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I agree with Heart and Pyara. Sikhi is for yourself, you do not preach sikhi people and expect them to convert to whatever you are saying. Many people have their own view and instead of critising them, respect them. I believe that if you think not speaking to the opposite sex helps you to get closer to God, do this, but I also have my own beliefs: if you think that speaking to the opposite sex is lustful, then you have some issues with your self control, stop worrying about these things and jap naam, its only this way you can get some self contol. And don't get me wrong I ain't judging you, its just my opnion, everyone has issues they have to face in life, you just an't avoid them all your life. Waheguruuuu.
Bhul Chuck Maaf, I didn't mean to offend anyone.
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