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Why am I getting moderated for a comment? I am done with this website. 

I stopped cutting a couple of months ago. My hair is about shoulder height now. I have thick hair, growing at medium-fast pace. I am young guy. My question is how long do you think it will take for my hair to reach it's final length? I looked up some info online, there's not much surprisingly, some say a 3-5 years some say more like 7+ years.. Thanks

On 1/14/2020 at 11:14 AM, puzzled said:

Yh I stopped from 1st january,  14 days in and I haven't done in! Going strong lol     haven't been tempted either     it's a mental thing    it's all in your head

Had my 1st strong temptation today though     had a really stressful day at work  and got really tempted to do it lol    but I'm over it now    

Focus is important. 

bro what helps me is this. When I get an urge, I feel the energy, I don't get scared, I keep calm, and I say(think) to myself this is the energy I am retaining. This energy is powerful. If you don't bust, this energy is retained within you. Your aura grows, which people can sense, and day by day you get more and more powerful. I flex my muscles, pull the energy in. This has worked for me. 

6 hours ago, puzzled said:

she dont mind if the guy is a singh

Lol. How pathetic todays world is. A man in his complete form is seen as uncool, and these female looking boys are seen as cool. That's how powerful this media is for the fools.  Reminds me of Micheal Jordan ad in the early 2000's. It was, "I wanna be like Mike", and ppl started getting bald 0 haircut lol. 

4 hours ago, puzzled said:

men who sleep around starting in their teens all the way to their 40s   i dont understand how they can have meaningless sex with random women for 2 decades,    you would think after a few yrs of doing that you would want something more and meaningful   if that makes sense.     but no these days many continue right into their 40s and then look for something meaningful.   having casual meaningless sex with random women all the way till their 40s   do they not question it or feel empty ....          strange 

it's so easy to get ahead in today's world (materially). People always talking about how there's high competition all that, it's super easy to get ahead. Porn, Masturbation, alcohol, weed, casual sex, video games, junk foods, and just people not using their brains fully (they know what they should do but still make dumb choices etc). As a man if you avoid all this, retain your seed, and use this brain that's been given to us, this life is super easy. Sit back plan out and move forward. Watch all these fools drown. Don't bother helping them, they won't listen. Only when you become the light, those who want help will come to you, and those people you help and guide. 

^low key joking low key serious. But even from India, you can't tell what they been up to in the past. Best thing you can do is get yourself in a good place, finish your education, be at a nice respectable job. If you are out of shape, get into shape, if you skinny put some muscles on. Do your work first, become the man that the girl you want is looking for. Be honest with yourself, if you aren't there yet, work on yourself, your mindset, your insecurities, anything negative about you, etc. When you are ready, you will find your girl. Peace. 

On 2/3/2020 at 7:39 AM, Harditsingh said:

I am 23 and i want to get married but the problem is that I can't find the type women I am looking for here. I want a girl who dresses modestly isn't into partying one who enjoys books helping her mother etc the girls in my area are not like this and are all into parties and functions and being all show offy. 

Does anybody here have similar problwms?

 

import one from India. Hopefully you have a good job, so she can just do house work. She will be happy you will be happy. Cheers.

On 2/7/2020 at 4:35 AM, Guest Navjoht said:

I don't know why I am even writing this post, I guess most of the replies will tell me I have insecurity issues and need to be more  confident.  

 

no you aren't insecure, one needs to look good and feel comfortable at the same time. idk what to tell you tho, I am a guy and I am not really religious at all. I wear a small keski, not covering the ears (so ears don't hurt and I can put in glasses) and on top I tie a black dastaar (2m), in the same way you wear a keski/parna. I always sit down in Chokri and freestyle it, larr by larr, without looking in the mirror. My style is like those smaller UK style paggs but better. Sometimes Its a bit gol sometimes it has that A shape giving it the crown look. That's what works for me. 

I started keeping hair and wearing dastaar only a couple months ago. Just keep trying, try to find new clothes, maybe look around the house. Don't get frustrated, hopefully you will find your style. 

7 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

I am genuinely very curious though, and I can tell you must have thought on that, care to share what makes you see things that way?

Not really bro, I didn't think too much, it's just a feeling, but I can list out some main points.

I heard that as KalYug progresses it supposes to get darker and darker ( worse and worse), but I feel we have passed the worst times already.  Like Mughal raj, where there was no value on human life, people would be picked up on a whim and fed to dogs and hounds of the royal. And slavery for example, all around the world for 100's of years. I feel like we are in the upward cycle now, things are getting better. I mean compare today to back then, what can be worse than that? Those were the darkest times. And that's when the Guru's came. 

I also heard that in Dawapur Yug, energy is supreme. In Kal Yug gross and matter is how the world works. Today everything is done by energy (electricity). And so I would believe that late 1800 is when Dwapur started..

Also aren't people becoming more conscious nowadays? Idk, I am not 100% on my beliefs, they are flexible. But to believe that times are getting worse and worse and will continue to for 100,000s of years is such a limiting thought. 

you are on the naughty list. 

I had thought that we were still in Kal Yug, but now I personally believe that we have well passed Kal Yug and are infact in Dwapaur Yug, for various reasons. I want to ask if Sikhi says anything on when Kal Yug will end, or if Sikhi is somehow against the fact that we are in Dwapaur Yug now. 

23 hours ago, dallysingh101 said:

No, that one even the most basic of simpleton knows. 

Really? I am not so sure. I live in USA, so tell me would I have to wear a hard cap or what? 

On 1/9/2020 at 11:16 AM, puzzled said:

she gives the food to mostly bihari migrants. The bihari men are normally rude in her video, start snatching, dont say thank you, start snapping their hands at her. some behave very ungrateful. the bihari kids are far more friendly in the videos and all line up waiting their turn and say thank you.  

biharis are probably gnna take over punjab soon.

well somebody gotta take over punjab, since we are all leaving it. 

On 1/31/2020 at 12:14 PM, dallysingh101 said:

Anyone a Civil Engineer here? Mind if I ask a few questions? 

are you going to ask about wearing hard cap on the work site? 

3 hours ago, Redoptics said:

So easy to speak about situations you never been through,  however I accept your kind words Waheguru 

well said. 

I am not sure what you are asking veer ji. But stay strong. Don't fall down. 

On 4/24/2016 at 11:59 AM, simran345 said:

Guru ji tells us in Japji Sahib ji:

ਤਿਥੈ ਖੰਡ ਮੰਡਲ ਵਰਭੰਡ ॥

तिथै खंड मंडल वरभंड ॥

Ŧithai kẖand mandal varbẖand.

In that realm there are continents, worlds and solar systems.

ਜੇ ਕੋ ਕਥੈ ਤ ਅੰਤ ਨ ਅੰਤ ॥

जे को कथै त अंत न अंत ॥

Je ko kathai ṯa anṯ na anṯ.

if some one tries to describe them, he should know that there are no limits or bounds of them.

ਤਿਥੈ ਲੋਅ ਲੋਅ ਆਕਾਰ ॥

तिथै लोअ लोअ आकार ॥

Ŧithai lo▫a lo▫a ākār.

There are universes upon universes and creations over creations.

ਜਿਵ ਜਿਵ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਤਿਵੈ ਤਿਵ ਕਾਰ ॥

जिव जिव हुकमु तिवै तिव कार ॥

Jiv jiv hukam ṯivai ṯiv kār.

As is the Master's mandate, so are their functions.

ਵੇਖੈ ਵਿਗਸੈ ਕਰਿ ਵੀਚਾਰੁ ॥

वेखै विगसै करि वीचारु ॥

vekẖai vigsai kar vīcẖār.

The Lord beholds His creation and feels happy by contemplating over it.

ਨਾਨਕ ਕਥਨਾ ਕਰੜਾ ਸਾਰੁ ॥੩੭॥

नानक कथना करड़ा सारु ॥३७॥

Nānak kathnā karṛā sār. ||37||

O Nanak! to describe the realm of truth is hard like iron.

SGGS ji Ang 8

?? Dhan Guru Nanak Dev ji

veer ji. Guru Nanak Dev ji is talking about SachKhand Realm here, not our realm. 

On 1/10/2020 at 11:10 AM, puzzled said:

some other faiths say the same thing,   i think the vedas say the earth and heavens are a flat disk 

wait really?? vedas say earth is flat? 

Dhan Guru Nanak Teri Waddi Kamai. 

btw, just ignore users like these. They just want attention, and on the inside they know are missing something and are insecure. 

this side of Islam is very beautiful. It's different from mainstream Islam right? Can someone explain. 

you are all fools, hating on Yogi Bhajan for no reason and grouping him in the same category as other "gurus" like bikram, etc. 

He saved hundreds if not thousands from going down the wrong path, using drugs to "get spiritual" etc and showed them a better path. Did any of you even watch the video I sent? Those two are directly his students. He connected hundreds of souls to Gurbani, and you all are doing ninda on him? Have you ever read Sukhmani Sahib? 

How can you call them fake? Are you on their level, first of all? And No ONE in their group said Kundalini Yoga is NECESSARY for gurbani. All they said is it's helpful, like exercise is, clean diet is ,etc. 

Waheguru. 

2 hours ago, puzzled said:

i drink cbd tea from holland and baretts lo    i like the tastel,   a girl with depression told me that the cbd tablets help her        

tell her to wake up 90 mins before sunrise. Go walk outside. Come back (body little heated) and take cold shower. Depression gone. Welcome.

only fools that pretend they are spiritual smoke weed. All it does it numbs your senses, over time your nerves becomes loose, they loose their firmness, they loose their speed, they loose their "life". Then you become lazy, you procrastinate, you get nothing done, some even start giving themselves false delusions, like I will do this or do that, and they believe that. For example:

Two of my classmates from high school smoke weed, they are so delusional. One wants to be a neurosurgeon, and go study in Netherlands, but all he does is watch porn, smoke weed, play games, watch anime. He goes to community college but ain't getting anything done there. Plus he's here (USA) on visa, living under single mom. It's been 3 years since high school graduation ain't getting anything done. Similar story with the other one. Other "friends" as well. My neighbors as well. Just look around bro.

At first I thought, victims were actual Sikhs wearing dastaar and beard, so maybe that's why they said "Sikh". To be fair, saying that "sikh men stabbed" isn't so bad. But that one article saying, "clash between sikh groups" is soo wrong. 

11 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

 Personally I reckon it is paki drug pedallers in the neighbourhood , only a few minutes away from my door . Last year that hindu pregnant bibi that was killed by her exe with a crossbow happened a short walk away , this violence is following similar trends  to other places where a certain demographic move in .

be safe ji.

7 hours ago, BhForce said:

There's a world of difference in engaging in sexuality being married vs. not.

It's like saying "haha, I wouldn't expect amritdharis to eat". Well, you wouldn't expect amritdharis to eat food they stole. It's OK to eat food you bought.

well I wouldn't know. Nor am I amritdhari nor am I married. But I would expect that love and lust are two different things even when it comes to physical human relationship. Right? Or maybe both persons in relationship have to be at a high level to differentiate between lust and love and act accordingly.? 

and if we are on this topic,  is it not lust to use a natural mechanism, that is meant for procreation, to get the pleasure, and at the end simply pull out (sorry for being explicit). Is there a difference between making love and fu**ing?