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  1. Yeah I stopped eating meat this year. I didn't know how disgusting it actually itnis until beginning of this year and in this documentary they lighted it up too much. In reality most of the chickens are overfed so much that they can't even walk properly and they have most of their legs broken. It is actually so sad and nowadays the government is like get the bus etc. Walk to school when over 50 percent of greenhouse gas emissions are apparently from meat and just transporting around the country. In addition, they are feeding cows soy and nowadays a lot of them don't even see grass and there is enough food to feed 10 billion humans or so but there is still famine.
  2. Veer ji, There is no need to call her parents idiotic or to get angry that'll just make things worse - sorry that sentence probs made you angry lol sorry. Also ask Guru Sahib via an Ardas an Hukamnama. I am not saying anything ride but ask Guru ji if this Rishta is meant to be. Don't go away from this post and just quit the relationship. Maybe have a conversation with her maybe that's all she needs. Guruis Antarjami the inner Knower, searcher of our hearts and he knows what is best for us. On this forum we can give help but Guru can give you the best advice
  3. I have no idea about marriage and all of this but this reminds me about a Sakhi. If you want to wear gold be like Sri Guru Tegh Bahadur ji Maharaj. When he was young (I think around 8 - sorry if I got it wrong) his eldest brother Baba Gurdita ji was getting married. Guru ji's mother made Guru just were all these clothes of Gold and highly expensive items. During the procession Guru ji saw a kid naked on the street and went up to him and asked him "has your mother given you any clothes to wear" and this boy replied "My mother would love to clothe me. We are so poor we can't even afford roti (food for a day)" Guru ji at once even when that young in his Daya for the meek and poor took off all his gold Kare and clothes and told this child go get yourself some food and shelter for your family. Just look at how great they were Look at this Guru so young is living up to his words Kunchan maati maane. To see gold like dust. And when Guru went to his mother she asked him where are all of your clothes. Guru with full nimrata and compassion replied "O mother I could not bare to see that boy helpless and naked - unable to cover his private parts and keep some dignity" Look at this Sakhi tell it to your wife and say look, if you are willing to wear this Gold then you should be willing to take it off at once without even a doubt and do seva of the poor by giving them money to feed and survive. Hopefully this Sakhi can help you with your problem Sorry I have problem made many mistakes telling this Sakhi and am shaking right now because I think have made a mistake. I am not old enough to understand your marriage situation correctly and please do correct me if I am wrong. ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ
  4. I am not an expert but the purpose of being human is to remember Waheguru ji as much as possible. In your post above you clearly mention about how you know this won't help you in the long run. I would say cover your head and do an Ardas from you heart and Guru will come to help you. As for your question: The difference between earning money, gym etc. And parties is that when your at a party your Kaam (lust) krodh (anger) Lobh (greed) Moh (attachement) and Hankaar (pride) are more active and these take you away from Waheguru ji. It is harder to keep connected with love for Waheguru. Think about it music is blasting into your ears and it could be some rubbish about women etc. And when your at the gym or at work you could have your headphones in listening to Kirtan etc. Although on the surface there is not much link between Sikhi and gym etc we need to try our hardest to link them together. This video may help with trying to link Sikhi into everything you do in your life. Guru is saying you can get ultimate bliss from Waheguru so why don't we take it? I am a bit of a hypocrite because I am not an amazing Sikh myself but forgive me for all the mistakes I have made. ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ
  5. This may help with the concept of Churning your mind with naam.
  6. Yeah you will probably be more recognised and looked up to by people for leaving Maya and following Guru.
  7. The Shaheed Singh would not be wanting to kill you. They would want you back. Remember you are like a brother to them. And the thing is many People have walked down the route you are highlighting with just bad stuff and all of them say it was empty. If you let go of Sikhi now you may never be wanting to go back into it. So keep it near and be fully into it. It's like running a marathon and you have already ran a bit of it no point no point in stopping. As for tying your beard. I'm not too sure on that but it is a billion times better than trimming it because your beard is apart of your Kesh.
  8. And just FYI if you want more Jagraj videos apparently his wife has his 8 TB hard drive with so many videos so yeah.
  9. I think we need to stop caring about the person doing the video. To be honest whenever I see the notification pop up on my phone for a new video it makes me happy and we should be greatful that those Singhs and Kaurs are giving up their jobs to make videos and change our lives. And about the part where you said that Bhai Jagraj was interesting guy. Yh I agree he was really inspiring but look at the other. Baljit Singh he used to be a hardcore smoker and did other bad stuff. Look at Sukhdeep he used to be a mona and if you actually go to park avenue Gurudwara you can see them there for 3 hours doing Katha and QnA afterwards.
  10. RajKaregaKhalsa1

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    This video is very inspiring seeing how this Kaur also had many bullies.
  11. I think it is very brave of you to actually tell us your story. I don't know much but I think it would be good to go Gurudwara and make some friends there.
  12. RajKaregaKhalsa1

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    Bro the same thing happened to me. If you look at the threads one of them was called "regaining faith in Sikhi" I just spilled out everything I doubted about and Sangat here - who are so kind -helped me out. I recommend you read it. Something that may help is watching Basics of Sikhi and Katha on our Guru's because they were so so amazing and whenever you hear stories about them you will start crying because they were that great. I'll tell you now that Guru Maharaj is so meharvaan and bakhsind (forgiving) and dealu (compassionate) that he will help you. You can see this from the Sakhi of Guru Har Rai Sahib ji. He had a herb garden and one time the mughal king's son Dara Shakoh (sorry I probably butchered the spelling lol) fell very ill. He was like that for some time but then 1 guy said to him go to Guru Sahib. They thought are you crazy we have made Guru Arjan Dev ji Maharaj shaheed and fought against Guru Hargobind Sahib Maharaj in battle. One person said just try Guru is very compassionate (Daya de Ghar) and so he went to go get the medicine. Immediately Guru said to the Sikhs go get the plant to help and heal Dara Shakoh at once. For the rest of his life, Dara Shakoh was greatful and loved Guru ji. Guru ji helped his enemies. Just like in this Sakhi, just try asking Guru Sahib through an Ardas and do it with full heart. When you say Guru Nanak lei dhayai actually think of the amazing things they did and they will definitely help out. (All of the Guru's) Sorry for the mistakes I made. Stay in Chardi-kala ।। ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ।। ।। ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ ।।
  13. Just don't bow down to the idols. Bhai Gurdas ji said in one of his Vaars that a Sikh who bows down to any other Guru is cursed and will get the beats of Jamdoots Also remember that Guru Nanak Dev Maharaj went to Makkah and other temples. One time Guru ji was called to a place to pray but when entered the prayer room he saw idols and just took steps backwards until he was outside and began to sing aarti.(Dhanasri mehla 1). From this I take away that you can go but stay in gurmat. You can watch super red moon video on Basics channel for the Sakhi
  14. Thank you so much. Post inspired me and made me smile and cry at yhe same time. I promise I will try my hardest from now on
  15. Could someone please reply. Sangat hi just inspire me and motivate me. I realise that I have to accept that God is real becomes it make me calm and make me feel that there is a purpose in life. ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਿਹ
  16. Guys what I else should I do. I am going to post all my doubts here please answer them Like how do I believe in God? Is God real? -These questions are mainly because I go to a white school were a lot people are atheists and this is affecting me because there is not really any interest with God and they believe that God is a lie. Is Guru willing to take me back and show me the path? Is the feeling on Dasam Duaar God? How do I stop these doubts? I am just searching for answers because now I feel so bad and feel like there is no point to life without Sikhi and I want to get back into Sikhi so badly and love Guru. I start crying when I think of this because as I said before 2 weeks ago I was feeling so chardi Kala. If anyone can help please do. If anyone want to have a private chat I don't mind that too. ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ।। ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ।।
  17. Cool thanks I will try leave the doubts alone and not dwell upon them and just trust Guru. (Any tips for that?)
  18. Even though I thought that doubt was about to leave and I was walking towards Guru Sahib, an hour ago I read a comment saying that is not true and it is a dumb concept made to fool us Please really need help. Last post was on the same topic but need more replies. Have any of you gone through this doubt? What is God? How do we meet God? And does the soul live after death?
  19. Guys even after doing naam Simran and feeling dasam duaar, I am still getting doubt. I have no idea why and it's just frustrating. What do I do?
  20. Guys thank you all for your advice Yesterday I did some Simran and was blessed with some experience. I could feel something powerful on the top of my head. Most of my doubts has been removed and I believe that Guru Sahib has listened to my Ardas. Thanks to all who replied. Just a question. Recently I have started to do my Paath later on in the day rather than in the morning. What would you recommend to me that I could to stop procrastinating and do Paath straight away?
  21. Guys I'm still a bit shaky with Sikhi right now. The doubts are getting a bit better I have a few more questions: What is God? How to we see/feel him with Simran? Does he have a form? Is Guru Sahib still here with us? How do I know that when dasam duaar is open we are feeling God and thatthe Saints are true? And how do I rid of these doubts in my mind that say Guru is wrong and that there is no point in trying to find God? Still a bit upset because I remember the times a few weeks ago where I was so inspired to be in Sikhi. I don't know what is wrong with me. Makes me cry when I think about these doubts because I don't want to leave Sikhi but really want to be inspired and back on this path Please help Sadh Sangat ji. Please
  22. Thanks brother That was sweet Hopefully I can start getting rid of the doubt's Do you have any tips on just blocking them out of my head
  23. I don't really know Sometimes I feel fully faithful Then sometimes these dumb atheist Richard Dawkin type arguments come into my mind saying that you are believing in a lie. I would just like some comfort that I am not alone and that God will help me get back into Sikhi Thank you for replying and I think that just spilling out my doubts on this site is helping me get back into Sikhi Do you have any experiences of God and dasam duaar and stories of naam Simran you can share? Ps. If anyone wanted to know how I got into Sikhi in the first place it was when I was blessed to watch Basics of Sikhi on YouTube. Really recommend them and Bhai Sukha Singh UK
  24. Dear Guru ke pyarrio Daas has Been having some hard times with Sikhi lately. 2 weeks ago I was pumped and wanted to become a proper Gursikh but just last week I had started getting a little bit of doubt. This doubt go really bad and I was losing faith in God. However with Maharaj's kirpa the doubts were cleared around Friday. However they started again and don't seem as bad now but they still make me cry because I still really want to be a Gursikh and not lose Sikhi because it is so great- I am only 15 btw. If anyone can please just give me some inspiration they would be appreciated. This never seemed to happen before (I have been trying to follow Sikhi and started doing a bit of Paath last year December and I had never go any doubt before) Some concerns I have are that Will God listen to my prayers? How do I regain faith in God and Guru? And Can I be forgiven? Guys I really want to get back into Sikhi it is the main mission of my life and I really need your guy's help. Please send me some inspiration and motivate me back on to the path. ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ
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