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  1. Dhillion09

    Fear

    Hello everyone. Sometimes I just have this overwhelming fear of something bad happening. I have made mistakes in the past and i'm just fearful of some people finding out. I'm on the right road and trying to stop all my bad ways. (I used to lie, drink, gossip, smoke, mess around) and like i said, some things i regret so much, the feeling of that regret sometimes reduces me to tears. How can I just get rid of this horrible feeling of fear and guilt. I just want to be forgiven and be positive. Most of all I want to feel safe. I know the almighty is watching. How can I tell him to help me? God bless you all. WJKK WJKF
  2. Maybe they all gave the name Singh when buying tickets and we just assumed to be related. No biggie. I have seen Singhs in the Anfield crowd for years. Even saw a few walking around in Liverpool after the CL 2005 victory.
  3. And who exactly is this "myself"? Go away. Thank you for making me feel like im being laughed at. I hope you are happy that you can come on a sikh forum as a "Guest" and just add further insult. Anyway, Nehmat Thanks for your help and everyone else. Im going to edit this post as i just feel its being looked at and laughed at.
  4. Not really. It's more of a hereditary problem. Though, your depressing circumstances may have possibly contributed to the 'growth' of this disorder. Anyway, mostly the people that have this disorder lack Vitamin B12. The deficiency of Vitamin B12 leads to accumulation of the amino acid 'homocysteine', which has been linked to depression. So I suggest you get a blood test done and find out whats missing. And don't worry about this marriage stuff. Nothing much to marriage anyways. Imagination is not the truth. Nothing 'goes' according to your 'mind's' plans. If it's meant to happen. It will. Why stress over such things? What's in a marriage anyway?! Nothing. But sometimes, it's a HUKAM. You can't do anything about it. And if thats so, you'll find out. Hence Bibi, don't bother with 'future' thoughts. Live for this breath. This breath thats escaping your lips right now. 'For the rest aren't even promised'...Bibi Rena Kaur used to say this. True isn't it? Edited again.
  5. I've got my advice, so ive edited it my original post.
  6. Thank you all for help and wisdom. Naujawanidotcom is right. I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to these girls and i don't believe that i have an upper-hand over them by any means. Knowing what it feels like to have untrue things said about you and have people laugh at you is horrible and i wouldn't wish it on anyone, even my tormentors. These girls are someone else's daughters, sisters, grandaughters and are loved as much as I am. So of course, i wouldn't want their families to go through what mine did. But i completley understand what everyone else is saying. God knows everything and maybe all the others were saying/trying to say is that i shouldn't worry as God is watching. I will continue to be more positive and draw inspiration for my fellow posters suggestions. Naujawanidotcom - can you tell me anything about sikhi views on destiny etc. My knowledge is not great on these things. Thanks again to all. I feel alot happier when i talk to people on the board, i feel lifted! So thank you. Take Care
  7. Thank you everyone for your replies. I know i shouldn't feel unsafe in a Gurdwara but it just used to scare me that these horrible people will be there and make fun of me. It really knocked my confidence and thats why i was afraid. I just felt like hiding. Thank you for the suggestions im going to listen to the shabads and hopefully i can find some stories that will help. I have been listening to Anand sahib alot and i always listen to Kirtan Sohila before i sleep, this always puts me at ease. I am at the moment waiting to see another therapist, just to do some confidence building and stuff. I'll be able to talk to someone more openly about it, which will be good. I know what everyone is saying is true but i just feel very low sometimes and my mind drives me mad with all the constant thoughts and you know when u get visions of people laughing at you and talking about you. Thanks again everyone...if anyone has any more views or thoughts, ill be really happy for you to share them.
  8. Hello Sangat, I was just wondering how a young sikh girl like me should deal with being bullied. I was bullied at school, i had rumours spread about me and had some good friends tell lies and horrible things about me to everyone. One of my good friends started to tell all of her friends things about me, in turn they and other girls were nasty to me, once i saw them laughing at me and lots of people have told me that they called me ugly. They gave me nasty looks, made nasty comments and generally made me feel terrible. This particular friend, she has many young sikh male friends and she went as far as telling them things about me, just because they were sikh and she was hoping they'd know me from going to the same gurdwara. She told them very personal things, like, how i had to see a therapist and i had to take medication and i know they were all probably laughing at me. Inside my own Gurdwara. I'm scared to go there just incase i see them. I have never fully recovered from my experience of being bullied. Im very afraid of these types of people, especially girls. Sometimes i feel really helpless and i know its wrong to feel this way and sometimes i feel angry, which is also wrong. I really want know how i can deal with this. Can anyone shed any light on some sikhi views on this, maybe something i can read that will make me feel happy. Thank you everyone
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