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  1. ther are more girls than boys anyways. I hav noticed that eventuali the gals come round to idea of a sardar out of desperashun . Tha sardars shud be the kind educatd stable one 4 the marriage. The gals mess around with the non sardar types then come lookin 4stability. This is only based on the 1-2 ppl i talk to on lookin for marriage

    ther are more girls than boys anyways. I hav noticed that eventuali the gals come round to idea of a sardar out of desperashun . Tha sardars shud be the kind educatd stable one 4 the marriage. The gals mess around with the non sardar types then come lookin 4stability. This is only based on the 1-2 ppl i talk to on lookin for marriage

  2. The moss best way is ur own exampl u set . Ppl wil see this and realise the divinity is shinin 4m u. That u might be sent in ther life 2shine this. The rest is god's design. Always remember every1 is looking 4divinity its just that u see mayas things 1st :(

  3. just use cling film and ther will be ok sucham.... ;-)But seriously arent there shabads in guru granth sahib on what is tru suchm. I remember readin it . How doers a bit of saliva destroy guru gobind singhs AMRIT? Don't make no sense! Perhaps in his company she 2 wil be hav AMRIT . But if he push her away like this no one is helped ?

  4. This topic has and is effectin sikhs so that shud be enuf said . On that . But also think if we all thought no stay away 4m such girls or guyss then we mite then ther risk losing these ppl to other religions. Our sikhi shud b strong enuf to cope with past of a partner. It seems like everyone these days has a past. I not sayin anythin is ok. Just that shud this bro say no to move on to a next person wit almost the same stuff! Or guyss here wil say marry a virgin tha u don't really like just cos she is a virgin type.

    An thanx 4sharin the personal exp of life, it helps to c wo happene

    This topic has and is effectin sikhs so that shud be enuf said . On that . But also think if we all thought no stay away 4m such girls or guyss then we mite then ther risk losing these ppl to other religions. Our sikhi shud b strong enuf to cope with past of a partner. It seems like everyone these days has a past. I not sayin anythin is ok. Just that shud this bro say no to move on to a next person wit almost the same stuff! Or guyss here wil say marry a virgin tha u don't really like just cos she is a virgin type.

    An thanx 4sharin the personal exp of life, it helps to c wo happene

  5. Thank fors the tru honesty. These R the main things in his mind also on the past drag up sum not nice things that might spoil things for the togetherness of it all. On the other hand in 20years time who will care? We'll be gone from this duniaa ther won't even be any record of us. I am trying to just listen and tho i think he shud jus 4giv and 4get. Is ther any sense in marrying a diff person u don't love as much ... How about not inviting 2many ppl 2wedding to reduce the stigma? Lol

  6. camps are for kids . Yeh but the Sevadarz R usually marryin age . No u shud not go 4that but life is like that sometimes things just happen. U c some1 u like u talk next thing u r in lov and married. Or married and then lov dependin on ur religiousnesses. Same as at uni s it just happens. Do ardas n watch the magic happen

  7. Thankyov so much 4 taking the time 2read the dilemma and see the deeper part of the thing in hand. The advice is so tru . Ego is the thing always in our path. :( stoppin us being tru. To the other post i think you can now see love trust forgiveness relationships ego have everything to do with sikhi . Dont be so kwik to judge. This post is under a section called Relations ! Lol

  8. Sadi sangat ji. I hav been having almost daily hour long calls wit a friend suffering 2much. B4 you accuse and abuse . I wil explain. He is interested in her 4purposes of marriage. She too after many years of bad luci on relationss and sleeping around. He is madly in lov but cannot overcome this issue of sleeping around so much. . . So is she on him i think. Wo sikhi advice can i giv to the brother, shud he 4giv? Look elsewher? .thanks in the advancing

  9. Just say no it makes things difficult and no it might b what all else ppl get up to but we R special. Girls can never deal with the issues this creates. And carry them all thru their lives. H've seen the guilt really mess some ppl up big time. Wo 4 ? A moments happiness. :(

  10. I no see what the fuss is about as it depends on preference. Some ppl tie pugri in 1 style some in another it depends on many things . So some ppl have long beard some short. Dont. Be jealous just c the beauty inside of each person. Isnt it better to tie beard n keep those vaal then a person that trims it ? So then what category do all those sikhs that fort in the ww2 go in do you look down on them too for tying beard?

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