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  1. Interesting conversation. Did your moms friends mother have her kakar of uncut kesh? Was she amritdhari? Im so thankful for Guru ji's teachings.
  2. As a loved one, probably. For dharmic advise, no lol.
  3. Id ask them what part of Sikh confuses them, and then tell them its okay to not have the answers for everything, theres no rush. As for the marriage prashan, Id probs tell them its safer to marry a fellow Sikh & keep trust in paath.. It says in paath (please forgive me for mistakes): So a marriage with a follower of Sikhi is good for a Sikh. Since both would believe in gurbani.. & look, it says 'supreme miseries' above, Im sure marriage problems can be solved with gurbani too.
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    MR Singh

    Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, jio Just a question, have you ever had bad thoughts about someone who is a Sikh, such as, you may think theyre not following correctly? Ive heard a story where a Singh was gurmukh, and then one time he saw 2 Kaur bibi jis speaking in the Gurdwara ji amongs eachother, and he thought to himself that those bibis arent paying attention to the Gurbani at the Gurdwara ji.. After he thought that, I think he lost his attention into Sikhi.. Its because he assumed something wrong about those 2 Kaur bibi jis. Those 2 Kaur bibi jis were actually talking about dharam/Sri Vaheguru ji at the Gurdwara ji, they werent talking about gossip/offtopic things. Somehow when he realized this mistake he did something (I forget what), and he got better. Bhull chuk maaf karliye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
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    sarbloh bibek q's

    Ooh okay. Thank you-ji.
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    sarbloh bibek q's

    Is bottled water allowed?
  7. Have you been to Punjab recently? There are alot of schools there that teach in Hindi in Punjab.. Its quite odd because I know some families whos children go to those school in Punjab, and their children can't even count in Punjabi. My cousin's family migrated from Punjab to here in the west, and her kid can't read Punjabi but they can read Hindi.. It surprises me. A lot of the shops use Hindi signs rather than Gurmukhi ones. Im pretty sure Delhi was part of the Punjab region as well, and look what its turned into linguistically.
  8. True! I understood the geet very clearly, dogri is probably just a dialect! Im from doab, and most people in my city are from malwa, and I have trouble comprehending what they say at times, but these dogri songs gave me no problems.
  9. I googled jammu/dogri music and I found this song, those girls literally look like punjabis and the dogri language is just like normal punjabi..
  10. Also, Jammu is part of Punjab too right?
  11. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. Tbh theres good looking people in every state lol. & with the people here who think Punjabis exclusively look better, would it include pakis?
  12. Wow! Is your nana amritdhari? Im glad alls well. Im too scared to share stories that Ive witnessed.
  13. Ooooh. Would it be normal for people to get posessed at shrines? On my nanke's side, I think it was an aunty, but whenever shed pass by any ancestor shrines (even unrelated ones) shed lose control of her body and she would regain consciousness after a while but would say her body felt like it got hurt. Just wondering why this would happen.
  14. Hii. Not sure, but a post from last year from his account includes: "Some of our boys cut their hair and ditched dastars, Others (like me) keep kes and turban but trim their beards , others keep all hair but are lost in alcohol and YoYo."
  15. Is that why people light divas at wells/khoos/water taps in Punjab?? Last time I went to Punjab, during night itd be all quiet and nobody else to be seen, but then thered be a diva lit near the water tap on the main road. & I think I also heard people pray there when a newborn son is born, do you guys follow that?
  16. I think most see our faith as dharmic.. It might also be a cultural thing since a lot of people would rather name their children with names from their native land. Do you think were a dharmic faith?
  17. vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh, kaur ji Most likely! But take a look at sri jaap sahib! If it was not good of a name/adjective/tainted then its portion wouldnt be used then in prasansa of Sri Vaheguru ji. Also I think that god did praschitt for his mistake so why do people keep defaming him even after he was forgiven and stopped doing that. I dont think its good to keep defaming others after theyve accepted their galti and asked were forgiven by the merciful.. Its like saying we should stop adding the word singh because kpsgill crminal had singh in his name (doesnt make sense). I like the names youve presented. vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh
  18. So what? Indra is a title, it means lord. You cant base hate off of 1 Indras deed. Just cuz your name is Ajeet and you commited a bujjar kurehit (cutting hair), and other paaps (hiding the truth from your fiance) does not mean that the name Ajeet is tainted now & shouldnt be used Also, if someones name is Inderjit for example, it means they won over Indra. Parminder would mean most powerful lord, Narinder would mean lord of humans, Jaginder would mean lord of the world, Satinder would mean lord of truth, Mahindar would mean the great lord etc.. Look at the actual sanskrit meanings behind sanskrit names. A lot of them are adjectives or just nouns.
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    Jathera Worship

    Are you amritdhari? In my region, if someone becomes amritdhari, then the family usually does not pressure that person to take part in these rituals with them.
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    Feelig lost..

    vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh ji I think she said shes female "And I’m a female, btw. ". By the way kaur ji, can you tell me what that photo means? Is there a sakhi behind it Also OP.. Just dont do what you regret doing. Stay positive, and stop doing the obvious paaps that youve committed. Before doing any action, reflect if that action adds to your kaam/ krodh/ lobh/ moh/ ahankar dukhs, then act. Especially those 4 Paaps should be avoided, the ones that were told not to parttake in during amrit initiation. Do you practice nitnem still?? If not, then get started now! Do seva and jaap together at the gurdwara jis, Im pretty sure thatd get rid of countless paaps of any sevak. As for your partner, idk what to say. I think these love affairs are a waste of karma, cuz you know when you get anand from odd things like these it probably means youre using up your good karmas from the past (Im not totally sure about this, Ive heard it elsewhere).. So thats why it seems like a waste of karma to me. Does your partner bring out any of those five dukhs, or do they stop them? You will find your answer? Just focus on bhakti instead, its way more relaxing anyways. Also, go to pesh, tell them everything. They will give you advice as well, also forgive me for any mistakes in this reply, ji vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh
  21. From where did you consume eid food? I dont think thats allowed per sikhi! I think its appropriate to eat consumables from gurmukhs/langar/buy it yourself, rather than people of other faiths since Ive heard that whomever we eat from we get influenced by their intellect.
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    Gurdwara Designs

    Does the symmetry from above the 3 center windows with the small 7 vimaans above look different from recent images?
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