JessieKaur perfect post there absolutely spot on!!! I totally agree with the views you've raised. Sometimes a couple (when they occasionally) have different different views will just think in the here and now and present time and not think in the future in terms of like you said bringing up children etc.. and just living different lifestyles as people haven't thought of the spiritual side of marriage and understandably not everyone wants that but for me that's what marriage is about. It's kinda odd as you'd think someone who is Amritdhari or Keshdhari would want the same in a partner but I'm seeing increasing numbers of marriages where they couple consists of one Amrtidhari / Keshdhari and one completely not.