA KHALSA WAHEGURUJI KI FATEH satsriakal to every one i m not an intelectual but one thing i am dead sure is that i m a man n god has given me a look which he thoughts fits to me n my fellow men brothers even if see our hindu history ram lazman hanuman krishna who they call gods avtaar had their hair intact n no one was clean shaven it is some ill mind people otherwise was there any barber in woods when ram was sent to vanvass ok lets not go in hindus people history. Do ui know that our hair is our identity that we r the choosen one we have the distinction from others if we make stand in 1 lakh people we will be different from them. Trust me brother guru gobind singhji was master of all kalas n true follower of the ultimate lord. He had immense powers through which he could had made all india under sikhism but he said i dont believe in quantity but in quality he said : mainu sikh pyaraa nahin sikh tu rehat payaree so dear brother trust the true guru n blind foldly follow him.Do u knw the worlds biggest truth its DEATH n there r rebirths we have to again born n again suffer in this world this life is actual punishment in this hell there is no heaven or hell in sky or bellow us its all here whatver your good deeds n bad deeds get carried over guruji says follow him n he will get u rid of this death n rebirth cycles I hope u dont need A miracle to prove that what guruji says is true just trust him n all ur sufferings will be zeroed to all you people our era has started u will see every where follwers of sri gurudwara r excelling in every field n soon we will be rulling raj karega khalsa is coming true please dont jump off at this juncture in a span of a decade u will realise what i m saying now JUST TRUST HIM N LIVE A SENSIBLE N FULLFILLED LIFE may guru gobind singhji bless n all our brothers n sisters WAHEGURUJI KA KHALSA WAHEGURUJI KI FATEH You have been copy-pasting this thing at other places int he forum too ha? :gg:
  12. Singh_Valiance

    Hair Issue

    I don't give a hoot whether you think I have saroop or not. Just one last input , If you're a Sikh , its my duty to put you on the right path , and If you're not OR you don't care , I am really sorry for wasting your time veerji . End of conversation. Make sure you have that smile on your face. I never wanted an argument. Waheguru! :TH:
  13. Singh_Valiance

    Hair Issue

    The Olympics are going on now, would you like a medal for your "big" achievement? Don't ever call anyone who doesn't keep full sikhi saroop a loser. Are we clear? Good! uhhh did that hurt you?? , Go get a saroop. :nishaan_sahib_right: And since you're already in saroop and represent, get some manners, you make us all look quite foolish when you use such language and pass such quick judgement and then expect the world to not show you any discrimination yourself. You misunderstood me completely veerji , The way that guy was putting , I didn't like it , He seems like an apna Sikh without saroop , and He's telling others not to call people like him/her losers.He's thoughts are not on the right path , if he's a Sikh. Thats all I intend to correct , rest I am sorry for my quick reply. This 'add fast reply' button has spoiled me :6
  14. I was born in Dec,1986 Mehtab Jee, and SunSingh , I am not clear about the headlines , Dreams can get really blurry once you get up in your bed , You just care about the end , When I saw my wounds at my relatives house in the dream , I was shocked to see a torn piece of skin hanging around (sliced by some sword) , and then suddenly I woke up to check my arms again , I seriously don't care if it was my past life or this life's dream , I just want to carry on with my Naam Simran , this dream has been an inspiration for me , maybe the Guru expects something from me , I just wanted to share this with all of you , because many of us maybe ignorant about the presence of Akaal Purkh , but you can look for his signs in your life , I think I just had something I never dreamed of , I am inspired and this thing came at the right time , I was already worried because I wasn't able to do my paath , due to hectic schedule , I should be back on track from tomorrow morning if the Akaal Purkh wills.
  15. First of all a warm Sat Sri Akal to VeerJi's and Bhen Jee's :rolleyes: Yesterday Night I had a dream , I rarely have dreams during nights , but last night was special . Let me tell you a bit of background , I am a Sikh non-Amritdhari , uncut Hair , and wud Amrit Shak in a few years , I am making myself ready by trying to stick to Bani and improving my life before I deserve Amrit , So last night , I had this dream: ============================================================================ I wake up one morning in some house somewhere (not my house definitely) , I wake up to read in the newspaper headlines like : "84: to be repeated in Punjab" , "Sikhs say there time have come" , " Non Sikhs on rage " etc etc , So I was sensing danger , when suddenly I heard a mob coming to my home , with lathis and sticks , I look around to see if my parents are safe , Then when I see outside my window , I see arnd 40-50 people mob (lookin like those rikshaw Waalas ) running towards our house with lathis and stuff , my parets start running towards a nearby Gurudwara to hide , I was afraid , I thought I must also run towards and inside the Gurudwara to save my life , before leaving my house , I took a Kirpan which was hanging on a wall and ran towards the Gurudwara , after reaching the Gurudwara all I see is Guru Granth Sahib Jee and my parents sitting quietly in front of it , and then I close the main door entrance to the gurudwara , and lock it , then I start running around the Gurudwara after making sure my parets are safe , then its like I have around 40 people running towards me and I have one Kirpan in one hand , I know no shastar Vidya or anything , So its like I am just holding the Kirpan to defend myself , One guy comes running towards me , then I start analysing properly and where to hit my Kirpan and stuff , I finally ended up injuring around 10 of them , no idea about rest of three , I took my parents home , this home was of my relatives , my mom lifts my shirt up and tells my relatives about my wounds , I had 7-8 sharp wounds caused by sword run over my body , and one major wound , In which my skin was torn off . I was not feeling pain ,And then I woke up , end of the dreammmm! ============================================================================== I mean I have had very simple , lesser crazy dreams , what was this about?? , I havent been reading too much , like some people say , I am a normal engineering student , But I am moving into my SIkhi , and suddenly I had this dream , when I woke up I lifted my sleeves up to see if my wounds were still there , I was alright....... I was like phew!!! :6 ..... I was wondering if this was some Sign from the Guru Sahib? , What does this mean?? , :gg: , Sorry If i had put something wrongly , But I really want to know... :gg:
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