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  1. Do some research on this forum, Its a well known problem, a sandesh has been issued by akaal takht sahib banning this from happening, every gurdwara in the UK received a copy, yet they still do it. It will be dealt with as are every other gurdwara. Its not a new problem, its being worked on already. Attached is a copy of the sandesh if you havent read it.
  2. "ONE corrupt girl of a pind in India leaves her home with her lover. Her family, tell local police shes run away and blame it on a lad they THOUGHT she had run off with or had her in hiding" The parents blamed on a lad they THOUGHT she had run of with... So really, its still her fault.. the parents blamed an innoncent, she shud have come clean but in fear of her own life, many more had to die.
  3. "however at the same time i can see exactly where jss's post coming from....there can be a amridhari and a non-amridhari that could be on the same path and so perfect for each other...so why shouldnt they get married??..." Response to this is they cannot be on the same path, One has already given their head, the other hasnt. They might be compatibable but until the other has actually offered their sees to maharaj in the amrit sanchaar, 2 people can not be on the same path or level in sikhi... (just thought add that in quickly..)
  4. If amritdhari look down at non amritdhari / monay then it shows their haumai and reasons why they wernt ready for amrit in the first place. Your point does not relate to marriage tho, it relates to general humanity. Khalsa should remain humble and at the feet of others, doesnt mean they can marry or have personal relations with them.
  5. Amritdhari marry Amritdhari Non Amritdhari marry Non Amritdhari Simple, as per rehit maryada. Theres no need for difference, if someone wants to come into Sikhi, then maharaj will sort it but no excuse for marriage between amritdhari and non amritdhari. Learn the significant difference, you cant share anything with your partner if they are not amritdhari so whats the point, you will have no relationship. The purpose of anand karaj is to join to souls together, if the 2 souls are not yet pure with amrit, your defeating that object straight away. you cant share any food, or ne other relation. Theres been loads of posts when one person in a marraige has commited a kureit and people have asked what happens? Same thing, sorry, its harsh, but sikhi isnt for light hearted, its for the dedicated who love their guru. Thats not to say that those who are not into sikhi dnt love guru ji before accusations are raised. Love your Guru Enuff to sacrifice your life for him, marry him in the amritsanchaar and become one with death. Read some rehit maryada or go and speak to the panj pyaara.
  6. easy for you to say, you have two functional legs keep in mind that not everyone has the same level of shardha as you do. we all start from some place It doesnt matter if i have 2 functional legs, iv had my hardship when i was growing up, i was unable to walk properly at times as i had serious problems with my knees. Never stoped me. I was ill a couple of yrs ago, i cudnt stand, i cudnt move, doctor was amrtidhari and told me to listen to simran / sukhmani sahib, i did. I also made effort to go the gurdwara that day, did an ardaas and requested maharaj get me there. He did. Why? coz i asked. I cudnt walk properly but slowly i made it. Its not about sharda, but dnt u think u shud have sharda and not ego when going to see the guru? Anyone ever wonderd how a muslim does his / her prayers if they are in a wheel chair? How do they stand, sit, bow??? If they dnt have functional legs? Are they going to hell, or are no such persons followers of islam? Answer that, and you will get the answer to how u get darshan of maharaj.
  7. So for the sake of a simple thing like installing a ramp at the doorway of a Gurdwara, you think disabled people are being spoiled? As though we are 'making it easy' for them? Maybe we should just put up some barbed wire fences and broken glass around the place for non disabled people too so that we don't make it easy for them to get into Gurdwara either, that'll teach them a lesson! This is institutional discrimination against disabled Sikhs. But wait. I thought Sikhi believed in equality for all? Maybe not, maybe that was some other religion I heard about. Guru Fateh I think this poster has very selective points, they are themselves in need of visits to the Gurdwara. Most if not all will have a lift fitted now due to the regulations. and each one i have been to, have a FLAT entry thru the MAIN DOOR. In accordance to the LAW, that is acceptable. In accordance to the LAW, there is NOTHING which states a wheelchair has to have access to ALL floors of a building. IT is a REQUIRMENT, access to the building is provided and that disabled toilet facilities r provided. So in that perspective, the law which you hold so high, does NOT cover, access to darbar sahib. Sorry, but i think you should really review Health and Safety Requirments before making accustations to Gurdwaras. the gurdwaray i have been to in my last 3yrs of being into sikhi have a double doorway, which by LAW is acceptable as it OPENS enuf for comfortable access. The langar hall provides a section with a table for disabled people to eat at, there is no legal requirment for a wheelchair to enter darbar sahib and only rather self centred manmukhs would lobby the govt for such an agenda rather then appeal to the AKAAL TAKHT, the SUPREME Authority of the Sikhs on the matter. If some people do not wish to crawl, then they do not have enough passion to see Maharaj. Sorry, say im harsh, but its the truth. We take seeing the Guru for granted as really, its a "book" in the eyes of todays sikhs. If we can hold our hand on hearts, and say Guru Granth Sahib is the Eternal Guru, will we appreciate what we have in our lives. A person who wants to see the Guru, will travel the length of the earth to see them. And do an ardaas daily that maharaj blesses them with the opportunity. We make maharaj a show piece, hence why schools go to the gurdwara and have no respect, the idiots doing the talks say, this is our holy book. Treat Guru Ji Like the King of Kings he is, then you will see yourself, ANYONE wishing to get darshan will get Darshan. Once again, if someone is so desperate, have Panj Singh come to your house, and have maharaj bought to, carried on the Sees of a Khalsa and have darshan. But thats not the point here is it, to get darshan, its about we are better then the thousands of disabled in india who will do nething to get darshan because we are westernised and have money. Sorry if your offended by the post, but wake up and see the light. Maharaj is everywhere, maharaj is the shabad, close your eyes and listen to paath with an honest heart, you will get darshan, stop making darbar sahib into your personal house.
  8. In india, we see criples and disabled people crawl to see maharaj because thats the love they have. If we truly want to see maharaj, we will get on our hands and knees if need be to see him. Wen i was young, a boy had a bad disability, he cudnt walk properly so his parents used to hold him while he walked, if he didnt have the support of another, he wasnt able to stand. He wud walk in or crawl in. Once, at a nagar keertan, he came in the wheel chair, he REFUSED to use it. He said why should he be able to sit and be pushed the way, he wants to walk. Normally he wud take the chair but this particular year he didnt. (remember i sed, he cudnt walk without the aid of another, and with that, it was a very slow pace..) He CRAWLED the length of the nagar keertan as he has so much pyaar for maharaj. I personally believe any chair or seating higher then the floor is incorrect in a darbaar. People can get darshan, Gurdwara where i reside, they keep the doors open so people can sit outside on chairs if need be and stil get darshan / listen to keertan / paath / keertan. In puratan days, they had no wheel chairs, so why do we need them to see Guru Ji? People had disabilities then to, its just we expect everything here coz its england and the law ensures disabled access. Gurdwaras do provide disabled access, flat entry to the doors, lifts where applicable. But they DONT need to change the darbar. Maharaj knew everything, why is it so difficult for us to come to terms with that? he knows the future, he IS the future.. I apologise if people find this post upsetting, but we expect to much coz we live in the western world. If we lived with the basics, we wudnt complain, we wud get around it. We just think we are better then Guru Ji now, seriously that is in effect the way we are. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh What about someone who cannot crawl? What if they are quadraplegic? What about someone who cannot sit on the floor? Carry them and lye them down on the floor with their feet away from maharaj. We manage it with babies. And many a time.. those individuals do not leave their bedside as transporting is very difficult. Ultimatley, we have blind faith. The Guru is the Shabad, if we listen to the shabad, we have Darshan. If a person is so severly ill and wants darshan, call 5 pukha rehit vale to your home, in Bana, thiyaar Bithyaar, and have them do ardaas for the person. They will get darshan of maharaj then. Look at the power of the Guru, not the smallest detail to make life so easy. Did a blind man not cry as he was unable to see maharaj? Guru Hargobind Sahib Ji travelled HIMSELF to see this man and gave him the gift of sight, the man looked in no other direction then Guru Ji as he didnt want to look at anything else, he then requested his sight be taken away again as he had seen true beauty. He never wanted to see anything else which cud take that away (ie kaljug). IF we have the belief, then no matter the situation, maharaj will come to you themselves.
  9. In india, we see criples and disabled people crawl to see maharaj because thats the love they have. If we truly want to see maharaj, we will get on our hands and knees if need be to see him. Wen i was young, a boy had a bad disability, he cudnt walk properly so his parents used to hold him while he walked, if he didnt have the support of another, he wasnt able to stand. He wud walk in or crawl in. Once, at a nagar keertan, he came in the wheel chair, he REFUSED to use it. He said why should he be able to sit and be pushed the way, he wants to walk. Normally he wud take the chair but this particular year he didnt. (remember i sed, he cudnt walk without the aid of another, and with that, it was a very slow pace..) He CRAWLED the length of the nagar keertan as he has so much pyaar for maharaj. I personally believe any chair or seating higher then the floor is incorrect in a darbaar. People can get darshan, Gurdwara where i reside, they keep the doors open so people can sit outside on chairs if need be and stil get darshan / listen to keertan / paath / keertan. In puratan days, they had no wheel chairs, so why do we need them to see Guru Ji? People had disabilities then to, its just we expect everything here coz its england and the law ensures disabled access. Gurdwaras do provide disabled access, flat entry to the doors, lifts where applicable. But they DONT need to change the darbar. Maharaj knew everything, why is it so difficult for us to come to terms with that? he knows the future, he IS the future.. I apologise if people find this post upsetting, but we expect to much coz we live in the western world. If we lived with the basics, we wudnt complain, we wud get around it. We just think we are better then Guru Ji now, seriously that is in effect the way we are. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh
  10. system restore to before the update and see if it works, then re install the update (if need be go to the windows update site and check the update first before installing). Fateh!
  11. Just to point out, microsoft is actually more stable then Linux. Linux "appears" to be more stable due to MS having to release patches and security updates etc. Linux doesnt need to as its free. You write the code, its an open source OS, therefore, "HACK ME NOW". The fact windows has flaws is a good thing, the company improve on the product and make it more stable. End of the day, its what you want to do with the computer, if you download crap from stupid download locations then obviously your going to have problems. Learn to use the windows environment fully to benifit from the features just as you would actually "LEARN" to use Linux as its different and new. If you want to use Linux, red hat is the proposed. WJKK WJKF
  12. Kindly take pictures and hand it out to the sangat. Hopefully, one of the parents might see, and they can sort that side of it out. Second, ensure you use the correct method to see the git who drove the car gets wht he deserves, failing that, well you know.. Do ardaas and panj chaupi sahibs, see what happens after..
  13. Mars and snickers does contain egg in them. They have for years. The new product was to contain some animal product in. Remember, goray dont see egg as being meat half the time, only the "strict" veggies see it as meat. I know of some who believe white meat (chicken, fish and egg) is ok to eat.. malteasers tho! woo! lol live on them at work!
  14. Gurdwaray accross the uk also sell senchiyay.. anything to be done about that?? If you want DTF to stop, then stop the gurdwaras as they get theirs from DTF originally (most do..) then if you have their backing, kindly request with multiple signatures in a letter to the shop requesting to stop. Their biggest mistake is posting, they should know better.
  15. http://javimoya.com/blog/youtube_en.php Its not the best in the world, but its free and does work most of the time! Jus makesure you save the file with .flv file extension! If anything has a better one, please let me know!
  16. WJKK WJKF Why should they? Its GURU KA LANGAR, so no matter who made it, once its made its been blessed by Waheguru http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Rehat.asp?ID=22 (then when you question it, http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Rehat.asp?ID=17 http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Rehat.asp?ID=92) It might upset a few people to read that, but there you go, learn about rehat itself and then your questions are answered. http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Rehat.asp?Order=Alpha Theres your answer.
  17. Maharaj wants you to keep sarbloh kara not steel, as in rehitnamma. I suggest cleaning your kara. Get a fresh brillo pad and scrub the inside of the kara spend time doing it and put on some paath, really smoothen the inside out alot. (sponge shud be dry!!) A few people i know had this problem, after that, cleared up. If not, maybe try a different sarbloh kara..
  18. why does the hazooria have to be white? iv seen many chardi kala gursikhs in india wearing blue and orange... kashera i believe should be white as per maryada also 2 when wearing bana / chola but hazooria to me dont matter? i only where khalsa colours neway so for me, id say blue or white, orange in rememberance of shaheeds if you prefer.
  19. yep there are , i have a pic of one ill upload when i find Jus so people know, this bibi doesnt wear a pajama either! she is so thiyaar bithyaar!! spoke to her before takin this pic and she really is, Mai Bhago calliber khalsa!
  20. jus get a new one from the shop.. they not that expensive ne more... ask parents for some money?? say you need it for school work or something!?!?!
  21. Fateh Ji Can anyone make a mian for shaster in midlands? Have a puraatan kirpan, and its still in very good condition but needs a mian... Anyone know where or who i can speak to for getting one made? Thanks WJKK WJKF
  22. Its written in the Budda Dal Gutkha, please refer to that instead of people writing their opinions. This topic is going to lead to an argument as per the norm when nihang rehit is discussed. For those who want to know, obtain a budda dal sunder gutkha and refer to it. The khalsa rehit maryada is written in good detail. ( you will need to understand punjabi VERY well!!)
  23. Fateh Ji, Duno if neone remembers.. but admin said Sikh Sangat is gona close, and ALL partner sites.. If ektaone and Saintsoldiers are gone, im pretty sure they were partner sites.. so they did give warning.. Im gutted coz i wanted to download the classical keertan.. was my PLAN to do it THIS weekend to as its easter n got time of work to do it!!!
  24. http://www.kaspersky.com/ THE BEST antivirus on the market. I suggest buying it thought you can run a free scan. Anyone who thinks norton is any good, run this and be amazed at what you have on your pc :umm: security specialists will recommend this, i should know.. by boss is a certified ethical hacker, the guy talks all day about new viruses popping up, the latest, deadliest is one which will kill ur pc in under 2seconds, and its not a joke either. kaspersky is a very good tool, its pretty cheap. Tips; always keep ur OS ligit and ur antivirus, they need updating reguarly. Spend the money and get the good stuf, end of the day, you get what you paid for. I never believed in anything happening until i met my boss and read some books myself, the net is full of evil people, protect yourself. All this free crap on the net, its all rubbish, doesnt really solve any problems. WJKK WJKF
  25. The most comfortable for you to wear. Realistically the question is invalid.. Kirpan should be on top and useable therefore its what you find is most comfortable. For work i wear a 6inch taksali one on a shorter gathra. Normally, either 9inch or different shaster. Wear what you think is right, not what other people tell you.
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