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So you finally come to my point. Anyways, the point is The idea of letting people come to sikhi is different for both kids and adults: Kids: They are not interested in what gurmukhi is, that is something that comes later on. To let them come to you is something that has to do with punjabi culture, and spreading it in them. You see, let it be western or southern, when people arent interested in religion (as western [some] ) then it will not matter whether you approach them with sikhism or Christianity. Because they are not interested, BUT if you teach them the "punjabi" culture, then people will be more interested. Remember, you are not there to convert, but to lighten the spirit. So trust me, those who dont know anything about sikhi/ punjabi culture, will not be interested in how Gurmukhi, works, let alone what it is (no matter how poetic) For adults: The way of explaining is much more different, part of the reason because of their maturity. They are more likely to be enlightened by the spirit of gurmukhi, because the pains of life are just getting to them. Punjabi culture will be very good to explain also, and not just explain (cant find the *proper* word here), but also, because it is during this time that most people turn to god, so helping them with the good principles of sikhi, will also help them. Anyways, i jsut get the feeling that I haven't quite explained it right here, but if that is the case, then we can try to clear it forward. Jashan.

Pritam Singh Khalsa, you dont seem to be getting the point of this topic.......its about "western" sikhs, NOT gurmukhi. So why do u keep on insisting that people should gurmukhia, and gurmukhi thisn and gurmukhi that. Is it so hard for you to understand that people here are talkin about bringing propel's interests back to sikhi. Now, the people who seem to be dumpin sikhi/punjabi for western values, I dont think your posts will convince them to learn punjabi, let aone gurmukhi. You see, you just keep going on and on and on about why people should learn gurmukhi. Gurmukhi, is a way our gurus used to express their teachings. So, i dont think you understand, people like gurmukhi if they are even interested in punjabi ways, and certainly those who dont care about punjabi, dont care about gurmukhi. Its great that you are learning about gurmukhi, and that u are a proper sikh, but guru's never intended that to be a showoff. So let us discuss, what the problem is, and not what we are doing. JAshan

ok no problema, FATEH

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people for some reason, seem to think that fitting in is the important thing, for as far know, sikh are suppose to stand out. But anyways there is suppose to be only one thing :sikh and when you add western to it, that means, drug injecting, alcohol drinking, clubbin people. After all, india or america, i am one person , who speaks punjabi and hindi and bihari (accent) like the "west" never existed on my map. Sikhs are sikhs, they would rather be called sikh, punjabi, w/e. Those who add "westers" to it, try to impose the image of modernity, as if they were superior. Hell, look at indian(hindu) movies, they speak more english than hindi, give money stricken sikhs roles of jokers and so on. But they become so obsessed with it, that their iq drops ( for real ), it impairs their sense of thinking. Not to mention, how ungraceful they lookin speakin english, There is a reason, putin speaks russian when he is giving a speech with bush in america, BECAUSE HE IS RUSSIAN, he doesnt want to be american, but russian, and those who try hard to show that they are modern, become neither indian or american(no sense of pride to dare to speak their language) there...... my soup of western (defition) alongside with some CHILI(har har har) FATEH

oaaiiiiiii, thank you bhaa ji, :TH: my mistake :T:

for some reason, lionchild, seems to demonstrate profieicey in the following fields: --"sheri" behind the keyboard --ego --too much nosiness (putting legs in other people's business) --arguments Your posts seem more critical than anything i have seen here, dont get me wrong, there is criticism, with the point of solving the problem, while your posts seem to be exactly opposite, you post about things that are secondary: you type things that even if we respond, it changes nothing, so please what you are doing now is just a toned down version of this: Please be spending your energy on discussing something that actually we can do something about as a community, not just being "keyboard sher" and just filling the forum with posts. Please being active is one thing, but just doing it for "solely" posting is waste of time, so please enjoy your time, and stop wasting posting something that as i said is of no use. Thank You very much darcy starr, jashan here's some proof

hahhahh, its funny ( no, it really is ) how those rss and other hindu groups are trying to get sikhism to merge. All I can say is, its a good strategy for taking out the weaker sikhs from our religion. We have had martyr's that have done things, that nobody, nobody has done or ever though of doing for anything, let alone religion. Sitting on a burning plate while not bowing away from the satgurprasad. But the only people affected by this propaganda, are the weaker link . Comparing this to old time, this would roughly translate to, cowards who are willing to betray everything, and convert under fear of death. So people, dont worry about this propaganda, our foundation is strong, and when foundation is strong, storms come and go, while the strongest still stand. Trust me people, guru's have made a strong enough sacrifice that things like this, come and go, but those who truly are gursikhs, they are not even touched by these things. For example, look at nirankaris, now they have done something worse than rss, they broke away form our religion, mixed it up with their own <banned word filter activated>(literally). I am sure you people know that a person is considered holy in Nirankarism, if his excreta (feces), does not smell. Now you see, i have given pretyt good examples, so people, brush this aside, and let us focus our god given quota of energy ( and breaths ) on something more important. And besides, if people were to follow sikhism and do seva, they seperate themselves from this Kalyug, and RSS and nirankaris stuff wont matter to them, afterall that is what we are here to do in human birth. Fall in love with the 5 vices, and who knows, you might as well b born as a chicken in ur next life, and so on until u pass through each time

You are so correct bhaa ji, But i did not mean that in the literal sense, this is a big world, and i couldnt possible make any assumptions about things like these, but we must think of like this, every race/creed/religion (if u many) has bad people and good people, but it is people who do good for people that coutns the most, and most importantly we should not always depend or make assumptions on outward appearance. America, might look friendly, but the "democratic" governments cares about anything but the americas, same for our government (Badal), cared about only him, and nobody else. There are other factors also, such as education, but then again, MAYA plays a big role in that too. Fateh

I am sorry to say, but there is nothing that can be done through listening to just path alone. If I were to give one advice, that would be to: goto harimandir sahib, and do sewa(lots and lots of it). And with the purity of the heart listen to the kirtan, and do more sewa. See, it is in times like these, that people remember (or resort) to the last choice: the guru. i have read it many times, and experienced, sometime we remember everything but the guru , who runs this business. It is only is times that we have no choice left that we do the right thing by going to the guru, which we should have been doing our entire lives. Afterall that is our purpose. Also, i would like to know, say on a scale of (1-10), how religious has your dad been, not just religious, but has cared about sikhi, and has refelected upon the guru's teachings. That would help. Anyways, my final advice, goto gurudwaras, and do sewa, empty all the things in your heart, for it is only him(guruji) that can cure him, for he can cure what cannot be cured. If I may suggest tell him to go and do sewa at these places, for going to these places, will help him heal, and come closer to guruji. --Ponta Sahib --Hemkunt Sahib --Anandpur Sahib Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji ki Fateh.

in times like these people, people: resort to guru ji's ways, and remember the story about good apples, and bad apples. We should not blame an entire race, because of actions of one person, even though there are 20 bad black people for every good one. Anyways, it was chosen by guru ji for this had to happen, pray for him , and his family. I cant possible imagine, how he is going to get punished for that, being shot, gives u small amount of pain, for a shotr amount of time, for th crime that he did,, U CANT possible imagine, HOW he will pay for it. FATeh, god bless him and his family stay on the path towards truth.

firsth thing, drop the capitals bhenji and .. ill post replies after i get home-- currently in skool.lol :-)

99% sure about this: ------------------------ well maybe seeing all those people dying has gotten to his head, but then again, maybe he is not looking a the picture. Because no matter how important he cause-- seeing inocent people dying like that would also get me thinking like that.. --- But i still might have a shady sort of opinion about this. fateh. 99% sure about this: ------------------------ well maybe seeing all those people dying has gotten to his head, but then again, maybe he is not looking a the picture. Because no matter how important the cause-- seeing inocent people dying like that would also get me thinking like that.. --- But i still might have a shady sort of opinion about this. fateh.

there is a post right in teh same forum , with the same name, and the same header post, If this is a mistake, i urge you to fix it. Well not neccesarily "urge" but, u know, just try to merge it or something, fateh.