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Its the inner voice that forces someone to follow rehat ,as outlined by sikh gurus specifically by our tenth guru...and tht inner voice comes as we read and understand gurbani regularly,our gurus teachings.. Once we start applying our gurus teachings in our life,,it will only purify our life and mind ..... I will suggest her to read and understand gurbani,,,and if she do that surely she will be having tht courage to face such problems... Rehat maryada is important and rehat maryada is not all about hairs,,its more than that ,,to purify yours thoughts,mind and life and not to do sinful acts... Having hairs only as rehat maryada and doing other sinful acts in life ,having all bad thoughts in mind is more sinful act than tht....

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!! Guruji said that rehat maryada is important. But tell me is the rehat maryada followed in true manner. Sikh girls::About more than 90% sikh girls these day go far hair styling,waxing,bleaching or other forms of hair styling and modification.....sikh parents also support this,it doesnt matter much as they need to cope with the society as they say. As we always insist on boys for keeping sikhi saroop,,is this not apply to girls....many girls wants to marry clean shaven sikhs and they do .. Those with sikhi saroop & some amritdhari sikhs::I also don't understand the concept of "Thatha & fixor" it almost costs Sikhs 2 hrs a day on an average. Now isn't it tampering with the natural form. The Urban sikhs follow it who pretend to be "true sikh" wearing thatha fixor & then going to pub shub, mad behind cars , money & sex . "is this what is preached in Sikhism" Now what is prime important ???