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8 hours ago, Prokharkoo84 said:

shut up you <banned word filter activated>, your the most besharam guy i have ever heard of. first you come onto a sikhi forum and show off about the moneh men you like, now you come back like a drama queen showing off how your going to ruin some innocent girls life. how would you like it if your mum or sister was married to a bender? sharam kar you joker

You 'doth protest too much. Perhaps you're threatened by gays and lesbians, fearing your own closeted impulses? I do have a little compassion for you though brother; perhaps you're unaccepting of others because you're not accepting of yourself. I'd recommend a little self-reflection. Perhaps a little self-exploration too?(ਅੱਗੋਂ ਪਿੱਛੋਂ - I'm sure you know where that goes). Here if you want to hug it out (no homo).

On 5/19/2018 at 11:15 AM, MisterrSingh said:

Your parents had havaianas?? ਬੈਰੀ ਨਰਮ ਜਿਹੀ ਸੱਟ ਲੱਗਦੀ ਹੁਣੀ ਆ

1 hour ago, jkvlondon said:

you are not the first gay indian ...they existed from the get go , in fact hinduism has  spoken of such things ... in fact the actual natural occurence is less than one percent , whereas today it is fashionable to be bi, part-time gays etc

and this brothers is what happens when a woman wonders too far from the kitchen.  where'd you even pull that out from?

10 hours ago, monatosingh said:

I know some amritdhari bibian who say they wear a kachi under their kachera, depends on if the Sikh himself/herself is comfortable with it.

I agree with you on this, it's better to take care of the feelings or trust me they will burden you after amrit. Dealing with it now prevents further actions in the future.

Every amritdhari is entitled to listen to gurbani if the person wishes to.

The minimum baania according to Sri Akal Takth Sahib which most Sikhs accept as minimum are:

Morning:

Japji Sahib

Jaap Sahib

Tav Parsaid Savaiye

 

Evening:

Rehras Sahib (with Chaupai Sahib and Anand Sahib) (Short rehras is minimum here)

 

Before Bed:

Kirtan Sohila

 

Conclude morning nitnem and evening nitnem with an ardaas.

Wait what really? No chaupai sahib anand sahib in the morning?? Shocking

Try to diffuse the situation by removing yourself/your mother from the situation. Walk away. Remain silent, ignore the comments. Take your mother away. Into another room. Upstairs/downstairs; away from your father. Give him space, let him vent. It's hard to listen and witness it all but sometimes by interposing oneself, we end up making things worse. It may give the impression that we're taking sides; a "they're all against me" sort of thing. It's hard to remain silent whilst watching our mothers in that situation but we must have patience.

Every couple argues. Everyone's parents argue. Sometimes with the stress of things, we lose control of our krodh even with those we love most. You shouldn't have a go at him; he is your father. It's difficult, I know. Try to understand him, the root of the problem. What's causing him to get angry and swear at those he loves most?... Must be something big...

Try to establish what triggers your fathers anger. Work related stress? Financial issues? Family issues? Etc. And then see how you can help lighten that burden.

Of course if things get out of hand; it gets physical, then obviously you need to intervene without retaliating. Seek help if you need to. Domestic abuse is no small matter and nothing to be ashamed of. Maharaj kirpa kare, it won't come to that.

Have patience. Practice restraint as you are (you mentioned you've become more conscious of your actions and words since taking amrit- congratulations). These things take time but they do get better. Have faith. Feel free to PM me. Create an account etc.

My two pence worth. Bhul chuk muaf ji. Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh ji

On 4/27/2018 at 9:40 PM, MrDoaba said:

I would've given this the confused face. 

999? 

Lol good riddance

As per my beliefs

What is the purpose of the dori? 

12 hours ago, InderjitS said:

We don't, hence why I used 'if' and my response was more to you stating 'what does it matter'. Considering her father's standing in society and previous active role in Smethwick, I'd be disappointed if she married a Hindu. Without knowing the full facts, I'll leave it at that.

Teek ah Singh. I respect your views. 

3 hours ago, Guest Kaur said:

yep found them, not stolen as you're alluding

Do you own the fort??

http://www.unitedsikhs.org/starae/

Post pics of the miniature paintings you "found" in an old fort. 

2 hours ago, Kira said:

It would be so easy to manipulate a cyber hukamnama, like an entry level computer science student could do it. Cyber Hukamnamas, what next bro? Amrit dispensaries? robots doing langar seva? automatic chaur sahibs?

A Karah Parshad dispenser perhaps?...

http://dailysikhupdates.com/introducing-automatic-parshad-machine/

How is he racist?... Examples?

On 12/03/2018 at 4:17 AM, TejS said:

i hear if you spot one, you have a lucky chance of winning the lottery the next day, according to sanatani research of course

 

@MrDoaba can you verify this?

I think he may have been black. Most likely.

Why couldn't you take amrit and have an anand karaj with another amritdhari? Why are your parents so against you becoming an amritdhari?

What is a normal life?

On 04/03/2018 at 6:30 PM, Guest Singh said:

VJKK VJKF,

Just have recently been prescribed a medicine in a form of soft gelatin capsules for a health condition ive had for many years. I've checked and there isnt an alternative form.

I wanted to ask would this break someones rehat or should they not be allowed to take Amrit?

 

VJKK VJKF

You can request a veggie friendly alternative. Not the end of the world though... It might be if you were to stop taking them...