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This article stated that the girl support islam eventhough her husband family do everything to throw her from family.. what the point you give the link?

Thanks for the support and advice.. At some point some of your point seems right. I'm not a religious man. When I am teenager, I live with my uncle (whose my cousin convert to muslim). But I proud to be sikh and proud with the strong relationship in our comunnity. I try my best to keep my identity. I think I will start to be vegeterian again when the time is come. About my gf. She so pretty. my love to her was so deep. But, i guess all of u are right. Sometimes I must sacrifice myself in the name of love. For arguing, I would never argue with my schoolmate anymore. Its pointless. as with my cousin, they were a bit open minded. they never argue about religion with me. When I told them about what mughal did to our anchestor, they agree about the fact, condemn the act and said that in Islam there are no such thing. They said that what mughal did is a dictactor jobs. Their prophet never gave such an example and their holy book never encourage that kind of thing. Tell you the truth, living in Malaysia where the islam has been practice with very tolerent way (even though in many cases, Islam cannot be criticsid) I started to understand it. People like Osama Laden is sample of mughal. People like yusuf islam, Muhammad Ali, malcom x is a sample of soul search individu. What you told me is truth. I should stop arguing. it is a useless. Lets find the truth together. Thank you brother for your help and advice. I feel so much relief now.

Dear all, Thanks for your support. The most challenging things in Malaysia from my opinion is there are so many sikh that convert to christian or Islam. In the other way, I never see or even heard anyone converting to sikh. There also a lot of testimonial in internet, email on their live after converting. As for myself, 2 of my cousin has convert as Muslim. They still contact with me and we have a good relationship (first our family not talking to them. But now we have better relationship). And now my gf will convert to Islam as her current bf is muslim boy. 5 of my schoolmate have convert to Christianity and my english teacher is now a respectable Christian Padri in Malaysia. He is the one that keep slamming our religion in his speech that drive me crazy. I infact always arguing with my cousin and schoolmate about their choices. I told them stories about our gurus, matyr, teaching etc. They always use the following facts:- 1. Our religion is considered new to their eyes. No as old as Christian, jew, Islam or even Hindu. 2. Our religion not as logic as Christian or Islam 3. My schoolmate told me there are research that show our religion actually is a mix of hindu and Islam. (I fight with him about this and he never bring it up again). 4. If Sikh, Christian, islam, jew and hindu presented to a baby, they will choose Christian, Islam, jew, Sikh after that hindu. The baby will classified us as second last choices. 5. The fact that our religion is blossoming only in india or indian origin (same like hindu). My ex teacher told me that what about chinese, european, arab etc? why sikhsm unable to attract them after 400 years? there must be something wrong. After that he quote a lot of crab from bible to support that his argument is true. 6. And so many more other argument that sometimes I feel a bit logic. Historian also not so fond with us which if we go to history books, there are a lot of victory/stories in India. But we unable to influence the world. 7. When I told them stories about how our matyr and gurus and how mughal done to our matyr, my school mate simply told me that islam is next version of christian. christian is the original. They also quote that sikhs gurus not that good. They said that there are a lot of killing and raping when we rule western india and kashmir. They said that their information is more reliable because its quote from academic and written source. While our source were lack academic based. It is because of our ruthless and our small number in india that english take a lot of sikh as their soldier. If they take muslim, the muslim will attack the english when they strong. If they take hindu, the hindu will attack the english when they strong. They even said that taking sikhs as army is cheaper because they only eat vegetarian food (Muslim eat meat while only brahmin in hindu is vegeterian). I still young. 23 years old. Hopefully all brother can give me more advice. As for now, our small comunity in Malaysia still strong. I infact get job because my relationship between sikh brother and sister because my education background not that good. Thank you again brother.

Hi all... I want to share with you about Malaysian sikh situation. Generally our unity and among sikh group is stong due to our small figure. However, lately I saw a lot of things that I think should be seen as a long term treat. The issues are as following:- 1. There are a lot of our people that convert to other religion such as christian and muslim. I even met with one of them that actually has been moved the rank and served as priest for catholic church. For me its ok for them to convert and keep it to themself but o convert and become priest and slam your old religion and way of life is totally unacceptable. 2. A lot of converters are also very popular. celebrity like actor, actress, sport celebrity and even professional. Most of them convert even before they married. Which mean we cannot accuse them convert because of marriage. My main concern now is my girlfriend is leaving me. She have a new boyfriend which is a muslim guy. Our family already try so many way to prevent her do the unthinkable. it seems hard due to Malaysian law which favor muslim. Please advice. Is there anyone here have the similar problem?