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ohhhhhhhhh.... i get it now it all comes at end of month??!!! oh thas okkk then...i was confused bigtime...

i knoww bro but ive done some new and i can view it but it dont add to the side bar with december bro!

me having a problem with my blog.....i cant seem to include all archives on the side bar, they not appearing...just december??.... :@ ... followed al instructions etc but....u know mes a bit slow?!! any advice

lolll...pajee whas that got to do with her issue.....David Beckham is professional ....and a legend to some. id love to meet you pajee one day....we could argue all day.....No il Pass that thought Actually... @ ...someone needs to address bhenji's problem. Do ardas and bani....Guru ji forgives if asked for forgiveness with a true heart and feeling of regret. Guru ji has always forgiven us we just don't see it often enuf. 144713[/snapback] "id love to meet you pajee one day....we could argue all day....." u wudnt wanna argue with me gurbani specifically says not to "moorkhai naal na lujheeai" 144747[/snapback] hmmm.....thas pretty dark..... llollll....

lolll...pajee whas that got to do with her issue.....David Beckham is professional ....and a legend to some. id love to meet you pajee one day....we could argue all day.....No il Pass that thought Actually... @ ...someone needs to address bhenji's problem. Do ardas and bani....Guru ji forgives if asked for forgiveness with a true heart and feeling of regret. Guru ji has always forgiven us we just don't see it often enuf.

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Quote Buddah Singh] Then they come to know someone who seems to have a passion for sikhi but even more importantly seems to live and conduct their lives by sikhi principles. They may not be “in love” with this person, but they see a potential to grow immensely in their love for waheguru with the support of this person as a life partner. They come to know this person as a family would know. They do not "date". They "get to know" in the most dignified manner as their background check. This is an arranged marriage. --------- This all good! :TH: The rest is questionable and depends on individuals.

I've skimmed thru the last few posts by bhenji and paaji's and this is what i have to offer in reply to some of your answers not pro relations etc before marriage. That is Exactly how i felt when i first took amrit last vaisakhi ....that we need to look at all as brothers and viceversa. However when you meet someone and not just....Ohhh meee goddd...he/she's soo lovely...but i am talking about you basically are ignoring each other and avaoiding eye contact..because there is some feeling there and you don't know what it is.....(sound soppy?...yeps...yeuk....lol) anyway, but somehow Guru ji keeps making you meet in different situations and places you have to end up working together?!!! You start thinking hey...im not even thinking about anything and here you are again and again making me feel awkward.....theres something there..?!....still you carry on without approaching one another>>>>WHILST on the other side your parents are looking for an arranged marriage for you which are all inappropriate...why? 1. backgrounds dont match, education differences, big character differences >>>all Very Important factors you need to think about before commiting.. THEN theres the other 'whas all this about' guy. Both of you see each other, decide to say Gurfateh regularly and know that maharaj ji is hinting bigtime for you guys to get together...you are Exactly the same, share all same interest, u basically 'click' in everything...Basis for a sound marriage...? Yes. Not the above ^^ where you dont have any idea and leaving it too faith.(isnt this faith?!)..All Good...if thats what you like me not saying its at allll wrong...kool. But for some people that doesnt work out neither...ive seen. Its a personal choice and matters of age and whether your ready to Be married come into play here..... Paaji this is Your choice and only You can decide whats right for You...and if it will help Your sikhi and not scratch it one bit (in other words You are mature enuf to handle situations that occur in a realtionship) Me and My Choice are getting married in the summer, unitl then im busy with uni and so is he..we hardly meet...and the Internet (godbless) is our communication channel...mobiles..dont do em... dont even ask my last bill! lolllll....But i know if i had not followed my heart i wouldnt be as happy as i am now..vaheguroooo. Not to say i wasnt happy before (b4 u guys start)...Guru jis love was major....but happy to be married Happily! (lollll.....make any sense?)... We are here to learn paaji....if you feel its right im sure you are wiser to make that decision.... Take care and good luck! :TH: woowwww @ ..think thas the longest post ive ever written .....respect to all you guys who write so much so often....

btw... just had to add that a burjeir kurehit (<<<if thas how u spell it..lolll) is IF you had sxual.activity with someone other than ur spouse....not if ur just friends with a person with absolute intention of marraige from both parties. Very important to mention that.

Happpy birthday Pajeee.... Wishing you seva, simran and sangat....chardikallllaaaaaaa jio! :music: NB. and note to curious pajee dont think ive forgotten about what u written in bf/gf column just visited it...tsktsk! lol!

hawww.....!!!! and you didnt tell your sis...thas just bad pajee do not worry im hear for ya...we find you a nice wifeee.....Maharaj ji has found someone for us all already and you too...just got to meet that person...how u meet guru ji knows...via parents or not....its all written. vaheguroooooo. ....and pajee tsk tsk

You know its all good...but from experience and whats happening now.....il just let ya know its not easy avoiding the physical side in any relationship, luckily my and his game plan is working thus far with guru jis kirpa...goes without saying! Say you guys like each other let each other know definately, you don't want to have regrets in life. But let your parents know straight away too about the situation so that sets your boundaries say like some engagement some stamp...lollll as to say...then thas ok your together and in your parents eyes "legally" (lol)... But to make sure nothing does happen (its kalyug and its age remember!)...give yourselves some distance (come on not the end of the world and put the kleenex tissues away ) and only meet up when there are get togethers for like special days, family events, akhand path..some important times hana...then u can talk and get to know each other more...other than that meeting regularly and leads to too often will take you away from your sikhi..less love with your guru and more thoughts and attention on your bf/gf. Trust me i knowwwwww what me is talking bout and others may say the same...or may be a little stricter...lollll.... Good luck! iz it paaji?!! Good luck again!

Thas what i said...lollllll.....^^^see above

what the @ .....lolllllllllll! the idea we living in kaljug has just gone up 100000000000 fold!!

Food Khan?!!!.........lollllllllll .....jaalllebi khan .....kulfee khan....lolllll ..... ...ok thas enuf.....me killed it now. seriouly though i like these names>> Himmat Jagjeet Yudhveer and......not forgetting the really sweet name.. kanwaldeep

thanx admin....

loll...which society??!!! if ya mean in general ....yeh.....then the society is>>>>Corrupt!

lollllllllllllll thas funny and hilarious at first...the regulars and bartenders falling silent bit.....lolllll and then its just soo dumb like..... ..... :D ! man where u get these from?!!

at gurdvara from 7pm to 12.30am...wicked!..coem home have ishnaan cathc 20 mins zzz...did paath.......went back gurdvara at 2.45 am.....simran session from 4am to 5am...had parathaaaas and tea..hmmmmm ....come home and zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz! then naranjan singh ji jwaddi kalan wale in town went to hear kirtan at 1pm...no thas not when i woke up again ...lollllll ...the from 3pm to 5pm had a laugh at other gurdvara..........ermm...lollll btw peeple my blogs up and running just need time to add to it with lots of pics.... be patient i know u guys are soooo excited to view it..... .... il be busy all week with revision and coursework so be posting very less...im guna misss u so much but will b thinking about u the whole time....Promise......*SOB*.....lollllll

double entry!!!! lol

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE AT SIKH SANGAT!!! :TH: Ive had the best 12 hours ever!!!!!! and a smile that wont go away for ever!!!! simran, kirtan and sangat from 2005 to 2006 this morning.....wooooooohoooooo..........!!!!!! Anyone who was at Park Ave Southall last nite knows what me's talkin about!

ive made a new blog ....how do i get it to show on the page when i post here... me abit @ at that sorta thing....lollll please help.. here it is nayway...jus begun it today! http://deepkaurkhalsasblog.blogspot.com/

lolllllllll yeah stirctly come dancing partner offcourse was guna be manmohan singh...!!!!

snowman! lollll.........is it right.....if not pretty good guess hana

yeaahh....jeev isthree...meaning both.....and vaheguroooo the husband