Singh2020

Sat Sri Akal all I just bumped into this thread and read your post @AjeetSingh2019 Singh ji you may be a wonderful son to your parents but not a good husband for sure. Girls see us man as their hero's ( at least that's what they have asked for) but they didn't get in your case. She put all her trust in you to tell you in the kitchen itself so that you don't criticize her in front of your parents and you broke it in a moment. Is that why she left all her 'world' and followed you to your house?? Trust me man, I have been happily married 15 years now and I cook for my wife at times. Whatever I may cook ( initially, I didn't know how to- so they were major disasters) she never said a word wrong even if it's crap.. anyway ... Have you heard the sakhi of Bibi Rajni who's father was Ahankari and got her married to a ' kori' cos she said ki oh Waheguru da ditta khaandi hai?? You sound like that hankari Raja - I earn for her. "Am I an ATM?" BRO it's. Their 'kismat' that we earn. Waheguru ji's kirpa. You have a big time ego. Work upon it. They are our soulmates - put yourself into her shoes. You are still with both your parents. She has left them for u. I was like you when I got married - we had a typical arrange marriage. I noticed as I treated her so did my parents. I have seen my parents treat her badly, keeping her away from ' our' home issues and taunting on her parents- but when I started taking her side and putting myself in her shoes - ( as I got to know her- I started loving her) they loosened up.