TinnkerBell

I don’t think its Gurmat and no benefit other then showing off. I am not going to wear it ?

Hanji veerjee eho try kr rehe han jee

Puzzled bai ji, like i said earlier I am willing to marry an amritdhari only. As I expected it always. Thats why.

I am 29 and my family is finding an amritdhari girl for me.As all my family members and relatives are non Amritdharis so we hardly know anyone in gursikhi line. we tried giving ads in newspapers almost 10-15 times. We got almost 60+ responses each time I put matrimonial ad, out of which 98 percent phone calls are those who are not amritdharis. Since I always expected an amritdhari and nitnemi girl as my life partner so I only consider those who are blessed with amrit and the remaining 2-3 percent matches are those who don’t have good education or lacking in height. As a result, after 5 months of continue search- I didn’t find any good rishta. Now my parents are suggesting me to marry a girl who is willing to take amrit, or marry a girl who is vegetarian and slowly she will take amrit and become gursikh (it doesn’t seems fair to me- I don’t want to force anyone to take amrit and I don’t want Amrit as an agreement for my marriage, I don’t want to marry a nonAmritdhari and than influence her to come to gursikhi, its not right, right?). On the contrary, some amritdhari matches weren’t interested in me because they want my all family to be Amritdhari ( None of my family members are gursikh except mom) Apart from newspaper, I tried shaadi.com, akj.org, bharatmatrimonial.com, jeevansathi.com, and some other matrimonial websites as well. I went to Canada about 7 yrs ago and settled there, Since I spent my childhood and adulthood in Punjab, therefore my mentality,nature, reasoning, thinking and behaviour is developed in a complete different way than CanadianBorns girls. So I don’t want to marry Canadian/US/UK borns girls either. I am a little disappointed with not finding any suitable match for me and equally worried for our next generations. Its 2018-it will be hard to find gursikh rishte in next 15-20 years.

Very good article ji thanks for sharing bai ji

1. Ishwar Amolak lal ( book written from daily diary of sant ishar singh rara sahib) 2. Simran Mehma( bhai raghbir singh bir) 3. Jiwan of sant Attar singh Reru sahib 4. Jiwan of Sant Karam singh hotimardan 5. Jiwan of Sant Gurbachan singh khalsa bhindrawale 6. Dooro’n dekhya sant bhindrawala 7. Do raaje yogi( sant rara sahibs jiwan) 8. Bhikra painda( bibi sandeep kaur kaaahtiwal about her operations and revolutionary period) 9. Ki Guru Granth Sahib di pooja Butt.prasti hai ( bhai randhir singh) 10. Jiwan of sant Nand Singh ji 11. Bhagwat Geeta( its very good, its in sankrit language so you have to read English translation ?) 12. Budhism( not a book to improve our lifestyle but still a good one) 13. Jainism- vardhamaan mahavir( they have amazing wow rules for daily jobs ) 14. Autobiography of Kiran Bedi( first female IPS officer of india, her struggle and sportsmanship) 15. Autobiography of flying sikh Milkha Singh 16. Baba Gurdit singh Kamagata Maroo 17. Jiwans of Gadri baabay 18. Wings of fire ( Dr APJ Abdul Kalam) All above mentioned are good one, i hv read many others but can’t remember the names ?

That’s true its almost 2019 now and still so many people consider us as muslims. But i guess they are mostly the natives who often have less education/ limited access electronic web and newspaper. I have travelled to almost all states in Canada, US from Washington to Florida and New Mexico to NewYork by roadand, taking stops in big cities as well as small villages and I have personally experienced more than dozens of experiences of ‘are you a muslim’,? Puzzled ji, same questions i have experienced many times- do you have a knife, how long my hairs, do u have a lighter ?, you don’t smoke but why ?? and sometimes good stereotype questions and complements as well like— you don’t eat meat right?, you don’t drink right ? You people are always happy , you people are very hardworking etc ?

Bai ji, first of all you should start buying dastars that don’t get faded. We name it as “ guarantee wali pagg”, it comes in with “vimal” brand. I have used only these dastars since 2008, you can wash it, dry it anyway you want, these paggs literally don’t lose any color at all. You can wash dark blue new pagg with plain white shirt and it will not effect the white shirt. ( Since my all dastars are Guarantee wali, so i wash it in machine (45mins) with other clothes- without looking at woolen/soft/delicate/or heavy setting) ?

Yes, its possible. i know a person who did sangats of some great awastha saints 20 yrs ago and now he got the stamina of doing 10-15 sukhmani sahib paaths in one sitting and 40+ paaths of sukhmani sahibs in one day, he don’t go to gurughar on regular visits, may be one in a week or even less, he is a very good sikh, always talk about God and his greatness all the time. (he don’t wear Kirpan as well, nor he cares much about keeping Sucham while eating.)

Plz change it to any following name available: TorontoBoy, VolleyBall, NewBorn, LudhianaBoy let me know if all these above names are already in use. ?

There are many examples in the sikh history and hindoo history where bachans are “modified” to make them less dangerous but i guess there is not a single example in the history where a bachan is directly taken back from no to yes.

We are also finding an amritdhari girl for me, and we also keep in mind the our surname and naanka surnames should not match. ( but some people don’t consider this as an issue as well)

Admin ji i requested to add one N but someone from admin has put two Ns now ? could u plz do it one more time, the user name i wanted is - TinkerBell thanks jee

I would like to share a saakhi from the life of Guru Gobind Singh ji. once some singhs went to guru ji and asked that if we read shiv.puraan- it says universal is created by Shiva, hence he is the creator if we read vishnoo.puraan it says Vishnoo is the supreme, similarly, narad.puraan and bhagwat geeta. if we read Guru Nanak dev jis bani- its says everything got evolved from “ommmmmmm-sound”( Ek)if we read Guru Arjun dev jis bani- its says Universe was created from Naam Singhs asked “ maharaj ji how exactly universe is made”- whom should we trust? guru ji replied,” bhai shristi kde paida hoyi hi nahi hai, universe was never created, time to time jeho-jahi examplea den di lod si- os os time de according os time de avtaars ne example de ditti, asall sach eho hai ke shirsri kde v bani hi nahi” so coming to the point of evolution from Apes- there are many theories that are contradicting this case, the main Contradiction theory to evolution from apes was submitted long time ago in January 1997, Since then nobody has submitted the further supporting theory of evolution from apes. All the theories that are considered Truth and True till now are true because nobody has submitted its contradictory theories, so if someone writes and proves its reciprocated answer- the todays truth will become tomorrow’s rejected theory ? you might have seen the present rank of Ex Planet Pluto ?

I want to change name to TinkerBell ( I forgot to put “n”, ) can i edit name ?

Thanks ?