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  1. aww thts an amazingg pic....i wish i had taken my camera too...instead i had to try capturing the atmopher on a dinky lil fone...but tht was my second rehnswaii and it was absolutely fantastic!!!!!! deff wana go again....worth every second!!!! love bibi mansundar kaurs simran....waheguru!!!!! :WW:
  2. kirtan darbar in southampton....there will be a lil vichaar in punjabi and english....naam simran (heavy) lol please try making it if ur free this will take place on the 12th May 2007...saturday...6.30pm onwards (10 ish) hopefully the youth will also be doing the rehras sahib so please come and help out with seva. will be most grateful! wjkk wjkfateh jio poster.doc
  3. i need 'mera vedh guru gobinda' as soon as possible...does ne1 have this file? pleasee u'll be doing me the biggest favour
  4. sukhsimran penji....can u please contact me, or i can contact u somhow. i wud realli lyk to tlk to u bout this. cnt reali say nefink in public, bt in private som how :D wjkk wjkf
  5. um interesting topic....i personally believe tht khalsa is going to hve to start from outside khalistan and then move in. well thts the view i've always been taught. i believe the 'western' will develop purity before and take it into our 'land' and show them. lyk already said...we need to become khalsa ourselves before tryin to turn others into khalsa. bhul chuk maaf wjkk wjkf!
  6. for me amrit sanchar is being reborn into the khalsa family. lyk veerji's have said above it brings death into it. its jst a feeling tht u can not overcome. wjkk wjkf!
  7. is it rong to go to church if ur amritdhari? its jst i go to a catholic skoool and every term begining and ended it is compulsory tht we sit through a mass in church and listen to the gospel of jesus....is tht rong? i mean its ok if u jst remeber waheguru rite? same q. for mandir's....can u visit them wid waheguru in ur mind and not bowing dwn to the statues? or is jst goin there rong all together? bhul chuk maf and sorri if this topic is pointless wjkk wjkf!
  8. baba ranjit singh ji and giani thakhur singh ji both soo clear and easily understood. soo inspirational i like sant maskeen ji bt i cnt understand his therefore i dont reali favour his katha...he's beyond my limits... wjkk wjkf
  9. wjkk wjkf! im not realli uptodate wid this forum so i dnt know wher to post woteva...but i just wana say we've booked a langar di seva at singh saba gudwara in southampton cranbury avenue/road....i fink jagowale gna b singing and kirtan by the kids....everyones invited hope to see u there. if u need more info mail me on miss_perfect4u@hotmail.com (dont larf at the mail addy its quite old) wjkk wjkf! its jst i wud love to see gursikhi sangat here in soton...cz well we have very little. tke care
  10. wjkk wjkf hey penji, jst wanted to say i was in the same position as ur m8, altho my rents are proper amritdharis...bt not lettin me take it. so i jst did many ardass and listened close to the hukumnaama's i got and realised lyk khalsa ji said above...its more of value to please and b eternal wid waheguru than earthly parents altho u shud respect them totally. but yeh tell ur friend to folow her heart :lol: bhul chuk maf wjkk wjkf!
  11. we are taught tht we as sikhs ave 3 gurus....guru granth sahib ji obvi is the first then our parents are our 2nd. this is because they mould us into who we are and become. and 3rdly is our sangath...our sangth teaches us wot we know sayin tht ur rents mite marry u off to som troll...altho i know it wasa joke...wudnt actually happen, because through ur rents waheguru wud allow u to live out the destined life waheguru has writen for u. therefore arranged marriages can work very well.. on the other hand, u may meet 'the one' within the sangath u chill with....it doesnt have to b a kaam filled relationship to be called a love mariage...but if thts who ur supose to b wid then wts the difference or problem with it being love or aranged? at the end of the day guru ji, waheguru ji has writen for u to b wid a certain person and therfore we shud carry out guru jis hukum bt one fing tht i cnt seem to reali understand is....well u know wen we go through the process of lookin at guuys or girls wid rents in aranged marriages...how do u know wich is the one guru ji chose for u? i mean u mite get on wid more than 2 of them...u cud have stuff in common with more than one...i know at the end of the day its writen...bt how do u know at the time? i mean lyk to feed our hungy stomach we gota pick up the food and put into our mouth...we cnt sit there wid our eyes closed and say 'if guru ji has writen for me to eat today he'll make it happen'....same goes for mariage... how do we know who is the 'one'? bhul chuhk maff....sorri if ive jst blabbered on abit...have a habit of doin tht lol wjkk wjkf!
  12. is there nefink rong wid wearin long skirts? or are we jst sayin tht skirts shudnt b worn all together? cz i have a couple of long skirts tht hide my legs from b4 i took amrit bt i havent worn them cz i dnt know whether we're allowed to or not. cud sm1 please fill me in on tht. bhul chuk maf wjkk wjkf!
  13. wjkk wjkf thank you for the sites. i think as veerji said, its more about practise and correcting mistakes from the begining rather than learnin how to tie one and realising afterwards that its a bit lop sided lol newayz thanks again. i'll start my mission of learning. wjkk wjkf! bhul chuk maf :TH:
  14. wjkk wjkf ive jst taken amrit recently and i want to learn hw to tie a dastaar. but i cnt find any videos or pics showin how to tie one. and well in the area i live in, there isnt anyone to teach me either if anyone has nefink tht will teach me how to tie on can u please let me know thank you wjkk wjkf kirandeep kaur xxx bhul chuk maf!
  15. veerji im quite upset to hear that our sikhis show gurbani so little respect. and its all well that you've shared this with us, im grateful, bt wot can we do about it? is there any way of putting a stop to it? can we write into the papers and say gurbani shouldnt be printed? will they listen to us? becoz i cnt see much more that we cn do, we cnt travel the world and tell each individual not to thrown newspapers into bins and etc becz well most people wud b lyk well 'y not? wt am i gona do wid thousands of papers?' people wont see the logic of burning it (cremation) if u have an idea of putting an end to this paap please let us know and we will support u in making those words into actions, becz if we do nofink about it we are being jst as paapi by not defending our guru's bani bul chuk maf wjkk wjkf
  16. wjkk wjkf veerji's and penji's its me again, i had been havin a lot of probs in my life at the moment i tried to do everything in order to mayb make it a lil beta. som1 said do anand sahib 6 paurea 5 times afta nitnem som1 said do mool mantar 5 times afta nitnem som1 said do chopae sahib 5 times in the day and so on and thts all fine, even if doing all tht paat didnt make the actual situation beta it wud have made me beta as a person in reciting wahegurus bani i dnt have a prob wid tht but then som1 said light a Jot wen u do nitnem, put som water there along wid parshaad (made of 5 fings) so lyk 5 almonds or similar ok i get tht 2. bt the Jot is wot i had queries about supposedly a Jot is symobolising waheguru's parkash (as in we know tht waheguru is light, thts fine) bt i dnt understand how lighting a Jot kinda brings waheguru closer to the person or makes waheguru happier. im sorri if i sound a lil stupid, cz well i am, im widout gian and thts wot i wud lyk to have, so please if ne1 out there can fill me in on this...i wud b much appreciatative. bul chuk maf waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh
  17. bt then dont ova q.s pop into mind? lyk do u believe our destiny is writen for us or do we rite our own? if it is riten for us, then mayb those who are dyin frm bird flu are supose to leave this world in that way and by preventing tht frm happening using vaccines and medication, are we not interfering with Gods will? bhul chuk maf wjkk wjkf
  18. thank you everyone for ur responses they are sooo different bt good in there own way i dnt realli know wot i believe now i reallli lyked faujkaurs reply i do agree tht if the 5 kakkar are on and u keep waheguru in mind, there shudnt b a problem about wot u wear, bt lyk sm1 else said that r u able to do kirtan and seva in wot u wear, then its ok is also a valid point i jst set up this topic becz i wanted to no wt ppl's view were on such modern issues lyk this. i know its not as extreme as ova topics on this site, bt its the lil fings tht make the big impacts on our lives. does GGSJi say nefink about it? bhul chuk maf wjkk wjkf
  19. u know wid all this bird flu stuff.... it is said that lyk if one bird in an area has been diagnosed with bird flu all the birds in that area are killed. do u fink god has given us the right to do that? how do we know we have superioty ova all other creatures and beings on this creation? does it say newher in the Guru Granth Sahib Ji dat humans can kill anything or use everything in means to an end? shud we not give Gods gifts (other beings) intrinsic value (value within themselves) rather than Instrumental value (valueing what they do for us)? jst wanted to know where sikhi stands on tht bhul chuk maf wjkk wjkf
  20. fanks for that yeh i see ur point about not being able to defend urself no mata wt u wear if u dnt even know the basics. bt i live in soton and well theres no1 here to teach us, this area is well... well u can say there is no sikhi inspiration here. no1 wants to spread Waheguru's bani. we've jst about started to get ppl lyk Bhai Harjinder singh Lallie frm Bham to com dwn and lyk do an our of kirtan along wid katha in english does da sikh maryadha say nefink specific about not being able to wear saris or lenghe? i know u cnt show ur body bt wud sari still b a prob if i said that the whole body was covered...well excecpt the arms loll? bhuul chuk maf wjkk wjkf
  21. fanks for those arguements. very valid. i lyk the concept of not being able to protect urself. didnt fink of that b4. bt one problem, u said that in a sari ur not able to run or woteva if u need to lyk protect urself, well its the same situ if a girls in heels or wear tight trousers, or a salvar kameez becz she'll jst fall ova and break her leg (quite similar to a sari) so does that mean we shudnt wear those either? about the kirpan well i wear it underneath neways cz i go to a catholic skool and they said tht if i wanted to wear the 5 kakkar they mst not be visible to others, so yh it wud b under the sari and i do agree wid the last point, tht if the 5 kakkar are worn and ur heart and mind is wid waheguru then wots the prob? and one more fing, this prob gona sound stupid bt wots a dhotee? and a bana? bhul chuk maf wjkk wjkf
  22. wjkk wjkf hey im a sikh girl with amritdhari rents and for my prom i bought a sari to wear, bt most guys ive spoken to have said its rong to wear sari's and well i havent heard a valid reason for sikh girls not being allowed to wear sari's if anyone is able to give a good reason y we aren't allowed to wear saris i would love to know :lol: they've told me tht its easier for a guy to rape you, but lyk thts not relli a good enuff arguement becoz well it doesnt happen (i know ppl r gona say tht it does and i accept tht bt lyk thts not a good enuff arguement to put me off frm wearin one u get me?) and anova reason i got was because it makes the opposite sex look at ur sexually well to b honest anything worn will make the ova sex look no mata if ur fully covered or not and it is possible to wear a sari tht covers mostly everything so having bare legs or stomach isnt reali a problem either so anyone else got a beta reason? would be happy to know thank you wjkk wjkf
  23. im the same as every ova person. all of the 5 evils are the samee. i cant say ones stronger than anova. coz wen one's sorted out anova coms along and may b 2wice as bad. bt im tryin to control som. i mean ive tried to control kaam now. krodh im working on. and the same for the others bt wid wahegurus kirpa i will b able to help the conqueres to fight the 5 evils away
  24. yeh sorri the ilford diwaan was on saturday nite and yday was at southall. today it was supose to b in slough but its in bham now. and 2mrw in wolvs. did ne1 go to the southall one last nite? wasnt it heavyyy!!!!! the punj piarye were wikedd too. it was tooo goood last ntiee. proper hot! :TH:
  25. i went to see baba ranjit singh at southall in england on saturday the 9th july and 10th july 2005. he was absolutely amazing. i dont ever recall feeling sooo powerful. he jst gave enerygy to everyone through his katha and kirtan. it was fantastic!!!! if he is visiting ne gurdwara's near you, i recommend u get on the nxt bus and go to see him, because he can move in the unbelievers! :TH: hes fab!
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