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  1. Thankyou, for making this mind think and realise how much i dont even know, take care Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh
  2. Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh, Was bored, so i'l post more..... I have also learnt, since taking amrit, that Real peace of mind happens when we can tolerate people and their views and not judge based on their views and learn from their experiences to better ourselves I have also learnt that the snagat we keep is The most important thing when we want to reach any kind of avastha, spirituality Would really like to hear from sangat >> Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh
  3. Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh, Since taking Amrit what is the most important thing you have learnt; If not amritdhari, what do you hope to learn from your amritdhari friends Myself > Since taking amrit I have learnt that the more you learn, you realise how much you stilll don't know and my soul continually wants to just "get there" with help from a lot of jaap and time for my Guru. I Yet don't feel I have made enough time. Recently though think there has been found a way from truly enlifghtened Guru skihs and ..........Asa vi uthe janaa...... WA HE GU RUU, waheguru waheguru..Every Saturday !! Ok please post........., Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh
  4. ^^^ very well said Penjee. Guru ji is the Only source of Pyar we need to be worried about. His Pyar was always there and will be There. No matter how big our external family becomes and we go on with stages in our life, Guru jis Was Always there.... :lol: We just never knew Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh (To original post: One word: Awful)
  5. Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh Sahib Mera Nith Nama
  6. :| :lol: Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh I think its how we act after we're engaged. Is it more towards dating, dating....blah blah.... Or getting each others sangat. What we do is meet up afternoons, do seva (if lucky), simran, listen katha and basically increase our jeevan together. Monday mornings is nitnem together days and other days seperarely. Its been a year and so far before we get married nx yr, feels as though we already becoming One...One as Two souls should be. With maturity getting to know your partner sangat could be the best things. Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh
  7. ^^ dont know why, that line just made me laugh.... :lol: !
  8. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh How far we have come from back in Guru ji's time langar and seva was done regardless who's making, who's serving and who's eating. Sharda, and love was the call of the day. A lot has been changed. A lot has been seperated in our khalsa brotherhood, the oneness has gone and basic Love forgotten. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ka fateh
  9. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh, with out deterring from the subject the initial poster gave, to panjabi link poster. I have a feeling you let personal contacts with singhs etc get in the way what you truly feel about sikhi. Lets not put down anyone in to sikhi but applaud those who at least are trying to follow their guru, ie. keeping kesh. Everyone has their fault, but everyone needs to move Forward to get somewhere. Lets not let our personal experiences interfere with the message of and uniform of sikhi and Waheguru. Dhan Guru Dhan Guru Pyare Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe Guru ji ki fateh
  10. Just one more kaurs (girls perspective), Numerous other girls would say this one thing just as I am about to ( sorry if this sounds offensive) I would rather marry a Real Man >>>> :e: (and not >>>> :devil: ) Guru sahibs kesh and Saroop is BeautiFul Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh
  11. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh, Don't know where to put this post I reckon we have a lot to owe to our parents, yes we've all been there and moan this and that about our parents, that they do not understand and so forth..... I just been thinking recently how they built up their lives outside of Panjab etc and whether i could do the same and since we havent got that struggle its easy to say , this and that and how hard parents make life for us. Lets just Stop a minute and praise Parents for raising us So that we could become the singhs and kaurs we are today. Khalsa. Personally without mum and dad telling me guru sahib ji's saakhi's and taking me gurdwara sahib when younger I wouldn't make guru ji the focus of my life as i do now. We can learn A lot from our parents and their parents. *just a thought for the day* Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh
  12. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh, Nx year is last year of my BA business degree These days im trying to research as much as i can in to the kind of career i want to get in to once i graduate nx year. Been to two uni career fairs, use careers service at uni often (put loadsss of leafletc, booklets in to a bag to carry home :wubc: Would like advice from anyone who has graduated , is graduating this year what kind of preparation they did, doing and what best advice to give when someone is unsure about what to go in to after graduating and what more should i be doing now to help my career Thank you Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh
  13. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh ps. okay cheerio folks, am going gurdwara sahib now. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh
  14. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh My previous replies To the 'anonymous' poster, Before posting may be we shud be told who the anonymous source is, hiding behind such remarks is not helpful..... Wahe guru bhalla karan anyways to the poster.... Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh
  15. please confirm jio, what is wrong with above ^^ thanku Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh
  16. Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh Waheguru Waheguru..... it is these types of generalisations that upset people, then we as sikhs get upset when others generalise about us. hum Nahin Changeh Bura Nai koye....... lets try and adhere to such teachings....... Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh
  17. Wahe Guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh A very observant post indeed by kaurageous, quite interesting but somehting hit mind when was reading through. If we try and spend less time thinking why people are here, Atleast for whatever reason they are bro/sis here, for example a person just coming to eat langar or whatever reason, While they coming they're life begins to change. Have seen that happen quite often and then you see them ready for amrit...Waheguru... How good is that :TH: ......... Waheguru willing more people Come in to gurudwara sahib and leave each time bettering them selves as humans and stepping forward those vital steps in coming closer to their Guru Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh
  18. Wahe Guru ji ka Khalsa Wahe Guru ji KI Fateh I agree with Everyone in this topic, why? To each His own and his relationship with Maharaj ji, Each thinks hE/She is wiser but wiser still is our Guru, Let him judge those that are deluded or whatever they going through pray for peace in His/Her self and that one day power to face this harsh world will come on the outer self too that we spend less time discussing some ones faults and more time......Japping So Satgur Pyara Mere Naal Ha Waheguru ji ka kahlsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh
  19. waheguru ji ka khalsa wahe guru ji ki fateh i think this So relates to a lot of us sikh especially keski/distaar wearers. i think best advice, im sure not one who follows this, Because it used to get me extremely paranoid where id stop talking to people thinking they hate me, 1) look at them and smile, If they dont like you much, turn away, forget bout it 2) dont think they hate you, tryna focus on God in all and that...........if we possibly can, i know i cant 3) they may have so many questions and dont know how to react to your appearance, It is rude of them to stare, and it does make so many of us uncomfortable, if you can say waheguru in your mind a few times, breathe deeply and distract yourself wit something else. good luck
  20. wahe guru ji ka khalsa wahe guru ji ki fateh very good question. i used to ponder over the same a year ago, I do not want to remove my best karay as am used to them, but hair just kind of goes, so is that bad? as not intentional and not wanting to wear small thin karay? wahe guru fateh jio
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  22. wahe guru ji ka khalsa wahe guru ji ke fateh Try boss-uk.org: but they always out of stock, maybe try their stalls at camps. Another brilliant site i discovered lately...www.zazzle.com has really Good designs Good luck
  23. wahe guru ji ka khalsa wahe guru ji ki fateh Guru Gobind singh ji maharaj stated that no one should worship me, the next Guru ji is guru granth sahib so it follows, that we need to receive teachings from our next Guru just like all our Ten Guru sahibs to attain oneness with WaheGuru Respect and Worshp, I understand untitled singh ji's point of view. Bhulla maaf jio
  24. Dear bhenji, Please correct me if I am wrong but it seems the paranoia you feel when people look at you really comes from the fact that (as you have very intelligently commented on yourself) you suffer from low self esteem. I think if you address this issue then it will make a lot of difference in all aspects of your life including your 'paranoia' of people staring (although I dont believe this is paranoia as it is an unfortunate habit our punjabi people have!) First of all if you do have low self esteem then you are NOT alone! I have noticed that a lot of us Sikh girls suffer from low self esteem and certain insecurities. I'm not sure why but this is very much the case... Remember bhenji, you are unique and special! I know it sounds cliche but it is true... Maharaj gave us all different DNA and fingerprints and He spent His time lovingly creating each and every one of us, so how can we not be special?? The advice the bhaaji/bhenji gave above about improving our self worth and self image is really good, so give it a go! It wont do you any harm plus you'll learn a new skill and that's always a positive! I would add that maybe you should try and step up things on the seva front. Doing selfless service with our hands, helping others and perhaps working with people who are not so well off as ourselves really is refreshing and it helps put things into perspective. Finally I would say that you should do ardaas to Maharaj. Ask him to give you the confidence to live your life to the greatest potential you can. Maharaj is so Beant and we are blessed with His kirpa everyday. If you ask him to help you stop feeling so low about yourself i'm sure he will guide you into growing into the confident, beautiful Singhni you are destined to be! I hope I have helped in some way bhenji, please forgive me if I have said anything out of line. May Guru Ji bless you! :umm: I agree with what penji or paaji has said above. We all get paranoid from time to time and some more than others. I and many others have found the way to deal with it is to join in seva at your local gurdwara, say hello or fateh to people and be yourself without thinking people are going to judge you. Its hard but waheguru kirpa the new found confidence small step at a time can make a difference in your life ambitions and general happiness. Guru sahib kirpa karn. wahe guru ji ka khalsa wahe guru ji ki fateh :TH: (good luck)
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