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Amrit

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  1. Vjkk vjkf

    Update: today in a meeting at Kalgidhar Gurdwara the issue of whether or not my parents should be removed from the Kalgidhar Gurdwara Leeds sangat will be discussed. Why are they being threatened with this action? Well because they invited me, their daughter to my brothers wedding and refuse to pay the £101 fine attached to this offence, hence a breach of the all important mill-vartan rule. All this carried out by a Gurdwara!

    Vjkk vjkf

  2. I think this issue needs to be handled with pyar, arguing etc will escalate the problem. Talk to the girl in girl in question and try to understand what she is feeling, replacing any lies the Hindu man has told her about Sikhi etc with the truth. If she feels she has to make a choice between her family and the man she may well rebel. At least if a good relationship is maintained between the family and the girl they can keep an eye on her to make sure things don't get really bad with the man and if things do go wrong she does not feel isolated and has a way back.

  3. Well what advice can I give you have already received the best advice possible, Meditate on Vaheguru and everything will be the way Vaheguru wants it to be....not how you or your parents want it to be put Akaal Purukh Vaheguru themselves. Ask for Faith and the himmat to follow Maharaj's hukum whatever it may be.

  4. we all make mistakes, none of us are saints...if that was the case we wouldn't be here we would be in Sachkhand with Akaal Purukh Vaheguru themselves. Only Vaheguru knows the filth of our past lives. You know that you have done wrong which is good because now you need to figure out how you will refrain from these mistakes again. Ask Vaheguru for forgiveness and hukum on how to follow the right path. Can I also suggest that you limit talking to the opposite sex if you cannot think of women as your sisters and mothers. Although talking and texting etc with the opposite sex can seem innocent at first it can lead to wrongful acts.

  5. From what I understand its not a language more Vaheguru is a vibration which is present in everything from stones to ourselves, the only thing is that we are so far from Vaheguru that we cannot hear it.

    Bhul chuk muaaf

    Btw, why the you tube posts?

  6. this fast is observed to prolong husbands life, yes? well maharaj tells us that ours breaths are already written, i.e the time of death is already written so you cannot prolong your husbands life by fasting. Also death is not something to be feared, it is to be excepted.

    Also to observe this fast you may have to bow down to a hindu deity, which is against sikhi, we should only bow to Sri Guru Granth Sahib Jee.

    Finally, in the first pauree of Jap Jee Sahib Jee we are told : pukihia pukh na ooteri je bana pooria par - no matter how much you fast, and whatever you fast for you pukh - hunger will only go away when you become one with Akaal Purkh waheguru.

  7. Leeds Sangat, wake up, get out of your comfort zones and go sort the antics of this committee out. Stop relying on outsiders to sort out your local issues. There's enough chardi kala Singhs in Leeds, they should be able to do something about this!

    do what exactly? the people who run the gurudwara do not listen to anybody, especially if you aren't 'one of them'.

  8. Never heard anything like this before...

    Why should the sangat pay for anti Sikh activities? It's more like a business promoting bad things and earning money in dishonest ways, using it dishonestly through promoting meat and alochol on gurdwara owned halls how can it get any worse?

    There are people starving in third world counties and here in the UK we have so much corruption that we have turned blind to see whats going on...

    exactly, unfortunatley these days the word Gurudwara conjures up doller signs to some people. This is how far we have come from our Guru.

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