guptkaur123

I'm 18 bhenji, I know I'm still young and I shouldn't be worrying about this but it's hard. He's strict but he did tell me that if I ever have to talk to him then I should talk to him. But I'm scared and I'm a really shy and emotional person so it makes it a bit more difficult for me. I really want to tell him in person how I feel but I'm scared about what's going to happen, how he's going to respond, what his attitude would be those kind of things. I just want to tell him how I feel so I can get all the weight off of me and feel relieved.

You think it's so simple bhaaji, just forget about him?! I really like him alot.

Waheguru Jee ka Khalsa waheguru Jee kee fateh! I'm an amritdhari girl, and it's been 3 or 4 years since I've taken Amrit. I really like this guy and he's also amritdhari, it bugs me alot because I'm keeping everything inside. It's been awhile now since I have been liking him. He's really connected with guru ji and he's really strict. What do I do ? I really love him not in a lustful way though, although I do dream about hugging and holding hands but that's it. I really like him because he has so much pyar for guru ji he's really connected and he's really inspiring. I want a singh in my life like him. I know he's the one for me but I just don't know what to do. Do I approach him in person and tell him how I feel? Or do I just keep the feelings inside me forever? I told my mom I like him and that I want to marry him but she isn't really doing anything about it. I know I should be focusing on guru ji but it's hard. What should I do? I was thinking about just doing paath and Simran and really connect with guru ji and let him take care of everything and that he will do it all for me. But like I said, it bugs me its hard to concentrate. With all the fear, that he might be taken or something might happen. It's hard to be patient. Sometimes I'm fine but sometimes it really bugs me I don't know if it's maya or what. I'd really appreciate any advice I get about my problem.

That's awesome never looked at it that way before! It's so inspiring :D

I love to listen to kirtan! I really like this topic, great way to listen to some kirtan i listen to alot of different kinds mostly akj and classical kirtan. i have alot of favorites but here are some and ill keep posting some more I could keep on posting forever lol I have so many favorites ! I love kirtan !! :D