Tarrandeep Kaur

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There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Then it gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it, and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able t

<<<<<<<<<<<I was told to do it 11 times a day for 40 days, But I've also been told you have to be prepared to do it for 1000 days I've been doing it since last October>>>>>>>>>>> Who told you to do the above^^^ and recite that shabad: http://sikhitothemax.com/page.asp?ShabadID=3158 ? gurfateh jee

If shes not interested then leave it be. Let your parents proceed in finding a suitable match. You'll forget about the other girl in time, concentrate on your jeevan. gurfateh jee

http://tapoban.org/index.html?gurmat.html

Pheena Ji, dont take this to offence, but i dont agree with what you said here: ''If your mind is in doubt, then it is better to remove this doubt by attending the dance and seeing it first hand what it is like.'' So if someone has doubts, or has feelings for someone else, they should give into their feelings and experience what its like? :6 Our mind will always run in a thouasand directions and want to experience pleasures, but we dont just give into them. Every sikh has a daily battle with their minds, to prevent themselves from giving into their mind, following man - mat.

When the panj piayre bless you with naam they will tell you what to concentrate on

Thanks alot! Much appreciated Gurfateh jee

Paaji the 2nd link dont work, the files come up, bu when i try and click on them it says, access forbidden. And for the 1st link you gave me, i tried following what you said, but nothing happens, its just a blank page... gurfateh jee

Gurfateh jee Can anyone tell me where i can find audio files for the whole of guru granth sahib jee? thanks gurfateh jee

Remember if we're saying dancing is manmat, dont forget every action that is not gurmat,( i.e following guru's mat) is manmat. I say before carrying out any action, think about what your intent is, thing about the benefit you will gain. Personally i think being around loud music, and that sort of atmosphere associated with dancing, will only bring negativity to ones jeevan. End of the day, its your decision. gurfateh jee