BTKaur

Thank you for replying I was hoping deep down that my brother had not made the wrong choice.Yes I know nothing can be done now but I personally needed a answer as the family are all grieving, he was the baby of the family . And my father who is 82 can do without me asking him many question. In the near future we will all be contributing towards questions and answers. Plus I would want to say to his children 16, 12 and 10 that their father is at peace, and out of pain. Can anyone help me with a shabad from the Guru Granth Sahib with the meaning of something in the lines for my brother is resting in peace in heaven. Again thank you very much for the reply I feel a big weight as just been lifted. Waheguru Satnam . I Ask for forgiveness if anything was said out of context

Waheguru Satnam Regarding suicide I am so lonely and hurt I wonder if anyone can help me with this. Reading on suicide and that after death person ends up in hell. My 46 year old brother passed away a month ago,(12/11/2011), his kidneys had failed and had other complications. This illnesses had been going on for the past 12 years. Now what is eating me away and killing me is after he passed away I found out that my brother stopped dialysis and this was the reason he passed away. To stop dialysis and medication was discussed only with his wife by my brother and no one else, and what he was planning to do. He was weak and frail and i believe personally very very depressed. He was a very active person until this illness. I feel as a sister cheated and useless, for letting this happen. I believe it should of been discussed with the family and not just him and the wife deciding. My brother for the 12 years was in and out of hospital the poor soul and had no quality of life. Please can anyone tell me was it classed as suicide? Is my brother going to go through the proper Sikh paths of no more pain and not what I am reading to hell. I pray to God that my brother is not suffering no more now. Please help me it is killing me. Waheguru .