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awwwwwwwwwwww.....thanx soo much .*. .... feels as if Guru ji just gave me a big hug! yeh and to penji...we're always here for you....call on us any time... Singhni's Will Always Be There Always For Their Singhni Sisters

True amazing post bro. I was inspired by bhai rama singh ji, bhindranwale sant ji and maskeen ji before taking amrit. When I was told about stuff bout maskeen ji, it knocked me back a few months ago and I felt this void until I reread maskeen ji's books and confirmed how chardikala they singh sahib ji really were. I can be an example who looks at these post and true does laugh at them with my younger bro....we're all hear to learn but rather than learn from a few the majority are abit of comedy mixed in with uhhhhhh...ohhh.....'here we go Againn'......

...you do know that ur guna go to hell with me, cause thats where im headed .....completely UnWorthy!

lolllllll... id ask are red and green bad colours..... seriously..I'l ask Guru ji why did you give amrit to me, im sure i didnt deserve it?

Lots of peeples been PMing me bout my big hairy toe and don't believe it exists.... well u sure u wana see the proof.....before you do please do remember you may feel a little queasy....lolllllllllllll Anyways..... here...... it....... is....my toe and feet tooooo....... BTW....Ive been dared to do this....No Disrespect ............. If anyone takes offence....Apologies!!!! lollllllll......(i can count the number of hairs on my feet now with ease..hhahahah)

hahahahhahaha....classic!

I got one thing to add to this title and that is Why??? Why????.......... have vichaar thas all well and good but seems like after reading some of the posts the 'usual' people are just bashing each others views when time can be spent Doing bani and simran. You may realise how short time really is when u add the amount of time youvve spent arguing and arguing and.......still...arguing!

Vaheguroooo...I love this shabad.....Keep posting bro !!!!!

thas soo beautiful ....well said!

Gurfateh sister... I've been so busy with exam revision and noticed this topic first...and may have something to share with you. Sister I've got a few hairs here and there and true say all girls with distaars get mistaken for guys...I used to even think they were guys before I started wearing my distaar. I've got a really long hair on my chin, a moustach shape can be seen and the most hugest eyebrows..I havent seen on any bibi...LOLLLLLL. Me and my brothers jokes that Guru ji got the biggest black marker pen and made mines... ... Bhenjee you say people laugh at you..WHY NOT just laugh at yourself sometimes...I do! It may be weird but at least that way I wont get depressed. At uni people when they come near see my one long hair and dont say anyhting..Why? cause I am popular with everyone because of my attitude of laughing at everything..they seee my personality before they see me and then put up with my look cause they hooked on my personality.... Hope you gets me! Please PM me whenever and we'll talk things over....but maybe I may not have alota religious type advice I'm abit ..lollllllll Marriage..Penji Ive given up tryina please others..the first one I was introduced to a year ago had a problem with my hairy big toe..LOLLLLL! and the one I was set to marry I aint guna because we have major differences in spiritual areas and I think I made a wrong decision by selecting him...Penji we all single and proud and im 26!!!! maannnnn. Guru ji has made our risthe all ready..I do wonder when Guru ji'l introduce me my mr right! don't worry he'll there somewhere..lots of my friends with facial hair ARE happily married...one penji had lots of facial hair and her husband adores her..they always look soo happy together..vahegurooo. BTW.... Heres a picture of yours truly looking beautiful...(no ahankaar intended..lolll) The moustache shape IS there but camrera lights can do wonders...lollll and the hair on chin is on the other side...I used to thread my moustache area like majority of girls out there and hair is coming back coarser but who gives a damn! it gets softer as it gets longer ive noticed though...so iz alll gooooddddd! Vaheguruoooo ji ka khalsa Vaheguroo ji ki fateh penjeee...We Love Youuuuuuuuu!!!!! (sounds abit hippyfied but who cares...lollll!) *Personallly I wouldnt wana be any other way and certainly not go back to me as me before. When my January post in blog is out check and read it hopefully you'll find something useful there (hehehhe abit of cheeky advertising...just couldnt help it )

I started my own blog inspired by real chardkala gurmukhs (they know who they are)... :TH: but I will say having visited some of the blogs thru sikhnet reallly made me sad to see how some porper singh pajees behave, language so offensive....one particular pajee is on holiday in Thailand and the stuff he gets up to there.. going clubs...including gay clubs, talking about trashy, rude stuff.....I'm like whaatt???!!! He's posting inappropraite videos and pics I wanted to write a comment to him but didnt couldnt find words to say where sikhi in youth has gotten to today..come on bro's...sisters whas up with our sikhi.... If i give u guys his address ur jus guna harrass him so best leave it cause there are so many like him. Vaheguru what would Guru ji say seeing some of us hey.

lolllllll.....know the feeling bro.... lets start now hey. I'm always there for these things but haven't stepped up to do these particular sevas...mayb cause they male run here..hopefully we'll get a chance one day... saying that though at least us sisters can do stuff like get Guru ji rumaalaas ready etc...seen elder women doing and would love to help them from time to time.

Vaheguroooo. This is really sad to hear bhen. Youve got to some how present her with gurbani.....seee sikhi to the max and stuff and make her read what our Guru Sahib is saying. Gyan is needed.....educating about sikhi principles is needed. Tell your mum to do paath if she can....sarb rog ka aukhad naamm....Gurbani is the true healer. Do Sukhamni Sahib da paath. Aastha is doing a lot to turn attention of people away from sikhi....with all these so claled healers that come on. www.SikhiToTheMax.com www.searchsikhism.com Goodluck.

Absouluetly been there and back a couple of times....lol The only thing that will help is ardas in front with real heart felt....or go to gurdvara sahib do ardas in sangat..you'll feel very much happier and a sense of becoming active spiritually and in your chores may come about. Organisation is key in starting work, coursework...definately a tidy work space relieves the stress and lazyiness to begin....trust me when you see a welcoming space you may wana work....your notes all organised..to begin doing that...I suggest you eat something u really like...eg. chocolate and then with that energy say Right...lets get things organised ....sort out priorities and see what I can start first...start with the work you know you know alot about and then move on to harder stuff....phone a friend to gain inspiration Presenation techniques...Ive donesooo many and was nervous before but no way..I love em now....seriously 1. look ayt poeple foreheads when u talk it'll look like ur making eye contact with them when u presenting but infact the forehead area aint guna make u nervous. 2. drink something that boost ur energy...even choco again if it helps....me and chos hey ......they help in emergencies...lollll 3. Come early so u can breathe easy...get a feel for the hall/classroom and see how nervous evryone else is 4. The more prpared u feel the less nervous you will be...if u dont start ur work quick enuf and there feeling u aint got alot of material then ur guna feel more panicky....otherwise you'll like hahahha im so prepared....im guna get a great mark for this 5. Vaheguroooo Vahegurooo jaaaapppp before the presentaion. Hope some of that helped....Goooood Luck!!! :TH:

yeps read it earlier and was shocked by it. Man some countries are seriously in need of a lesson about sikhi...who wants to go teach em. Maybe we need to design a real course that qualfied people take to these clueless places.... They need our support..the dad seems adamant in not writing to anyone..so how wil the student/son be helped..what if next school says the same.... vaheguroooo.

dont be freinds with her. it is an option, bcos inhaling smoke is not an option if u have took amrit. its a very big thing even if it is passive. 146388[/snapback] Its not passive at all...thats only happened once and I kinda put my foot down saying look man thas not on you got to stay away from me when ur doing that..since which she does smoke away.... im talking bout afterwards...should we still interact as friends...sometimes there is no tobacco smell sometimes there is. Funny moment once she smelt really bad and i lifted my chair and went 5 spaces away to sit with another girl...lollllll......luckily she didnt take offence. Sangat is everything i know that...apart from her all the rest are amazing freinds...but to say thas it no longer we're friends..that kills the whole circle of friends and life of classroom of peace. maybe a sister may wanna share a view!

(to the one dearest admin...lollllll........didnt know where else to place this topic/ question) Smoking....nasha....amritdharis need to remain away from. A very close friend smokes frequently throughout the day...we'll have lunch ...after which she needs to have a smoke or two...ive seen her go out 6 or 7 times in the day.... Now we have to work together on most things during lectures/tutorials and group work..she sits next to me often too. I say jokingly I don't wanna passive smoke man...its making me dizzy...but she can't exactly go away...we have to work together...shes a best mate. Not an easy situation..when we're outside the building and waiting with a couple of my nonsmoker friends its okay..but in class and canteen....i worry about my kirpan etc being in such close proximities of the smell of tobacco etc. I'm not smoking...but can smell. I nearly actually felt weirded out once cause her smoke caught me in the face...and for a person that doesnt smoke its like a wake up alarm! Any suggestions of keeping distance but still remaining close....Impossible yeps! I'm suggesting she quits alllll the time...she cuts down sometimes but not altogether. She's a really really nice person at heart and one that can be turned away from that sort of life....... don't even suggest dont be friends with her...thas not a option...

What a beautiful singhneee.......veer ji shes adorable and in such chardi kala. May Guru ji's blessings remain forever on her. vahegurooooooooo.......awwwwwwwwwwwwweee...........

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very interesting.....thanx for sharing.

...lolllllllll haaawwww..thats bad must've hurt suddenly realising..ouch! When we were little we would go up those for fun and I always made it running really fast..now Id probably just come down each time and not get anywhere.

I'm a singhnee who wears a distaar..you guys know that by now. BUT I Agree.....ultimately if we look at all the facts and evidence the distaar is Not necessary..the evidence is there, what further proof is required....choosing to ignore won't change facts...we can all argue as much as we want. My sisters that don the distaar are beautiful and so are the ones that don't...but I agree chunni...Just chunni alone is Not suffient coz it keeps slipping off....Joora is needed so that means covering it will also be required with chunni on top. However (playing devils advocate here..muhahha)....the bibi will not necessary be tyar-bar-tyar for battle coz will she look after the chunni or fighting the opponents. It may come down to sharda..bibian wanting to and having the prem pyar to look like maharaj ji...'khalsa mero roop hai khaas' and wear the crown...I know I sure do. And its such a blessing to be able to wear the distaar. But lets not knock those that don't. My mum doesn't wear a dostaar...she does waer patka and chunni. She's taght me a lot and I still learn from her. vaheguroo. Ive been arguing both sides here....take your pick. Neither seems wrong...no use arguing.

...i think im a little grumpy today....after effects of flu probably..... ...or maybe cause i couldnt get up at amritvela... :'( im goin for a nap to snap outta this!...theory is wonderful....hence doesnt suk! oh who am i kidding...its just mentalness

i know bro ...me was kidding...see my smiley ^^^ This theory sux..lollllllll.

new york city has 12..... ...hahhaahha theory ends right there.....yep just coincidence and someone who has abbbiitttt tooo much time on their hands. ... .....but oh my...what if..it is alllll a sign...we may all die.......maybe the aastha channels pandit ( )was right??!!!......hang on!...whas the date after tomorroww is it....the 11th......aaarrghhhhhhh..... lolllllllll.....naaaaah