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Paatshaahee dasvee kabiyo baach baynatee chaupa-ee (p. 1721 Dasam Granth) Hamree karo haath dai rachhaa. Pooran ho-i chit kee ichhaa. Tav charnan man rahai hamaaraa. Apnaa jaan karo pratipaaraa. (1) Hamray dustt sabhai tum ghavho. Aap(u) hath dai moh(i) bachavho. Sukhee basai moro parivaaraa. Sayvak sikh sabhai kartaaraa. (2) Mo rachhaa nij kar dai kariyai. Sabh bairan ko aaj su(n)ghariyai. Pooran ho-i hamaaree aasaa. Tor bhajan kee rahai piaasa. (3) Tum-h(i) chhad(i) ko-ee avar(u) na dhiyaa-oo(n). Jo bar chaho(n) so tum tey paa-oo(n). Sayvak sikh(y) hamaarey taaree-a-hi. Chun(i) chun(i) satra hamaaray maaree-a-hi. (4) Aap hath dai mujhai oobariyai. Maran kaal kaa traas nivariyai. Hoojo sadaa hamaaray pachha. Sri asidhuj joo kariyaho rachha. (5) Raakh layho mohe raakhanhaarai. Sahib sant sahaa-i piyaarey. Deen bundh(u) dusttan kay huntaa. Tum ho puree chatur das kantaa. (6) Kal pa-i brahmaa bap dharaa. Kal pa-i siv joo avtraa. Kal pa-i kar bisn(u) prakaasaa sakal kaal kaa keeaa tamaasaa. (7) Javan kal jogi siv kee-o. Bayd raj brahmaa joo thee-o. Javn kal sabh lok savaaraa. namaskaar hai taahi hamaaraa. (8) Javan kaal sabh jagat banaayo. Dayv dait jachhan oopjaayo. Aad(i) a(n)t(i) aykai avtaaraa. Soee guroo samajhi-yaho hamaaraa. (9) Namaskaar tis hee ko hamaaree. Sakal prajaa jin aap savaaree. Sivkan ko siv gun sukh deeo. Satrun ko pal mo badh keeo. (10) Ghat ghat kay a(n)tar kee jaanat. Bhalay buray kee peer pachaanat. Cheetee tay ku(n)char asthoola sabh par kripaa dristt(i) kar phoola. (11) Santan dukh paa-ay tay dukhee. Sukh paa-ay saadhun kay sukhee. Ayk ayk kee peer pachhanai(n). Ghatt ghatt kay pat pat kee jaanai. (12) Jab oodkarakh karaa kartaaraa. Prajaa dharat tab day-h apaaraa. Jab aakarakh karat ho kab-hoo(n). Tum mai milat day-h dhar sabh-hoo(n). (13) Jaytay badan sristt(i) sabh dhaarai. Aap aapanee boojh oochaarai. Tum sabh-hee tay rahat niraalam. Jaanat bayd bhayd ar aalam (14) Nira(n)kaar nribikaar nirlu(n)bh. Aad(i) aneel anaad(i) asa(n)bh. Taa kaa moorh oochaarat bhaydaa. Jaa ko bhayv na paavat baydaa. (15) Taa kou kar(i) paahan anumaanat. Mahaa moorh kach(u) bhayd na jaanat. Mahaadayv ko kahat sadaa siv. Nira(n)kaar kaa cheenat nahi bhiv. (16) Aap(u) aapnee budh(i) hai jaytee. Baranat bhi(n)n bhi(n)n taytee. Tumra lakhaa na jaa-i pasaaraa. Kih bidh(i) pratham sansaaraa. (17) Aykai roop anoop saroopa. Ra(n)k bhayo raav kahee bhoopaa. A(n)ddaj jayraj saytaj keenee. Ootbhuj khaan(i) bahur rach(i) deenee. (18) Kahoo(n) phool raajaa hvai baittha. Kahoo(n) simitt bhiyo sa(n)kar ikaitthaa. Sagaree sristt(i) dikhaa-i acha(n)bhav. Aad(i) jugaad(i) saroop suya(n)bhav. (19) Ab rachhaa mayree tum karo. Sikh(y) oobar(i) asikh(y) sa(n)gharo. Dustt jitay ootthvat ootpaataa. Sakal malaychh karo ran ghata. (20) Jay asidhuj tav sarnee paray. Tin kay dushtt dukhit hvai maray. Purakh javan pag paray tiharay. Tin kay tum sa(n)katt sabh taaray. (21) Jo kal(i) ko ik baar dhi-ai hai. Taa kay kaal nikatt(i) neh ai hai. Rachha ho-i taahi sabh kaalaa. Dustt aristt ttray(n) tatakaalaa. (22) Kripaa dristt(i) tan jaahi nihariho. Taa kay taap tanak mo hariho. Ridh(i) sidh(i) ghar mo sabh hoee. Dushtt chhah chhvai sakai na koee. (23) Ayk baar jin tumai su(n)bhaaraa. Kaal phaas tay taahi oobaaraa Jin nar naam tihaaro kahaa. Daarid dustt dokh tay rahaa. (24) Kharag kayt mai sarnn(i) tihaaree. Aap haath dai layho oobaaree. Sarab tthor mo hoh(u) sahaaee. Dustt dokh tay layho bachaaee. (25) Kripaa kari ham par jagmaataa. Gra(n)th karaa pooran subh raataa. Kilbikh sakal deh ko hartaa|| Dushtt dokhiyan ko chhai kartaa (26) Sri asidhuj jab bh-ay dayaalaa. Pooran karaa granth tatkaalaa. Man baanchhat phal paavai soee. Dookh na tisai biaapat koee. (27) Arril Sunai gu(n)g jo yaahi su rasnaa paava-ee. Sunai moorr chit laa-i chaturtaa aava-ee. Dookh dard bhau nikatt na tin nar kay rahai. Ho jo yaaki ayk baar chaupa-ee ko kahai. (28) Choupa-ee Sanbhat satrah sahas bhannijai. Aradh sahas phun teen kahijai. Bhaadrav sudee ashttamee rav(i) vaaraa. Teer satudrav gra(n)th sudhaaraa. (29) Swaiyaa (p.599 Dasam Granth) Paa(n)-i gahay jab tay tumray tab tay kou aa(n)kh taray nahee aanyo. Raam raheem puraan kuraan anayk kahai mat ayk na maanyo. Si(n)mrit shaastra bayd sabhai bahu bhayd kahai ham ayk na jaanyo. Sri asipaan kripaa tumree kar mai na kahyo sabh tohi bakhaanyo. (863) Dohraa Sagal duaar kau chhaad(i) kai gahyo tuhaaro duaar. Ba(n)hi gahay kee laaj as gobind daas tuhaar. (864)

This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Raag Soohee on Pannaa 761 sUhI mhlw 5 ] soohee mehalaa 5 || Soohee, Fifth Mehla: isimRiq byd purwx pukwrin poQIAw ] simrith baedh puraan pukaaran pothheeaa || The Simritees, the Vedas, the Puraanas and the other holy scriptures proclaim nwm ibnw siB kUVu gwl@I hoCIAw ]1] naam binaa sabh koorr gaalhee hoshheeaa ||1|| that without the Naam, everything is false and worthless. ||1|| nwmu inDwnu Apwru Bgqw min vsY ] naam nidhhaan apaar bhagathaa man vasai || The infinite treasure of the Naam abides within the minds of the devotees. jnm mrx mohu duKu swDU sMig nsY ]1] rhwau ] janam maran mohu dhukh saadhhoo sa(n)g nasai ||1|| rehaao || Birth and death, attachment and suffering, are erased in the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy. ||1||Pause|| moih bwid AhMkwir srpr ruMinAw ] mohi baadh aha(n)kaar sarapar ru(n)niaa || Those who indulge in attachment, conflict and egotism shall surely weep and cry. suKu n pwiein@ mUil nwm ivCuMinAw ]2] sukh n paaeinih mool naam vishhu(n)niaa ||2|| Those who are separated from the Naam shall never find any peace. ||2|| myrI myrI Dwir bMDin bMiDAw ] maeree maeree dhhaar ba(n)dhhan ba(n)dhhiaa || Crying out, Mine! Mine!, he is bound in bondage. nrik surig Avqwr mwieAw DMiDAw ]3] narak surag avathaar maaeiaa dhha(n)dhhiaa ||3|| Entangled in Maya, he is reincarnated in heaven and hell. ||3|| soDq soDq soiD qqu bIcwirAw ] sodhhath sodhhath sodhh thath beechaariaa || Searching, searching, searching, I have come to understand the essence of reality. nwm ibnw suKu nwih srpr hwirAw ]4] naam binaa sukh naahi sarapar haariaa ||4|| Without the Naam, there is no peace at all, and the mortal will surely fail. ||4|| Awvih jwih Anyk mir mir jnmqy ] aavehi jaahi anaek mar mar janamathae || Many come and go; they die, and die again, and are reincarnated. ibnu bUJy sBu vwid jonI Brmqy ]5] bin boojhae sabh vaadh jonee bharamathae ||5|| Without understanding, they are totally useless, and they wander in reincarnation. ||5|| ijn@ kau Bey dieAwl iqn@ swDU sMgu BieAw ] jinh ko bheae dhaeiaal thinh saadhhoo sa(n)g bhaeiaa || They alone join the Saadh Sangat, unto whom the Lord becomes Merciful. AMimRqu hir kw nwmu iqn@I jnI jip lieAw ]6] a(n)mrith har kaa naam thinhee janee jap laeiaa ||6|| They chant and meditate on the Ambrosial Name of the Lord. ||6|| Kojih koit AsMK bhuqu Anµq ky ] khojehi kott asa(n)kh bahuth ana(n)th kae || Uncounted millions, so many they are endless, search for Him. ijsu buJwey Awip nyVw iqsu hy ]7] jis bujhaaeae aap naerraa this hae ||7|| But only that one, who understands his own self, sees God near at hand. ||7|| ivsru nwhI dwqwr Awpxw nwmu dyhu ] visar naahee dhaathaar aapanaa naam dhaehu || Never forget me, O Great Giver - please bless me with Your Naam. gux gwvw idnu rwiq nwnk cwau eyhu ]8]2]5]16] gun gaavaa dhin raath naanak chaao eaehu ||8||2||5||16|| To sing Your Glorious Praises day and night - O Nanak, this is my heart-felt desire. ||8||2||5||16||

This Shabad is by Guru Raam Daas Ji in Raag Vadhans on Pannaa 572 vfhMsu mhlw 4 CMq vaddeha(n)s mehalaa 4 shha(n)tha Wadahans, Fourth Mehla, Chhant: <> siqgur pRswid ] ik oa(n)kaar sathigur prasaadh || One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru: myrY min myrY min siqguir pRIiq lgweI rwm ] maerai man maerai man sathigur preeth lagaaee raam || My mind, my mind - the True Guru has blessed it with the Lord's Love. hir hir hir hir nwmu myrY mMin vsweI rwm ] har har har har naam maerai ma(n)n vasaaee raam || He has enshrined the Name of the Lord, Har, Har, Har, Har, within my mind. hir hir nwmu myrY mMin vsweI siB dUK ivswrxhwrw ] har har naam maerai ma(n)n vasaaee sabh dhookh visaaranehaaraa || The Name of the Lord, Har, Har, dwells within my mind; He is the Destroyer of all pain. vfBwgI gur drsnu pwieAw Dnu Dnu siqgurU hmwrw ] vaddabhaagee gur dharasan paaeiaa dhhan dhhan sathiguroo hamaaraa || By great good fortune, I have obtained the Blessed Vision of the Guru's Darshan; blessed, blessed is my True Guru. aUTq bYTq siqguru syvh ijqu syivAY sWiq pweI ] oot(h)ath bait(h)ath sathigur saeveh jith saeviai saa(n)th paaee || While standing up and sitting down, I serve the True Guru; serving Him, I have found peace. myrY min myrY min siqgur pRIiq lgweI ]1] maerai man maerai man sathigur preeth lagaaee ||1|| My mind, my mind - the True Guru has blessed it with the Lord's Love. ||1|| hau jIvw hau jIvw siqgur dyiK srsy rwm ] ho jeevaa ho jeevaa sathigur dhaekh sarasae raam || I live, I live, and I blossom forth, beholding the True Guru. hir nwmo hir nwmu idRVwey jip hir hir nwmu ivgsy rwm ] har naamo har naam dhrirraaeae jap har har naam vigasae raam || The Name of the Lord, the Name of the Lord, He has implanted within me; chanting the Name of the Lord, Har, Har, I blossom forth. jip hir hir nwmu kml prgwsy hir nwmu nvM iniD pweI ] jap har har naam kamal paragaasae har naam nava(n) nidhh paaee || Chanting the Name of the Lord, Har, Har, the heart-lotus blossoms forth, and through the Name of the Lord, I have obtained the nine treasures. haumY rogu gieAw duKu lwQw hir shij smwiD lgweI ] houmai rog gaeiaa dhukh laathhaa har sehaj samaadhh lagaaee || The disease of egotism has been eradicated, suffering has been eliminated, and I have entered the Lord's state of celestial Samaadhi. hir nwmu vfweI siqgur qy pweI suKu siqgur dyv mnu prsy ] har naam vaddaaee sathigur thae paaee sukh sathigur dhaev man parasae || I have obtained the glorious greatness of Name of the Lord from the True Guru; beholding the Divine True Guru, my mind is at peace. hau jIvw hau jIvw siqgur dyiK srsy ]2] ho jeevaa ho jeevaa sathigur dhaekh sarasae ||2|| I live, I live, and I blossom forth, beholding the True Guru. ||2|| koeI Awix koeI Awix imlwvY myrw siqguru pUrw rwm ] koee aan koee aan milaavai maeraa sathigur pooraa raam || If only someone would come, if only someone would come, and lead me to meet my Perfect True Guru. hau mnu qnu hau mnu qnu dyvw iqsu kwit srIrw rwm ] ho man than ho man than dhaevaa this kaatt sareeraa raam || My mind and body, my mind and body - I cut my body into pieces, and I dedicate these to Him. hau mnu qnu kwit kwit iqsu dyeI jo siqgur bcn suxwey ] ho man than kaatt kaatt this dhaeee jo sathigur bachan sunaaeae || Cutting my mind and body apart, cutting them into pieces, I offer these to the one, who recites to me the Words of the True Guru. myrY min bYrwgu BieAw bYrwgI imil gur drsin suKu pwey ] maerai man bairaag bhaeiaa bairaagee mil gur dharasan sukh paaeae || My unattached mind has renounced the world; obtaining the Blessed Vision of the Guru's Darshan, it has found peace. hir hir ik®pw krhu suKdwqy dyhu siqgur crn hm DUrw ] har har kirapaa karahu sukhadhaathae dhaehu sathigur charan ham dhhooraa || O Lord, Har, Har, O Giver of Peace, please, grant Your Grace, and bless me with the dust of the feet of the True Guru. koeI Awix koeI Awix imlwvY myrw siqguru pUrw ]3] koee aan koee aan milaavai maeraa sathigur pooraa ||3|| If only someone would come, if only someone would come, and lead me to meet my Perfect True Guru. ||3|| gur jyvfu gur jyvfu dwqw mY Avru n koeI rwm ] gur jaevadd gur jaevadd dhaathaa mai avar n koee raam || A Giver as great as the Guru, as great as the Guru - I cannot see any other. hir dwno hir dwnu dyvY hir purKu inrMjnu soeI rwm ] har dhaano har dhaan dhaevai har purakh nira(n)jan soee raam || He blesses me with the gift of the Lord's Name, the gift of the Lord's Name; He is the Immaculate Lord God. hir hir nwmu ijnI AwrwiDAw iqn kw duKu Brmu Bau Bwgw ] har har naam jinee aaraadhhiaa thin kaa dhukh bharam bho bhaagaa || Those who worship in adoration the Name of the Lord, Har, Har - their pain, doubts and fears are dispelled. syvk Bwie imly vfBwgI ijn gur crnI mnu lwgw ] saevak bhaae milae vaddabhaagee jin gur charanee man laagaa || Through their loving service, those very fortunate ones, whose minds are attached to the Guru's Feet, meet Him. khu nwnk hir Awip imlwey imil siqgur purK suKu hoeI ] kahu naanak har aap milaaeae mil sathigur purakh sukh hoee || Says Nanak, the Lord Himself causes us to meet the Guru; meeting the Almighty True Guru, peace is obtained. gur jyvfu gur jyvfu dwqw mY Avru n koeI ]4]1] gur jaevadd gur jaevadd dhaathaa mai avar n koee ||4||1|| A Giver as great as the Guru, as great as the Guru - I cannot see any other. ||4||1||

his Shabad is by Guru Amar Daas Ji in Raag Vadhans on Pannaa 560 vfhMsu mhlw 3 ] vaddeha(n)s mehalaa 3 || Wadahans, Third Mehla: haumY nwvY nwil ivroDu hY duie n vsih iek Twie ] houmai naavai naal virodhh hai dhue n vasehi eik t(h)aae || Ego is opposed to the Name of the Lord; the two do not dwell in the same place. haumY ivic syvw n hoveI qw mnu ibrQw jwie ]1] houmai vich saevaa n hovee thaa man birathhaa jaae ||1|| In egotism, selfless service cannot be performed, and so the soul goes unfulfilled. ||1|| hir cyiq mn myry qU gur kw sbdu kmwie ] har chaeth man maerae thoo gur kaa sabadh kamaae || O my mind, think of the Lord, and practice the Word of the Guru's Shabad. hukmu mMnih qw hir imlY qw ivchu haumY jwie ] rhwau ] hukam ma(n)nehi thaa har milai thaa vichahu houmai jaae || rehaao || If you submit to the Hukam of the Lord's Command, then you shall meet with the Lord; only then will your ego depart from within. ||Pause|| haumY sBu srIru hY haumY Epiq hoie ] houmai sabh sareer hai houmai oupath hoe || Egotism is within all bodies; through egotism, we come to be born. haumY vfw gubwru hY haumY ivic buiJ n skY koie ]2] houmai vaddaa gubaar hai houmai vich bujh n sakai koe ||2|| Egotism is total darkness; in egotism, no one can understand anything. ||2|| haumY ivic Bgiq n hoveI hukmu n buiJAw jwie ] houmai vich bhagath n hovee hukam n bujhiaa jaae || In egotism, devotional worship cannot be performed, and the Hukam of the Lord's Command cannot be understood. haumY ivic jIau bMDu hY nwmu n vsY min Awie ]3] houmai vich jeeo ba(n)dhh hai naam n vasai man aae ||3|| In egotism, the soul is in bondage, and the Naam, the Name of the Lord, does not come to abide in the mind. ||3|| nwnk sqguir imilAY haumY geI qw scu visAw min Awie ] naanak sathagur miliai houmai gee thaa sach vasiaa man aae || O Nanak, meeting with the True Guru, egotism is eliminated, and then, the True Lord comes to dwell in the mind|| scu kmwvY sic rhY scy syiv smwie ]4]9]12] sach kamaavai sach rehai sachae saev samaae ||4||9||12|| One starts practicing truth, abides in truth and by serving the True One gets absorbed in Him. ||4||9||12||

To Sanagat members who are discussing Tu Tu, please rather concentrate on Shabad below:cool: This Shabad is by Bhagat Kabeer Ji in Salok Kabeer Jee on Pannaa 1375 kbIr qUM qUM krqw qU hUAw muJ mih rhw n hUM ] kabeer thoo thoo karathaa thoo hooaa mujh mehi rehaa n hoo || Kabeer, repeating, ""You, You"", I have become like You. Nothing of me remains in myself. jb Awpw pr kw imit gieAw jq dyKau qq qU ]204] jab aapaa par kaa mitt gaeiaa jath dhaekho thath thoo ||204|| When the difference between myself and others is removed, then wherever I look, I see only You. ||204|| For the driver: If you can you should take a nap as most of the sangat mentioned. In case you must drive, please keep the temprature low in the cabin and have some cold water. This will keep you awake. If you still feel it please pull over and get out of the car and stroll for 2 minutes. This will definately take care of problem. If you are still are sleepy than only Waheguru will help you.

This Shabad is by Guru Raam Daas Ji in Raag Jaithsree on Pannaa 696 jYqsrI mhlw 4 Gru 1 caupdy jaithasaree mehalaa 4 ghar 1 choupadhae Jaitsree, Fourth Mehla, First House, Chau-Paday: <> siqgur pRswid ] ik oa(n)kaar sathigur prasaadh || One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru: myrY hIArY rqnu nwmu hir bisAw guir hwQu DirE myrY mwQw ] maerai heearai rathan naam har basiaa gur haathh dhhariou maerai maathhaa || The Jewel of the Lord's Name abides within my heart; the Guru has placed His hand on my forehead. jnm jnm ky iklibK duK auqry guir nwmu dIE irnu lwQw ]1] janam janam kae kilabikh dhukh outharae gur naam dheeou rin laathhaa ||1|| The sins and pains of countless incarnations have been cast out. The Guru has blessed me with the Naam, the Name of the Lord, and my debt has been paid off. ||1|| myry mn Bju rwm nwmu siB ArQw ] maerae man bhaj raam naam sabh arathhaa || O my mind, vibrate the Lord's Name, and all your affairs shall be resolved. guir pUrY hir nwmu idRVwieAw ibnu nwvY jIvnu ibrQw ] rhwau ] gur poorai har naam dhrirraaeiaa bin naavai jeevan birathhaa || rehaao || The Perfect Guru has implanted the Lord's Name within me; without the Name, life is useless. ||Pause|| ibnu gur mUV Bey hY mnmuK qy moh mwieAw inq PwQw ] bin gur moorr bheae hai manamukh thae moh maaeiaa nith faathhaa || Without the Guru, the self-willed manmukhs are foolish and ignorant; they are forever entangled in emotional attachment to Maya. iqn swDU crx n syvy kbhU iqn sBu jnmu AkwQw ]2] thin saadhhoo charan n saevae kabehoo thin sabh janam akaathhaa ||2|| They never serve the feet of the Holy; their lives are totally useless. ||2|| ijn swDU crx swD pg syvy iqn sPilE jnmu snwQw ] jin saadhhoo charan saadhh pag saevae thin safaliou janam sanaathhaa || Those who serve at the feet of the Holy, the feet of the Holy, their lives are made fruitful, and they belong to the Lord. mo kau kIjY dwsu dws dwsn ko hir dieAw Dwir jgMnwQw ]3] mo ko keejai dhaas dhaas dhaasan ko har dhaeiaa dhhaar jaga(n)naathhaa ||3|| Make me the slave of the slave of the slaves of the Lord; bless me with Your Mercy, O Lord of the Universe. ||3|| hm AMDuly igAwnhIn AigAwnI ikau cwlh mwrig pMQw ] ham a(n)dhhulae giaaneheen agiaanee kio chaaleh maarag pa(n)thhaa || I am blind, ignorant and totally without wisdom; how can I walk on the Path? hm AMDuly kau gur AMclu dIjY jn nwnk clh imlµQw ]4]1] ham a(n)dhhulae ko gur a(n)chal dheejai jan naanak chaleh mila(n)thhaa ||4||1|| I am blind - O Guru, please let me grasp the hem of Your robe, so that servant Nanak may walk in harmony with You. ||4||1||

I think when you start having these negative feeling that means Bani and Guru's updesh is working. It's making your unconcious mind concious. It takes time to get rid of bad habits/thoughts but good stuff is so easy to loose. Keep trying to get up early to do Nitnem. You don't have to wake up at 4 a.m. to start. Just try going to bed early and soon you will be waking up early all by yourself. If you go late to bed like 2-3 am do your Nitnem before going to bed and you had beaten most of the loosers like myself on this site. I bet most of us are good at preaching to other and don't follow it ourself. Half of the people here are spending average 5-6 hours just repsonding to posts than doing Simran.

Please check this post on SikhSangat. I have not read it but that may have answers to your questions.

This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Raag Basant on Pannaa 1182 bsMqu mhlw 5 ] basa(n)th mehalaa 5 || Basant, Fifth Mehla: ijsu bolq muKu pivqu hoie ] jis bolath mukh pavith hoe || Chanting His Name, one's mouth becomes pure. ijsu ismrq inrml hY soie ] jis simarath niramal hai soe || Meditating in remembrance on Him, one's reputation becomes stainless. ijsu ArwDy jmu ikCu n khY ] jis araadhhae jam kishh n kehai || Worshipping Him in adoration, one is not tortured by the Messenger of Death. ijs kI syvw sBu ikCu lhY ]1] jis kee saevaa sabh kishh lehai ||1|| Serving Him, everything is obtained. ||1|| rwm rwm boil rwm rwm ] raam raam bol raam raam || The Lord's Name - chant the Lord's Name. iqAwghu mn ky sgl kwm ]1] rhwau ] thiaagahu man kae sagal kaam ||1|| rehaao || Abandon all the desires of your mind. ||1||Pause|| ijs ky Dwry Drix Akwsu ] jis kae dhhaarae dhharan akaas || He is the Support of the earth and the sky. Git Git ijs kw hY pRgwsu ] ghatt ghatt jis kaa hai pragaas || His Light illuminates each and every heart. ijsu ismrq piqq punIq hoie ] jis simarath pathith puneeth hoe || Meditating in remembrance on Him, even fallen sinners are sanctified; AMq kwil iPir iPir n roie ]2] a(n)th kaal fir fir n roe ||2|| in the end, they will not weep and wail over and over again. ||2|| sgl Drm mih aUqm Drm ] sagal dhharam mehi ootham dhharam || Among all religions, this is the ultimate religion. krm krqUiq kY aUpir krm ] karam karathooth kai oopar karam || Among all rituals and codes of conduct, this is above all. ijs kau cwhih suir nr dyv ] jis ko chaahehi sur nar dhaev || The angels, mortals and divine beings long for Him. sMq sBw kI lghu syv ]3] sa(n)th sabhaa kee lagahu saev ||3|| To find Him, commit yourself to the service of the Society of the Saints. ||3|| Awid puriK ijsu kIAw dwnu ] aadh purakh jis keeaa dhaan || One whom the Primal Lord God blesses with His bounties, iqs kau imilAw hir inDwnu ] this ko miliaa har nidhhaan || obtains the treasure of the Lord. iqs kI giq imiq khI n jwie ] this kee gath mith kehee n jaae || His state and extent cannot be described. nwnk jn hir hir iDAwie ]4]9] naanak jan har har dhhiaae ||4||9|| Servant Nanak meditates on the Lord, Har, Har. ||4|

Sadsangat ji this shabad is reality of life. It's just our moh for each other that make us think that we are connected to each other. In reality no one looks beyond them selves. This Shabad is by Guru Tegh Bahaadur Ji in Salok Mehl 9 on Pannaa 1429 inj kir dyiKE jgqu mY ko kwhU ko nwih ] nij kar dhaekhiou jagath mai ko kaahoo ko naahi || I had looked upon the world as my own, but no one belongs to anyone else. nwnk iQru hir Bgiq hY iqh rwKo mn mwih ]48] naanak thhir har bhagath hai thih raakho man maahi ||48|| O Nanak, only devotional worship of the Lord is permanent; enshrine this in your mind. ||48||

Well,now that your asking.. I would quite like to have a lal bati on my car.... Can you pick one up from Halfords..? I can do that for sure but I am afraid it's not going to last that long. Dear you need a line of chale around you so that politicians can estimate how much votes they are going to get from you. I know how to play dholki just in case if you are planning to start your own jatha. I am available 24 hours. Lol!!

This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Raag Sorath on Pannaa 627 soriT mhlw 5 ] sorat(h) mehalaa 5 || Sorat'h, Fifth Mehla: prmysir idqw bMnw ] paramaesar dhithaa ba(n)naa || The Transcendent Lord has given me His support. duK rog kw fyrw BMnw ] dhukh rog kaa ddaeraa bha(n)naa || The house of pain and disease has been demolished. And krih nr nwrI ] anadh karehi nar naaree || The men and women celebrate. hir hir pRiB ikrpw DwrI ]1] har har prabh kirapaa dhhaaree ||1|| The Lord God, Har, Har, has extended His Mercy. ||1|| sMqhu suKu hoAw sB QweI ] sa(n)thahu sukh hoaa sabh thhaaee || O Saints, there is peace everywhere. pwrbRhmu pUrn prmysru riv rihAw sBnI jweI ] rhwau ] paarabreham pooran paramaesar rav rehiaa sabhanee jaaee || rehaao || The Supreme Lord God, the Perfect Transcendent Lord, is pervading everywhere. ||Pause|| Dur kI bwxI AweI ] dhhur kee baanee aaee || The Bani of His Word emanated from the Primal Lord. iqin sglI icMq imtweI ] thin sagalee chi(n)th mittaaee || It eradicates all anxiety. dieAwl purK imhrvwnw ] dhaeiaal purakh miharavaanaa || The Lord is merciful, kind and compassionate. hir nwnk swcu vKwnw ]2]13]77] har naanak saach vakhaanaa ||2||13||77|| Nanak chants the Naam, the Name of the True Lord. ||2||13||77||

SSA to all, I think the discussion shouldn't be about having or not having cars. I think it should be about lal bati on top. That's what I heard in the song. I am just providing some masala to see what else is left out there that is not discussed so far. LOL!!

Here is the defination of Sant as per Mahan Kosh (B. Khan Singh Nabha) ਸੰਤ ਸੰਤੁ ਸੰ. ... ਸ਼ਾਂਤ. ਵਿ- ਮਨ ਇੰਦ੍ਰੀਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਜਿਸ ਨੇ ਟਿਕਾਇਆ ਹੈ ਸ਼ਾਂਤਾਤਮਾ. ''ਸੰਤ ਕੈ ਊਪਰਿ ਦੇਇ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਹਾਥ.'' (ਗੌਂਡ ਮ ੫) ਦੇਖੋ, ਅੰ. ... ਗੁਰਬਾਣੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਸੰਤ ਦਾ ਲਛਣ ਅਤੇ ਮਹਿਮਾ ਇਸ ਤਰਾਂ ਹੈ- ਸੰਤੁ ਜਿਨਾ ਸਾਸਿ ਗਿਰਾਸਿ ਨ ਵਿਸਰੈ ਹਰਿਨਾਮਾਾਂ ਮਨਿ ਮੰਤ, ਧੰਨੁ ਸਿ ਸੇਈ ਨਾਨਕਾ, ਪੂਰਨੁ ਸੋਈ ਸੰਤੁ. ਸੰਤੁ (ਮ ੫. ਵਾਰ ਗਉ ੨) ਸੰਤੁ ਆਠ ਪਹਰ ਨਿਕਟਿ ਕਰਿ ਜਾਨੈ, ਸੰਤੁ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕਾ ਕੀਆ ਮੀਠਾ ਮਾਨੈ. ਸੰਤੁ ਏਕੁ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੰਤਨ ਆਧਾਰੁ, ਸੰਤੁ ਹੋਇ ਰਹੇ ਸਭ ਕੀ ਪਗਛਾਰੁ. ਸੰਤੁ ਸੰਤ ਰਹਤ ਸੁਨਹੁ ਮੇਰੇ ਭਾਈ, ਸੰਤੁ ਉਆ ਕੀ ਮਹਿਮਾ ਕਥਨੁ ਨ ਜਾਈ. ਸੰਤੁ ਵਰਤਣਿ ਜਾਕੈ ਕੇਵਲ ਨਾਮ, ਸੰਤੁ ਅਨਦ ਰੂਪ ਕੀਰਤਨੁ ਬਿਸਰਾਮ. ਸੰਤੁ ਮਿਤ੍ਰ ਸਤ੍ਰ ਜਾਕੈ ਏਕ ਸਮਾਨੈ, ਸੰਤੁ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਅਪੁਨੇ ਬਿਨ ਅਵਰੁ ਨ ਜਾਨੈ, ਸੰਤੁ ਕੋਟਿ ਕੋਟਿ ਅਘ ਕਾਟਨਹਾਰਾ, ਸੰਤੁ ਦੁਖ ਦੂਰਿ ਕਰਨ ਜੀਅ ਕੇ ਦਾਤਾਰਾ. ਸੰਤੁ ਸੂਰਬੀਰ ਬਚਨ ਕੇ ਬਲੀ, ਸੰਤੁ ਕਉਲਾ ਬਪੁਰੀ ਸੰਤੀ ਛਲੀ. ਸੰਤੁ ਤਾਕਾ ਸੰਗੁ ਬਾਛਹਿ ਸੁਰਦੇਵ, ਸੰਤੁ ਅਮੋਘ ਦਰਸੁ ਕਰੇ ਅਰਦਾਸਿ, ਸੰਤੁ ਕਰਜੋੜਿ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਸਫਲ ਜਾਕੀ ਸੇਵ. ਸੰਤੁ ਮੋਹਿ ਸੰਤਟਹਲ ਦੀਜੈ ਗੁਣਤਾਸਿ.

jYqsrI mhlw 5 Gru 3 jaithasaree mehalaa 5 ghar 3 Jaitsree, Fifth Mehla, Third House: <> siqgur pRswid ] ik oa(n)kaar sathigur prasaadh || One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru: koeI jwnY kvnu eIhw jig mIqu ] koee jaanai kavan eehaa jag meeth || Does anyone know, who is our friend in this world? ijsu hoie ik®pwlu soeI ibiD bUJY qw kI inrml rIiq ]1] rhwau ] jis hoe kirapaal soee bidhh boojhai thaa kee niramal reeth ||1|| rehaao || He alone understands this, whom the Lord blesses with His Mercy. Immaculate and unstained is his way of life. ||1||Pause|| mwq ipqw binqw suq bMDp iest mIq Aru BweI ] pUrb jnm ky imly sMjogI AMqih ko n shweI ]1] maath pithaa banithaa suth ba(n)dhhap eisatt meeth ar bhaaee || poorab janam kae milae sa(n)jogee a(n)thehi ko n sehaaee ||1|| Mother, father, spouse, children, relatives, lovers, friends and siblings meet, having been associated in previous lives; but none of them will be your companion and support in the end. ||1|| mukiq mwl kink lwl hIrw mn rMjn kI mwieAw ] mukath maal kanik laal heeraa man ra(n)jan kee maaeiaa || Pearl necklaces, gold, rubies and diamonds please the mind, but they are only Maya. hw hw krq ibhwnI AvDih qw mih sMqoKu n pwieAw ]2] haa haa karath bihaanee avadhhehi thaa mehi sa(n)thokh n paaeiaa ||2|| Possessing them, one passes his life in agony; he obtains no contentment from them. ||2|| hsiq rQ AsÍ pvn qyj DxI BUmn cqurWgw ] hasath rathh asv pavan thaej dhhanee bhooman chathuraa(n)gaa || Elephants, chariots, horses as fast as the wind, wealth, land, and armies of four kinds sMig n cwilE ien mih kCUAY aUiT isDwieE nWgw ]3] sa(n)g n chaaliou ein mehi kashhooai oot(h) sidhhaaeiou naa(n)gaa ||3|| - none of these will go with him; he must get up and depart, naked. ||3|| hir ky sMq ipRA pRIqm pRB ky qw kY hir hir gweIAY ] har kae sa(n)th pria preetham prabh kae thaa kai har har gaaeeai || The Lord's Saints are the beloved lovers of God; sing of the Lord, Har, Har, with them. nwnk eIhw suKu AwgY muK aUjl sMig sMqn kY pweIAY ]4]1] naanak eehaa sukh aagai mukh oojal sa(n)g sa(n)than kai paaeeai ||4||1|| O Nanak, in the Society of the Saints, you shall obtain peace in this world, and in the next world, your face shall be radiant and bright. ||4||1|| This Shabad is by Bhagat Kabeer Ji in Raag Gauree on Pannaa 327 gauVI kbIr jI iqpdy ] gourree kabeer jee thipadhae || Gauree, Kabeer Jee, Ti-Paday: kMcn isau pweIAY nhI qoil ] ka(n)chan sio paaeeai nehee thol || He cannot be obtained by offering your weight in gold. mnu dy rwmu lIAw hY moil ]1] man dhae raam leeaa hai mol ||1|| But I have bought the Lord by giving my mind to Him. ||1|| Ab moih rwmu Apunw kir jwinAw ] ab mohi raam apunaa kar jaaniaa || Now I recognize that He is my Lord. shj suBwie myrw mnu mwinAw ]1] rhwau ] sehaj subhaae maeraa man maaniaa ||1|| rehaao || My mind is intuitively pleased with Him. ||1||Pause|| bRhmY kiQ kiQ AMqu n pwieAw ] brehamai kathh kathh a(n)th n paaeiaa || Brahma spoke of Him continually, but could not find His limit. rwm Bgiq bYTy Gir AwieAw ]2] raam bhagath bait(h)ae ghar aaeiaa ||2|| Because of my devotion to the Lord, He has come to sit within the home of my inner being. ||2|| khu kbIr cMcl miq iqAwgI ] kahu kabeer cha(n)chal math thiaagee || Says Kabeer, I have renounced my restless intellect. kyvl rwm Bgiq inj BwgI ]3]1]19] kaeval raam bhagath nij bhaagee ||3||1||19|| It is my destiny to worship the Lord alone. ||3||1||19||

This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Raag Soohee on Pannaa 749 sUhI mhlw 5 ] soohee mehalaa 5 || Soohee, Fifth Mehla: BwgTVy hir sMq qum@wry ijn@ Gir Dnu hir nwmw ] bhaagat(h)arrae har sa(n)th thumhaarae jinh ghar dhhan har naamaa || Your Saints are very fortunate; their homes are filled with the wealth of the Lord's Name. prvwxu gxI syeI ieh Awey sPl iqnw ky kwmw ]1] paravaan ganee saeee eih aaeae safal thinaa kae kaamaa ||1|| Their birth is approved, and their actions are fruitful. ||1|| myry rwm hir jn kY hau bil jweI ] maerae raam har jan kai ho bal jaaee || O my Lord, I am a sacrifice to the humble servants of the Lord. kysw kw kir cvru Fulwvw crx DUiV muiK lweI ]1] rhwau ] kaesaa kaa kar chavar dtulaavaa charan dhhoorr mukh laaee ||1|| rehaao || I make my hair into a fan, and wave it over them; I apply the dust of their feet to my face. ||1||Pause|| jnm mrx duhhU mih nwhI jn praupkwrI Awey ] janam maran dhuhehoo mehi naahee jan paroupakaaree aaeae || Those generous, humble beings are above both birth and death. jIA dwnu dy BgqI lwiein hir isau lYin imlwey ]2] jeea dhaan dhae bhagathee laaein har sio lain milaaeae ||2|| They give the gift of the soul, and practice devotional worship; they inspire others to meet the Lord. ||2|| scw Amru scI pwiqswhI scy syqI rwqy ] sachaa amar sachee paathisaahee sachae saethee raathae || True are their commands, and true are their empires; they are attuned to the Truth. scw suKu scI vifAweI ijs ky sy iqin jwqy ]3] sachaa sukh sachee vaddiaaee jis kae sae thin jaathae ||3|| True is their happiness, and true is their greatness. They know the Lord, to whom they belong. ||3|| pKw PyrI pwxI Fovw hir jn kY pIsxu pIis kmwvw ] pakhaa faeree paanee dtovaa har jan kai peesan pees kamaavaa || I wave the fan over them, carry water for them, and grind corn for the humble servants of the Lord. nwnk kI pRB pwis bynµqI qyry jn dyKxu pwvw ]4]7]54] naanak kee prabh paas baena(n)thee thaerae jan dhaekhan paavaa ||4||7||54|| Nanak offers this prayer to God - please, grant me the sight of Your humble servants. ||4||7||54||

gauVI mhlw 5 mWJ ] gourree mehalaa 5 maa(n)jh || Gauree, Fifth Mehla, Maajh: duK BMjnu qyrw nwmu jI duK BMjnu qyrw nwmu ] dhukh bha(n)jan thaeraa naam jee dhukh bha(n)jan thaeraa naam || The Destroyer of sorrow is Your Name, Lord; the Destroyer of sorrow is Your Name. AwT phr AwrwDIAY pUrn siqgur igAwnu ]1] rhwau ] aat(h) pehar aaraadhheeai pooran sathigur giaan ||1|| rehaao || Twenty-four hours a day, dwell upon the wisdom of the Perfect True Guru. ||1||Pause|| ijqu Git vsY pwrbRhmu soeI suhwvw Qwau ] jith ghatt vasai paarabreham soee suhaavaa thhaao || That heart, in which the Supreme Lord God abides, is the most beautiful place. jm kMkru nyiV n AwveI rsnw hir gux gwau ]1] jam ka(n)kar naerr n aavee rasanaa har gun gaao ||1|| The Messenger of Death does not even approach those who chant the Glorious Praises of the Lord with the tongue. ||1|| syvw suriq n jwxIAw nw jwpY AwrwiD ] saevaa surath n jaaneeaa naa jaapai aaraadhh || I have not understood the wisdom of serving Him, nor have I worshipped Him in meditation. Et qyrI jgjIvnw myry Twkur Agm AgwiD ]2] outt thaeree jagajeevanaa maerae t(h)aakur agam agaadhh ||2|| You are my Support, O Life of the World; O my Lord and Master, Inaccessible and Incomprehensible. ||2|| Bey ik®pwl gusweIAw nTy sog sMqwp ] bheae kirapaal gusaaeeaa nat(h)ae sog sa(n)thaap || When the Lord of the Universe became merciful, sorrow and suffering departed. qqI vwau n lgeI siqguir rKy Awip ]3] thathee vaao n lagee sathigur rakhae aap ||3|| The hot winds do not even touch those who are protected by the True Guru. ||3|| guru nwrwiexu dXu guru guru scw isrjxhwru ] gur naaraaein dhay gur gur sachaa sirajanehaar || The Guru is the All-pervading Lord, the Guru is the Merciful Master; the Guru is the True Creator Lord. guir quTY sB ikCu pwieAw jn nwnk sd bilhwr ]4]2]170] gur thut(h)ai sabh kishh paaeiaa jan naanak sadh balihaar ||4||2||170|| When the Guru was totally satisfied, I obtained everything. Servant Nanak is forever a sacrifice to Him. ||4||2||170||

This Shabad is by Bhagat Naam Dev Ji in Raag Tilang on Pannaa 727 nwmdyv jI ] naamadhaev jee || Naam Dayv Jee: mY AMDuly kI tyk qyrw nwmu KuMdkwrw ] mai a(n)dhhulae kee ttaek thaeraa naam khu(n)dhakaaraa || I am blind; Your Name, O Creator Lord, is my only anchor and support. mY grIb mY mskIn qyrw nwmu hY ADwrw ]1] rhwau ] mai gareeb mai masakeen thaeraa naam hai adhhaaraa ||1|| rehaao || I am poor, and I am meek. Your Name is my only support. ||1||Pause|| krImW rhImW Alwh qU gnNØI ] kareemaa(n) reheemaa(n) alaah thoo gana(n)aee || O beautiful Lord, benevolent and merciful Lord, You are so wealthy and generous. hwjrw hjUir dir pyis qUM mnNØI ]1] haajaraa hajoor dhar paes thoo mana(n)aee ||1|| You are ever-present in every presence, within and before me. ||1|| drIAwau qU idhMd qU ibsIAwr qU DnI ] dhareeaao thoo dhiha(n)dh thoo biseeaar thoo dhhanee || You are the river of life, You are the Giver of all; You are so very wealthy. dyih lyih eyku qUM idgr ko nhI ]2] dhaehi laehi eaek thoo dhigar ko nehee ||2|| You alone give, and You alone take away; there is no other at all. ||2|| qUM dwnW qUM bInW mY bIcwru ikAw krI ] thoo dhaanaa(n) thoo beenaa(n) mai beechaar kiaa karee || You are wise, You are the supreme seer; how could I make You an object of thought? nwmy cy suAwmI bKsMd qUM hrI ]3]1]2] naamae chae suaamee bakhasa(n)dh thoo haree ||3||1||2|| O Lord and Master of Naam Dayv, You are the merciful Lord of forgiveness. ||3||1||2||

This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Raag Maaroo on Pannaa 1019 mwrU mhlw 5 ] maaroo mehalaa 5 || Maaroo, Fifth Mehla: ibrKY hyiT siB jMq iekTy ] birakhai haet(h) sabh ja(n)th eikat(h)ae || Beneath the tree, all beings have gathered. ieik qqy ieik bolin imTy ] eik thathae eik bolan mit(h)ae || Some are hot-headed, and some speak very sweetly. Asqu audoqu BieAw auiT cly ijau ijau AauD ivhwxIAw ]1] asath oudhoth bhaeiaa out(h) chalae jio jio aoudhh vihaaneeaa ||1|| Sunset has come, and they rise up and depart; their days have run their course and expired. ||1|| pwp krydV srpr muTy ] paap karaedharr sarapar mut(h)ae || Those who committed sins are sure to be ruined. AjrweIil PVy PiV kuTy ] ajaraaeel farrae farr kut(h)ae || Azraa-eel, the Angel of Death, seizes and tortures them. dojik pwey isrjxhwrY lyKw mMgY bwxIAw ]2] dhojak paaeae sirajanehaarai laekhaa ma(n)gai baaneeaa ||2|| They are consigned to hell by the Creator Lord, and the Accountant calls them to give their account. ||2|| sMig n koeI BeIAw bybw ] sa(n)g n koee bheeaa baebaa || No brothers or sisters can go with them. mwlu jobnu Dnu Coif v\ysw ] maal joban dhhan shhodd van(j)aesaa || Leaving behind their property, youth and wealth, they march off. krx krIm n jwqo krqw iql pIVy ijau GwxIAw ]3] karan kareem n jaatho karathaa thil peerrae jio ghaaneeaa ||3|| They do not know the kind and compassionate Lord; they shall be crushed like sesame seeds in the oil-press. ||3|| Kuis Kuis lYdw vsqu prweI ] khus khus laidhaa vasath paraaee || You happily, cheerfully steal the possessions of others, vyKY suxy qyrY nwil KudweI ] vaekhai sunae thaerai naal khudhaaee || but the Lord God is with you, watching and listening. dunIAw lib pieAw Kwq AMdir AglI gl n jwxIAw ]4] dhuneeaa lab paeiaa khaath a(n)dhar agalee gal n jaaneeaa ||4|| Through worldly greed, you have fallen into the pit; you know nothing of the future. ||4|| jim jim mrY mrY iPir jMmY ] jam jam marai marai fir ja(n)mai || You shall be born and born again, and die and die again, only to be reincarnated again. bhuqu sjwie pieAw dyis lµmY ] bahuth sajaae paeiaa dhaes la(n)mai || You shall suffer terrible punishment, on your way to the land beyond. ijin kIqw iqsY n jwxI AMDw qw duKu shY prwxIAw ]5] jin keethaa thisai n jaanee a(n)dhhaa thaa dhukh sehai paraaneeaa ||5|| The mortal does not know the One who created him; he is blind, and so he shall suffer. ||5|| Kwlk Qwvhu Bulw muTw ] khaalak thhaavahu bhulaa mut(h)aa || Forgetting the Creator Lord, he is ruined. dunIAw Kylu burw ruT quTw ] dhuneeaa khael buraa rut(h) thut(h)aa || The drama of the world is bad; it brings sadness and then happiness. isdku sbUrI sMqu n imilE vqY Awpx BwxIAw ]6] sidhak sabooree sa(n)th n miliou vathai aapan bhaaneeaa ||6|| One who does not meet the Saint does not have faith or contentment; he wanders just as he pleases. ||6|| maulw Kyl kry siB Awpy ] ieik kFy ieik lhir ivAwpy ] moulaa khael karae sabh aapae || eik kadtae eik lehar viaapae || The Lord Himself stages all this drama. Some, he lifts up, and some he throws into the waves. ijau ncwey iqau iqau ncin isir isir ikrq ivhwxIAw ]7] jio nachaaeae thio thio nachan sir sir kirath vihaaneeaa ||7|| As He makes them dance, so do they dance. Everyone lives their lives according to their past actions. ||7|| imhr kry qw Ksmu iDAweI ] mihar karae thaa khasam dhhiaaee || When the Lord and Master grants His Grace, then we meditate on Him. sMqw sMgiq nrik n pweI ] sa(n)thaa sa(n)gath narak n paaee || In the Society of the Saints, one is not consigned to hell. AMimRq nwm dwnu nwnk kau gux gIqw inq vKwxIAw ]8]2]8]12]20] a(n)mrith naam dhaan naanak ko gun geethaa nith vakhaaneeaa ||8||2||8||12||20|| Please bless Nanak with the gift of the Ambrosial Naam, the Name of the Lord; he continually sings the songs of Your Glories. ||8||2||8||12||20||

mlwr mhlw 4 ] malaar mehalaa 4 || Malaar, Fourth Mehla: rwm rwm boil boil Kojqy bfBwgI ] raam raam bol bol khojathae baddabhaagee || They speak and chant the Name of the Lord, Raam, Raam; the very fortunate ones seek Him. hir kw pMQu koaU bqwvY hau qw kY pwie lwgI ]1] rhwau ] har kaa pa(n)thh kooo bathaavai ho thaa kai paae laagee ||1|| rehaao || Whoever shows me the Way of the Lord - I fall at his feet. ||1||Pause|| hir hmwro mIqu sKweI hm hir isau pRIiq lwgI ] har hamaaro meeth sakhaaee ham har sio preeth laagee || The Lord is my Friend and Compansion; I am in love with the Lord. hir hm gwvih hir hm bolih Aauru duqIAw pRIiq hm iqAwgI ]1] har ham gaavehi har ham bolehi aour dhutheeaa preeth ham thiaagee ||1|| I sing of the Lord, and I speak of the Lord; I have discarded all other loves. ||1|| mnmohn moro pRIqm rwmu hir prmwnµdu bYrwgI ] manamohan moro preetham raam har paramaana(n)dh bairaagee || My Beloved is the Enticer of the mind; The Detached Lord God is the Embodiment of Supreme bliss. hir dyKy jIvq hY nwnku iek inmK plo muiK lwgI ]2]2]9]9]13]9]31] har dhaekhae jeevath hai naanak eik nimakh palo mukh laagee ||2||2||9||9||13||9||31|| Nanak lives by gazing upon the Lord; may I see Him for a moment, for even just an instant. ||2||2||9||9||13||9||31||

This Shabad is by Bhagat Kabeer Ji in Raag Bilaaval on Pannaa 856 iblwvlu ] bilaaval || Bilaaval: drmwdy TwFy drbwir ] dharamaadhae t(h)aadtae dharabaar || I stand humbly at Your Court. quJ ibnu suriq krY ko myrI drsnu dIjY Koil@ ikvwr ]1] rhwau ] thujh bin surath karai ko maeree dharasan dheejai kholih kivaar ||1|| rehaao || Who else can take care of me, other than You? Please open Your door, and grant me the Blessed Vision of Your Darshan. ||1||Pause|| qum Dn DnI audwr iqAwgI sRvnn@ sunIAqu sujsu qum@wr ] thum dhhan dhhanee oudhaar thiaagee sravananh suneeath sujas thumhaar || You are the richest of the rich, generous and unattached. With my ears, I listen to Your Praises. mwgau kwih rMk sB dyKau qum@ hI qy myro insqwru ]1] maago kaahi ra(n)k sabh dhaekho thumh hee thae maero nisathaar ||1|| From whom should I beg? I see that all are beggars. My salvation comes only from You. ||1|| jYdyau nwmw ibp sudwmw iqn kau ik®pw BeI hY Apwr ] jaidhaeo naamaa bip sudhaamaa thin ko kirapaa bhee hai apaar || You blessed Jai Dayv, Naam Dayv and Sudaamaa the Brahmin with Your infinite mercy. kih kbIr qum sMmRQ dwqy cwir pdwrQ dyq n bwr ]2]7] kehi kabeer thum sa(n)mrathh dhaathae chaar padhaarathh dhaeth n baar ||2||7|| Says Kabeer, You are the All-powerful Lord, the Great Giver; in an instant, You bestow the four great blessings. ||2||7||

This Shabad is by Guru Raam Daas Ji in Raag Kaanraa on Pannaa 1315 pauVI ] pourree || Pauree: pMcy sbd vjy miq gurmiq vfBwgI Anhdu vijAw ] pa(n)chae sabadh vajae math guramath vaddabhaagee anehadh vajiaa || The Panch Shabad, the Five Primal Sounds, vibrate with the Wisdom of the Guru's Teachings; by great good fortune, the Unstruck Melody resonates and resounds. Awnd mUlu rwmu sBu dyiKAw gur sbdI goivdu gijAw ] aanadh mool raam sabh dhaekhiaa gur sabadhee govidh gajiaa || I see the Lord, the Source of Bliss, everywhere; through the Word of the Guru's Shabad, the Lord of the Universe is revealed. Awid jugwid vysu hir eyko miq gurmiq hir pRBu BijAw ] aadh jugaadh vaes har eaeko math guramath har prabh bhajiaa || From the primal beginning, and throughout the ages, the Lord has One Form. Through the Wisdom of the Guru's Teachings, I vibrate and meditate on the Lord God. hir dyvhu dwnu dieAwl pRB jn rwKhu hir pRB lijAw ] har dhaevahu dhaan dhaeiaal prabh jan raakhahu har prabh lajiaa || O Merciful Lord God, please bless me with Your Bounty; O Lord God, please preserve and protect the honor of Your humble servant. siB DMnu khhu guru siqgurU guru siqgurU ijqu imil hir pVdw kijAw ]7] sabh dhha(n)n kehahu gur sathiguroo gur sathiguroo jith mil har parradhaa kajiaa ||7|| Let everyone proclaim: Blessed is the Guru, the True Guru, the Guru, the True Guru; meeting Him, the Lord covers their faults and deficiencies. ||7||

WJKK WJKF! Bhenji here is what I would like to add based on my understanding of Gurmat on this issue. Guru ji had mentioned the 5 vikars in a paticular order. Kam karodh, lobh, moh and ahankar. Guru Gobind Singh had mentioned about Khalsa being one family because he was aware of the issues that we will face. If you clearly think about these five vikars, Kaam is the most powerful one (not that others are less distructive). To be brief there is a sakhi of Baba Deep Singh ji. Baba ji had rescued one girl from Mugals who was very beautiful. When Singhs decided to drop her off at her house and asked Baba Ji to take charge he refused and agreed to do it only if 5 Singhs will go with him. What that means is that even a mahapursh like Baba Ji has to be careful. Now coming back to topic my personal experience is you can't beat Kaam unless you call and treat people as brothers and sisters. No matters how pure you are there are chances that you can slip from your path. I am not sure if you have met these Singh/s or its just virtual world communication. If they don’t address you as sister that’s still ok but asking you not to call them brother is outrageous. I don't see their conscious clear if they don't want to be called out as brothers. They may have same kind of attitude for other girls who are not married. My comments are based on personal experience. Calling and treating people as brothers and sisters had really helped me and is still working. Now to keep in touch with these people is up to you. WJKK WJKF

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