Sat1

On 10/31/2020 at 12:23 AM, brotha said:

I would say yes they are more dominant in men.

Let us take for example "kaam", when will you see that women can commit gang rapes or just rapes as men do...

Then going to krodh, men can just kill for nothing...

But maybe in hankar, lobh and moh, the situation seems equal...

But then too, I do defend women from unjustice, and the violence they suffer at the hands of "males", for no apparent other reasons than that of being a woman in all societies, but much evident in the muslim dominant population.

This is a crude reality of life, so many women everyday suffer at the hands of, not men, but beast males.

It is also true, women can be the worst enemies of women in spite of all the feminist movements to defend their human rights.

Hi, I agree to an extent. But women can have deep dark thoughts that they don’t share with the world also. I don’t know if you’ve ever seen the movie the purge. Sometimes humans wish to commit awful deeds deep down, but don’t because society says it’s wrong, not because they don’t want to. That’s why it’s important to quiet the mind. 
 

Yes, a huge number of women still suffer abuse at the hands of men, it’s unbelievable in a world that claims to safeguard its citizens, and to propagate human rights. Patriarchal societies are still as rampant as ever, and many women still treated as subhumans. Very sad. In the Muslim population, yes, and also amongst Indians, and many other cultures. 

2 hours ago, brotha said:

What impurity are we talking about?

The menstrual periods are something natural and cyclical in women.

It is deep ignorance if they are blamed for it.

Gurbani says that if a cloth is tainted with urine or mal mootar it can be washed with water and soap, but if it is the paaps/sins, mental impurities, vikaars, this can be only washed with the water of devotion and the soap of Nam, and it is here where women and men are equal in this aspect, but then it is men by large who are mentally sick in comparison with women, for the 5 vikaars are more active and dominant in men.

It is this sick mental state, what is seen as impure in the eyes of the Lord/God.

Let's stop criticising and blaming women just for the sake of ignorance.

Of course women have their minus points as being human beings which they can not avoid, but in general we men are worse than them.

What a big deal if they have their periods, it was in olden times when they couldn't go out or anything while having them, today the science has advanced so much, that they can even do sports, or any other activity without anybody noticing it, so please for god's sake, let us not worsen things more than what they already are, it is already a difficult job being a woman in many spheres of the so called "society" which is manipulative and unjust many a times.

Good post.

The vikaars are not more active and dominant in men. It’s Kalyug, these thieves are rampant In many humans regardless of gender. 

On 9/19/2020 at 3:06 AM, indersingh1313 said:

wjkk wjkf ji

I am in Melbourne and I know many Singhs here in. my Gurudwara. I am not sure how to reach Gurudwara sahib directly regarding this, unless I know the local people there. I will try. thanks

Maybe just turn up. They would probably do matrimonials there

On 9/20/2020 at 2:46 PM, Guest Blue Mountain said:

You are right, I was reading it too and it was so upsetting to read such a lot of nindia against you.  They are so patronising towards you just because they think you are young and inexperienced. Even if you are, no one has the right to be bad to you or anyone. After all, no one can be experienced in everything in life  regardless of their age!  Just ignore them. Be who you are and judging from your posts you seem to be doing really well.  Don’t stop posting because of these fools. You are a Sikh, a learner. Their unreserved nindia towards you has taught me something and that’s how certain people can be so vile towards others and cause so much hurt and pain without taking accountability for it!  Because of the pain you felt taught you not to do the same to others because they will also feel the same hurt and pain these nindaks caused you. See there is a lesson to be learned even from the nindaks. Let go and live your life with higher principles, which you are already doing, judging from your posts. Be good to others.

That’s true, thanks so much

On 9/20/2020 at 12:43 PM, Shaheed4life said:

I just remembered 1 more shabad while reading the posts

Bhale Nindo Bhale Nindo Bhale Nindo Lokho. 

Slander me well,Slander me well,Slander me well, O people.

Bhul Chuk Maf

 

 

True

On 9/14/2020 at 9:43 AM, kaur said:

Waheguru ji ka khalsa..waheguru jee kee fateh..

Sangat ji I have some concerns regarding our social lives.. Some kathas and sants talk about being alone is good and then I think about this Ghrist Jeevan.

Sometimes we have to sit with a group of people who are talking in general and then end up gossiping and criticizing others.

I know it is wrong and when I tell them as a joke that we should gossip less, I get the answers back like oh this is the reality..this is how people are.. we are just telling the truth..

So I have few questions in my mind.. 

First of all.. When someone call himself/herself spiritual.. can they still be rude? Can they still insult you in front of others to prove you wrong? Can they still criticize( commenting on others' upbringing) ?

What I understood..that once your heart is pure..you actions are simply sweet.. but then these days..everyone goes..oh be careful from those who are sweet talkers.. those who are little rude..they have good hearts..

My second question and really important for me to know is if I sit with someone(elders.....from family) who talks bad about anyone or gossip.. will it effect my karams too? What to do when you have no choice? Sometimes, they complain and expect you to get involved .. anytime I don't answer, I get to hear oh I am not being respectful..I am being ignorant...especially in the family..it is really hard...

Please advice how to handle this situation..

Waheguru JI

On another note, a bunch of trolls and bullies have set up a thread doing my nindya and emotionally abusing me in another thread. Read it and see how nindya works, and how people who speak such sweet words on other threads can become demons on another. Such are many so called bhagats in the age of Kalyug. Wolves in sheep’s clothing. 

On 8/24/2020 at 2:47 AM, Guest Singh13 said:

wjkk wjkf ji

I am a gursikh guy over 30 now and finding really hard to find an Amritdhari girl in Australia. as many of of us already know that usually match making happens between friends and relatives. Sikh community is not very beg here and moreover  age group matters too. 

my questions are :-

what are the websites or apps to find an Amritdhari match in Australia (apart from local newspapers which I tried already)?

if I search in India then I have this insecurity that the girl os only marrying a gursikh guy to come to Australia (if she is not Amritdhari and ready to take Amrit )

if I search any other country than India, then Moving from Australia becomes the  problem. 

some days I get really sad and then pray, next day I am back on searching again with Waheguru's grace.

thank you!

 

Did you try the Gurdwarras. Gurdwarras In Coffs Harbour in Brisbane, Parklea or Revesby in Sydney should be able to help. 

On 9/17/2020 at 5:16 AM, Guest Sat1 would say said:

We all one whats the difference between like and downvote 

Oh bullies, I’m being ganged up on, how scary. Grow up, and be civilized. This isn’t a schoolyard. I must be the oldest one here.

On 9/17/2020 at 6:32 PM, Singh1989 said:

Very, very hard as am in the same boat. 

I suppose if / when they tell u to get involved u could simply speak out tukhts where it states Nindia is wrong? (NOT Sant ka nindhk stated in Sukhmani Sahib) but other times Maharaaj mentions Nindia / juglia. If they get it, good. If not... U perfomed your duty, did yer bit. 

There are whole passages on slandering, you could quote one. The nindaks faces are blackened, It’s a great crime. Gaslighting and slandering can lead to a human being going insane. You hear of kids who grow up mentally unstable after their nindya being done by bullies, and adults who become the same. Very sad. It’s effects can be very real.
 

Some people can not be affected by it and don’t believe it, but in my experience, if it’s bad enough, that’s rare. I believe that much of the world lives in fear of it, and that the media plays on this fact and feeds off And encourages the low self esteem of people. Knowing who we are, our origin is key to not falling for this stuff and not sinking into it mentally.

On 9/17/2020 at 4:51 AM, singhdalbir said:

You are a real psycho aren't you. do you have a real job or life. I mean you had so much time to go down vote all my previous posts. you are just a crazy psycho. I guess guru Sahib was right don't argue with fools.

If there is no religion than guru sahib wouldn't have said the following:

Dharam bina sab daley Maley hai.

Dasam Bani Uggardanti.. 'Kareh Khalsa Panth Teesar Parveesah, Jugay Singh Jodhay Turay Neel Bhaisa'

Third Panth basically is new religion. You won't acknowledge it because it doesn't find your narrative.

Below are few lines from Vaar 41 of Bhai Gurdas Ji. It basically proves that Khalsa is a third panth(religion).

Ehe Thisar Majahb Khalsa Upjeoo Pardhana

Niij Panth Chalo Khalsa Dhar Tej Karaa

 

Sikhism isn't some philosophy that you follow it an actual religion. I know you are an outsider trying to brain wash young kids here but that won't work.

This is it I am done arguing with fools.

Downvote what posts? I didn’t do that, I’m not sure who did. Someone downvoted a lot of my posts in another thread, was probably the same person. 
 

It’s the Khalsa, it’s not a Religion. It’s the Path of Truth. Of which there is only One. You wish to confine God to a Religious sect when Guru Nanak taught otherwise. 
 

Many who claim to be Sikh have fallen into the ego of the external appearance and neglect the internal. They spend their time praying and then going out and doing nindya of good souls, many of the men downplay woman to lift themselves up and think that the external appearance means they are pure.

It doesn’t. The internal is just as important. That why the Gurus preached for Muslims to swap their prayer mats for Truth in Practice and Hindus to do the same. The way you write, the way you react, reflects a Mayadhari who is sitting on a high horse behind the confines of the external of a so called religion. When someone tells you what the Guru himself has taught, you boil over in anger and ego. Tell me how does accepting Guru Nanaks own words as Truth make one a psychopath?

 The Khalsa are the Pure Ones. Do you claim to be a Pure One in action?
 

On 9/14/2020 at 9:43 AM, kaur said:

Waheguru ji ka khalsa..waheguru jee kee fateh..

Sangat ji I have some concerns regarding our social lives.. Some kathas and sants talk about being alone is good and then I think about this Ghrist Jeevan.

Sometimes we have to sit with a group of people who are talking in general and then end up gossiping and criticizing others.

I know it is wrong and when I tell them as a joke that we should gossip less, I get the answers back like oh this is the reality..this is how people are.. we are just telling the truth..

So I have few questions in my mind.. 

First of all.. When someone call himself/herself spiritual.. can they still be rude? Can they still insult you in front of others to prove you wrong? Can they still criticize( commenting on others' upbringing) ?

What I understood..that once your heart is pure..you actions are simply sweet.. but then these days..everyone goes..oh be careful from those who are sweet talkers.. those who are little rude..they have good hearts..

My second question and really important for me to know is if I sit with someone(elders.....from family) who talks bad about anyone or gossip.. will it effect my karams too? What to do when you have no choice? Sometimes, they complain and expect you to get involved .. anytime I don't answer, I get to hear oh I am not being respectful..I am being ignorant...especially in the family..it is really hard...

Please advice how to handle this situation..

Waheguru JI

Nindya is a great crime in Gods court. A lot of Auntiya, uncles and youngsters think it’s okay which is baffling... a lot of them do their daily five bania and simran but find that it’s okay to behave really uncivilly and engage in nindya rendering their bhagati useless, as when we engage in the five thieves in that way, we fall 

On 9/14/2020 at 3:47 PM, puzzled said:

Everything the prophet did was according to Allahs instructions. The prophets says and doings are recorded in the hadiths, secondary Islamic texts. Everything he did and said was what Allah told him to do and say, so everything in the hadiths is considered sunnah or proper, including how Allah told the prophet to marry Aisha. 

As the prophet married a 6 year old, its sunnah and also proper for a Muslim man to also marry a 6 year old.

Even Ali Dawah the preacher guy, in a video he says if his daughter is ready to marry at 9 then he will get her married at 9!   For them its divine/ God sent! 

 

This is possibly part of the reason why a lot of Muslim kids suffer sexual abuse by adults. As is stated in the Jewish writings that sexual abuse of children is okay. These religions are corrupted and twisted 

On 9/14/2020 at 2:03 AM, Guest Singh said:

I don't think she is Hindu or Muslim.

Obviously all humanity and insaaniat is one.

However, what I think Sat1 is articulating poorly (or glossing over) is that there are serious differences between the path of Sikhi (Truth) as taught by Guru Sahib and religious ideologies like Islam (where the Quran supports such evil and depraved things like Slavery, the rape of children, the sexual enslavement of non-Muslim, Genocide and terrorism) and Hinduism (which supports such depraved concepts as the caste system and considers women impure similar to how Islam does).

I think once Sat1 acknowledges that the Muslim and Hindu beliefs above are wholeheartedly and categorically rejected by Sikhi then she will be able to articulate what she actually believes a bit better.

 

 

There is no religion. Dasam Granth Ji explains that the teachers of Hinduism and Islam became corrupts and became psychopaths, Mohammed circumcising his followers and the gods and goddesses were in ego making people worship them. Religion is false, there’s only the Pure Uncorrupted teachings that the Gurus taught. They added teachings of other bhagats who were born into other religions but who detached from them and practiced Truth, to show that religion is false. That Truth is One. 
 

That’s why Guru Nanak says to replace the Hindu and Muslim rituals with truthful actions and deeds instead, because the rituals mean Nothing. There’s only One as taught in Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Many others twisted and corrupted Gods messages and fell off the path. The Gurus came at a time where there was so much darkness, falsehood and false rituals and religion. Guru Nanak eradicated the false constraints of religions, and taught us that there’s only One All Pervading God, One pervading Truth..no Hindu, no Muslim. How can God who is all pervading be constrained to anything..to any religion, caste, culture or sect. We have Punjabi’s who are buried six feet under in culture to the extent that they believe that white, black, Chinese, reds Indians are different from us, when humans are Equal, it’s the man made constraints of religion, culture, caste, false societal levels, wealth and poverty etc that blind us to the Truth. When you’re a Sikh, ie student of Truth, you don’t constrain yourself to an illusion. You free yourself of it and realise it’s all just God and hence become all loving and fearless, Nirboah and Nirvair. 

On 9/14/2020 at 12:52 AM, singhdalbir said:

your a fool. with some ulterior motive. Guru Sahib said I am neither Hindu nor Muslim. because he rejected both backwards ideologies. Guru Sahib started a new religion. Aurangzeb want to make 1 from 2 but Guru said God want to make 3 from 2. Stop using Gurbani to future your stupid thought process. you don't understand nor it seem you ever will. you have to read the whole Shabad to understand that is he rejecting all the practices of those two irrelevant religions. If there is no religion than why did Guru Gobind singh ji create the Khalsa. You utter nonsense that might mislead other on this forum. I ask the Admin again this seem like a CAT. Please check his IP.

This quote proved what I’ve said. Read it again. Your ego is blinding you to what’s right in front of you. There’s only One. Religion is false, we’re not Hindus or Muslims, God is One. Sikh means Student, were students of Sat. 

16 hours ago, singhdalbir said:

Please stop making stuff up. YES you can convert to Sikhi. That is a total lie. you don't know what you you are talking about. Dharam Bina Sab Dalay Malay hai.

 

To the OP please go ahead and report it. This is beadbi of our Guru. Go ahead and report it.

With your mentality, it’s likely that if Guru Nanak turned up without a turban, you’d probably stone him. Instead of recognizing him as Sat in form. God is One. You cannot confine God to a religion or sect. He explicitly taught, No Hindu, No Muslim, Only One. And I’m the fool for accepting this gyan that he taught. Why would I disregard that gyan, unless I’m full of codswallop and trying to create my own sect. Isn’t Gurbani written by the Gurus? Or is your religion run by manmukhs dressed as amritdharis who think they’re beyond the gyan.

15 hours ago, singhdalbir said:

Please stop making stuff up. YES you can convert to Sikhi. That is a total lie. you don't know what you you are talking about. Dharam Bina Sab Dalay Malay hai.

 

To the OP please go ahead and report it. This is beadbi of our Guru. Go ahead and report it.

How can you convert to the Truth. There is No Religion. No Hindu, No Muslim, Only One. The Gurus words, not mine. 

On 9/8/2020 at 12:45 PM, Guest Mrs Kaur said:

Few days ago I had a dream, can’t exactly remember but I did see partakh saroop of Guru Gobind Singh ji and he was taking rumala sahib from granthi Ji and tidy them up. I was so amazed to see and then I tidy up some gurdwara sheets and then what happened after that I can’t remember at all.

i still don’t understand the meaning of my dream but confused to share it with anyone.

It’s encouragement for you to keep walking the path and to keep going. There may be a deeper meaning but you’ll need to ask your own heart the meaning and trust in what God communicates to you. He’s all around you, all pervading. You just have to open your heart and accept it. He hears every prayer we make, no matter how quiet. Talk to him openly.

On a personal note, I’ve dreamed of Guru Nanak a fair bit. He came to me vividly in my dreams every day for a week at one point and it instilled my faith and belief in God which has never broken until today, almost 15 years later. You’ll find that this kind of love doesn’t compare to conditional love that many of us humans may have experienced. 

On 9/11/2020 at 2:35 PM, Guest Anon said:

Gurufateh - I am torn between reporting an interfaith marriage and just letting it happen. The boy as I understand it hasn't converted to Sikhi yet they are having an Anand Karaj at a Sikh 'Centre' which is essentially a Gurdwara in London 

 

You can’t convert to Sikhi. It’s a path of Truth. Gurbani teaches the Pure Uncorrupted Truth. It’s tenants have been taught by other masters in the past, from different races, having born into families of different religions, in yugs upon yugs.
 

Guru Nanak taught it in Depth. He was so far down the path and his love was so deep and pure that the gyan taught is unparalleled. He is the most beautiful soul God made.The Gurus included some of their teachings in Guru Granth Sahib Ji. It teaches No Caste, No Creed, No Hindu and No Muslim, Only One.

On 9/11/2020 at 8:25 PM, Dsinghdp said:

Although we’re 25 million yet Sikhi is so big - I mean 10 Gurus, Shaheeds, Mahapurakhs, 5 Takhats.

The spirit of the Gurus in Guru Granth Sahib including Dasam Granth and Sarbloh Granth.

You never stop learning.

 

 

 

 

Well God did work through the Gurus, and the entire creation Is under his command lol. Not surprising but definitely awe inspiring 

On 9/9/2020 at 10:08 AM, jkvlondon said:

none of our oldies married because of love and yet they managed to develop it , raise families etc  to much emphasis is placed on 'love' when people do not understand what that actually is , they think it is something they've read or seen in books and films , it is not lust or the kind of mental idiocy that smacks of codependency. Love is the unconditional acceptance of the other person, nothing more or less, and that is closer to the ideal that Guru Sahiban placed in front of us rather than the romantic fantasies bandied about

Agreed that it’s not textbook or the like, and is unconditional.

On 9/9/2020 at 1:37 PM, Guest So UNTRUE said:

As if you would know about love! You are the most shocking poster on this thread for mention love! 

What? What is wrong with you. You are so filled with enmity. Get better soon

On 9/9/2020 at 11:41 AM, puzzled said:

Realistically speaking from them peoples point of view, how relevant and appealing is god and religion in today's time? Obviously it's different for us, but for vast majority, why would they find God and the rules of religion appealing when they are living the whole yolo lifestyle. Why give up party, s3x and alcohol and everything else that is pleasing and pleasurable to the senses, for a lifestyle of strict rules and refraining from everything "fun" and that the senses enjoy. 

It's easy to say that these people should stop it, but why would they lol! ? 

People are starting to. There are people out there who do it so much and fall down that spiral (alcohol, drugs, sleeping around etc) and when they’ve gone so deep and almost lose it, they begin to walk to towards the light- rising from the dark hell they create for themselves. They realise that life isn’t what the media says it is. It’s like being in hell and seeing a tiny ray of light and grabbing it for dear life.

You see it with alcoholics. I know people who have battled alcoholism, (mostly from influence of Punjabi alcohol culture) have almost died from it, and now live a Sikh lifestyle. People I would never have ever imagined would pick up a Gutka or do naam simran. 

Dont forget that Guru Nanak taught a lot of people who had fallen deep into Maya. Sajjan Thug and the like. He didn’t judge, he guided and taught by example. And many people recognized the Truth he lived and wanted to live it too. 

On 8/26/2020 at 5:52 PM, puzzled said:

Edwina Currie, john major's side chick wrote a diary a few years back about her affair with john major. I didn't read it but she writes about a man who became a member of parliament and that he liked young boys. I read this in one of the reviews last year. 

"One appointment in the recent reshuffle has attracted a lot of gossip and could be very dangerous: Peter Morrison has become the PM’s PPS [Parliamentary Private Secretary]. Now he’s what they call a ‘noted pederast’, with a liking for young boys; he admitted as much to [Conservative Party chairman] Norman Tebbit when he became deputy chairman of the party but added’ ‘However, I’m very discreet’ – and he must be! She [Thatcher] either knows and is taking a chance, or doesn’t; either way, it’s a really dumb move.

[Conservative MP] Teresa Gorman told me this evening (in a taxi coming back from a drinks party at the BBC) that she inherited Morrison’s (woman) agent, who claimed to have been offered money to keep quiet about his activities. It scares me as all the press know, and as we get closer to the election someone is going to make trouble, very close to her indeed."

Theresa May’s apparently covered a lot up and refused to investigate many cases during her time in power. I hope people rise together one day against all of this in larger numbers. If these people are capable of this, they are literally capable of anything because it’s the lowest form of evil 

6 hours ago, Jonny101 said:

I don't know about the Abrahamic 'hell', demoness or female satan. But the Dharmik concept of Nark exists as does Dharm Rai and Jamdoots, chitr gupt, paap and punn. 

Well like I said, hell is said to have many demons so who knows. But this goddess enjoying the taste of blood I doubt would be a Devi.