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  1. Jazzy b imo is hugely responsible for degrading punjabi music and starting a trend of slutty music videos.
  2. He has released a lot of degrading music like "lak 24" in fact its songs like that which began a trend of filthy lyrics. How would he like it if some guy was measuring his sisters lak? Another one i can't stand is gippy grewal with his bent mouth. In the 50s and 60s punjabi music was very poetic but then in the 70s and 80s it was full of degrading lyrics with the likes of mohd sadiq and ranjit kaur and after them it was chamkila and his wife and then in the 90s it all calmed down again with people like Gurdas mann and Shinda but then in the 2000s it just went back to filth again with jazzy b who imo has always looked like a gay. I remember when jazzy b got popular i was still a kid but i remember all the guys doing their hair gold and spikey and wearing massive khandas around their necks lmao glad i wasn't an adult back then
  3. yeah he was wearing a wig in Punjab1984
  4. puzzled

    Masturbation

    Thanks for the advice, i will do that
  5. puzzled

    Masturbation

    31 days is quite an achievement lol! the longest i can normally go on average is around 6 days ? but the longest i have ever lasted is 9 days. As of today its been 7 days and i haven't done that! today in the morning i got a strong urge but it went then later on the day the urge came back but then i started reading this book about Guru Nanak Dev ji and the urge went away i also did some simran and since then the urge is gone. But i don't know how long i will continue without doing it. I know it's wrong to do it so whenever i give in i feel really low. i'v stopped watching porn though
  6. I think people like him because he apparently made pagh popular again, maybe he did among some young people in Punjab i don't know but hes songs are popular in Punjab. I don't really listen to Punjabi music but most of them imitate the west and the result is very cheesy and embarrassing. You see a lot kache in the UK walking around with stupid looking tattoos and thick metal chains lol most of that actually comes from the Punjabi singers, you see the same in Punjab too. What i don't like about Punjabi singers is how they are making a living out of promoting alcohol in a region which is so badly affected by it! Punjabi singers are taking absolutely no social responsibility what so ever but instead are promoting alcohol, gang culture, teasing women, rape etc. Punjab is in a very bad state today. My thai in India said that your hear about girls being kidnapped and raped in the sher on a daily basis now, yet these people carry on singing about female body parts and forcefully grabbing wrists and waiting outside girl colleges etc. Media and celebs is the biggest influence among young people today, just look at how females are trying to make their butts bigger by getting butt implants simply because all the trashy female reality stars are getting bigger butts done lol i remember a few years ago some mixed race girl died because the doctor shoved some sacks of concrete in her butt! its the same case in Punjab, the "celebs" there have a massive influence among the youth. What i can't stand is words like "att" "kaim" "ghaint" that people in Punjab now use because the singers use these words a lot. I'v even heard females using these words when talking. I hate these cheesy words! i can't stand them! makes me want to punch their faces when they use them lol! joke! are they even part of the Punjabi language? i rarely hear anyone use them here in the UK yet in Punjab i hear them left right center. Also isn't Diljit a monah anyway?
  7. I think one of the main differences between Christians and Muslims is that Christians say Jesus is god while Muslims say he is prophet. Thats what they seem to be arguing about all the time anyway lol
  8. Caste is irrelevant and no one is a "pure" jatt or anything else. Jatts, i myself come from a jatt family i believe were once shudras but started becoming respected when they became Sikhs. I'v read how many jatts especially with names like Sidhu, Sandhu etc are of Sindhi origin. Also iv read somewhere that one point in history the babys caste depended on whatever the mothers caste was. Many punjabis were also raped by the invading muslims, so where all mixed anyway, which makes caste completely irrelevant. Perhaps some Khatris are pure khatris and never mixed... You also have some surnames which can be found in more than one caste, i have one of those surnames myself which just shows you where all mixed anyway. Even Many Brahmins are not as "pure" as they think they are.
  9. How do these yugs work! its confusing. so what about the Neanderthals who became extinct around 40,000 years ago and the woolly mammoths what yug were they part of and what about the dinosaurs? and then there are all the monkey/ape people like the homo erectus who were around even a million years ago i think? what yug were they part of? and weren't the people/creatures from the previous yugs more closer to the truth than people from our yug, so that means neanderthals and even homo erectus were closer to the truth and doing bhakti/naam? lol i just can't picture that. And were any of vishnus avtars or other devta around at the same time as some of these extinct early humans or even the dinosaurs. I just find all this very confusing
  10. I'm not Amritdhari but i believe gurdwareh should be a lot more strict on who they are letting have Anand Karaj. I mean would they let someone who drinks and doesn't do paath take part in Amrit Sanchar and take amrit, no they wouldn't so why do they let people who drink, eat meat etc take part in Anand Karaj. I'm sure at one point in history Anand Karaj ceremony was taken just as seriously as taking Amrit but somewhere down the line people started seeing it simply as a wedding/viah. I remember a few weeks ago when i went gurdwara someones Anand Karaj had been completed and i saw the groom walk out with his pagh thrown over his shoulders and the first thing he said when he walked out was the F word with a big sigh of relief. Someone like that should not be allowed to have anand karaj. I even question myself sometimes and wonder if i really should have Anand Karaj, I wouldn't want to promise to Guru Ji and then break the commitment a few weeks later by doing something stupid. Now and then i do stoop down low! The least Gurdwareh can do is explain to the couple what Anand Karaj is and the commitments they will need to make, after that the couple can decide for themselves if they want to go ahead with it or not. Tbh the aunties are as clueless and lost as some of these couples are these days. They compete with other aunties at work with whose son has the bigger and better wedding and who had the better outfits. Most of them look like old slappers these days. I know of these distant relatives where the brides mother woke up at 2AM at night to get ready for 4 hours for her daughters Anand Karaj and she ended up fainting at the ceremony because she didn't get enough sleep and was too busy getting done up by the beauticians all night. She looked like a saggy old t@rt. Whatever happened to the grooms/brides mother looking simple and dignified. And the drunk uncles with chicken curry stains on their shirts is a whole different thing all together.
  11. Its not as bad as you're making it out to be, women can be very stuck up and arrogant and put men down all the time these days. Perhaps it depends on which country you're from.
  12. I used to work at a busy store on Oxford street where most the customers were tourist from places like the middle east, Africa, South Asia. Most people wore their traditional dresses and spoke their own languages, the Indians on the other hand were speaking English in that terrible high pitched voice and the women were wearing short dresses and hot pants with their massive thunder thighs and saggy upper arms on display. Even more embarrassing because the other workers mostly bengalis and arabs used to laugh at them and say things like "look at you're country people" I used to simply say that im Punjabi that these people are not the same ethnicity as me but from other parts of India. Urban Indians are disgusting and embarrassing. Success is India measured by things like how well you speak English. If you wear western clothes, suit shirt tie you're considered more modern and successful than someone who has more sense and wears a light kurta in a tropical country where the weather is unbearably hot and humid. Bollywood is full of actors of Punjabi origin or Brahmins even though they are small minorities in India simply because people from these groups are more likely to have more sharper Caucasian looking features. These days you will notice many uraban Indians have become conscious of their accents and now they try to speak in American accents LOL! Basically the more non Indian you are the more successful you're considered in India.
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    Make sure every household has toilets everyone has excess to clean water preserve indigenous languages and cultures that are under threat ban Bollywood or strictly censor it animal rights ban extremist hate spreading Muslim preachers and Hindu terrorist parties more jobs the whole country is disgusting and corrupt i really think its too late
  14. Yeah they seem like they've both not had it easy. This boy who used to be a girl is now a Singh! in his other videos he has grown his kesh out
  15. Yeah i don't think they include the sikh siklighar, banjara etc population in the Sikh figures but classify them as Hindus. But how much are the Sikh leaders in Punjab even doing for these other Sikhs, nothing at all tbh When i went Hazur Sahib i was surprised to see how many of the local people were Sikhs. I remember seeing local ladies wearing saree's but were also wearing kirpan, kara and were Amritdharis. At first glance you would think they were Hindus but look closely and you realize they are Amritdhari Sikhs. I'm sure its the same at patna sahib as well I was also surprised to see muslims at Hazur Sahib! and the muslim women would even remove the bit that covers their faces when entering the gurdwara
  16. puzzled

    Porn addiction

    I have this aswell! I'm trying to stop. I went 9 days without doing it but gave in yesterday . Starting from today I'm gonna try to not do that and see how long I last this time its about trying to get out of the habit really. Masturbating habit and porn addiction are two different things really.
  17. Yeah I'm 25 but a lot of my hair falls out and its gotten a lot worse recently. When I brush my hair a lot falls out. But my diet isn't good either, I stopped eating meat about 2 years ago and since then have started eating a lot of crisp, sweets chocolates. I need to cut down on the fizzy drinks too but recently started cutting down and started eating fruit and vegetables which I never used to eat before. Try using oils like black castor oil. I wonder if my GP would let me Take a blood test
  18. The first Mughal emperor Babur was a gay! he fell in love with a Persian boy called Baburi, Interestingly Babur went onto create a mosque called Baburi masjid lol. He also wrote in his diary that he wasn't interested in his wife and that he only use to visit her now and then, that too because his mum forced him too LOL! “Even his name was amazingly appropriate. I developed a strange inclination for him – rather I made myself miserable over him.” "In those leisurely days I discovered in myself a strange inclination, nay ! as the verse says, ' I maddened and afflicted myself for a boy in the camp-bazar, his very name, Baburi, fitting in. Up till then I had had no inclination for any-one, indeed of love and desire, either by hear-say or experience, I had not heard, I had not talked. At that time I composed Persian couplets, one or two at a time ; this is one of the them" "I was not ill-disposed towards her, yet, this being my first marriage, out of modesty and bashfulness, I used to see her once in 10, 15 or 20 days. Later on when even my first inclination did not last, my bashfulness increased. Then my mother Khanim used to send me, once a month, or every forty days, with driving and driving, dunnings and worryings." Homosexuality in India was very much accepted even by the mughals its only when the British came they created laws against it.
  19. I guess because the prominent culture in Punjab until 1947 had always been Islamic. In fact many Mandirs built during the Sikh empire also had domes like the Punj mandir in Fatehgarh churian built by one of Ranjit Singhs wives and the old mandir at Pul Kanjri village also has a dome etc but i'm guessing Punjabi Hindus eventually stopped using the dome. Harmandir Sahib which in its present structure was constructed even before the Sikh empire went onto become the model for Gurdware. The present structures of Takht Hazur Sahib and Nankana Sahib were built during the Sikh empire and even though they both have a dome they still look different to mosques. Most mosques in south asia traditionally have 3 domes, one big central dome and two smaller ones either side. If you look at the few surviving older gurdware built during the Sikh empire they looked very unique even though they had domes. Like look at the structure of Gurdwara baba Atal rai in Amritsar, its a tall tower while Gurdwara Pehli Patshahi Lakhpat sahib in Gujarat and gurdwara kangan ghat in patna also both have very unique structures. Many of the old abandoned gurdwareh in Pakistan have very unique structures. I believe its after 1947 that gurdwareh started all looking alike and very mosque like
  20. I understand what your saying but when our grandparents were young that was a very different time, back in Punjab it was a completely different culture. Most men did not know what a woman looked like other than what his wife looked like. Women were covered top to bottom with many layers and drapes many women even covered their faces! There was no Media, Movies, Posters of slutty women etc Women were hardly allowed out of the house and most men had sharam and honour. Today its very different, were exposed to sex, skin, nudity everything, it really has changed the way we think in comparison to how our elders thought. Attraction has become a big part of relationships and marriages but yeah i agree loyalty, honour should be far more important in marriages
  21. Punjabi parents need to understand that not everyone wants a job where they sit in a office and rattle away on a keyboard all day.
  22. well no, she actually died lol. There are photos on google images of her dead body at the funeral, and its obviously her in the pics the huge snout/nose gives it away
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