Singhsta

Huh? I never mentioned MSN...I've never even talked to her on MSN, __B4ND4__ I really don't know what your talking about. And I really dont know why your taking shots at me, its not about me "having the guts" to show her this forum, this is me being very confused and I dont know what to do, and just thought sangat could help me out. Im not "enjoying a game of love". I really dont understand what your talking about and I wasnt lying about anythin I said, I just thought sangat could help me out but I guess __B4ND4__ feels differently....sorry

Thanks everyone for the help Well I've just been trying to concentrate on Guru Jee more as of now. I still feel the same way about her, but just trying to get over it, and I am still talking to her, still trying to be supportive. Don't really think i can just cut her out of my life, but I'm trying to be a good friend while controling my thoughts and feelings. I want sangat to know i didnt choose to have these feelings and i do feel ashamed because i am in guru sahibs roop and i have these feelings, I just hope I will be forgiven. Thank you all and if anyone has any more advice, it would be greatly appreciated. WJKK WJKF

I dont think i was clear. She is amritdhari and she is not in a physical relationship with this guy...more jus a guy she is with who she knows who she wants to marry...and as for me and her, i do not want a physical relationship with her before marriage, I jus feel like she is the one for me and want to get married to her, nothing physical at all

yea i kno....couple months ago i woulda laughed if i read this saying who cares, jus stop talking to her, be a man blah blah blah....but its hard once u actually get these feelings

yea, i kno....thats y im so confused

ive told her how i felt and she said she wishes she could do sumthin, but she is with him, she is saying that i am better for her but like xkaurx bheinji said, she cant picture her life without him... and supasinghghost, its not like that, we are best friends, she told me that she thought i was perfect and that she should be wit me before i told her about my feelings or before she knew how i felt...and currently they r in a situation where they rnt talking, and she currently has no body to talk to and needs emotional support, and she tells me im the only one she can depend on right now, so i cant really stop talking to her either because i am the only one she has to talk to right now, and as her best friend i dont think its right just to leave her

Sangat ji i need help I am an amritdhari singh in university and i am in love wit a girl. i kno this is fake love, and i know it is all moh, as true love is only for waheguroo, but all i can do is think about this girl. she is a really good friend of mine and i just feel she would be the perfect girl to marry, she says the exact same thing about me, saying i am a perfect guy for her, the only problem is shes been in a relationship wit a guy for years now, and he is the one she is going to marry. she says i am better for her than he is, but because they been together so long, she cant end it wit him. she says if they werent together we would be. we talk almost everyday, because we are really good friends and all i want to do is spend the rest of my life with her and talk to her all day. i kno this is all stupid and i should jus concentrate on waheguroo and not worry about these things, but all i do is think about her all day and get upset becasue i cannot be wit her.i have been upset a lot lately, and see myself questioning gods plan more and more everyday. i c myself asking god y me? i am amritdhari and trying my best to be a gursikh, but god still gives me these pains? and i really kno these thoughts r bad, because god has given me soooooooooooo much in this life i cannot even begin to tahnk him, yet i find myself question him. i need help as to wat to do and how to get over these feelings...i kno people r going to say read bani and do ardas, but when i read bani she is always in my mind, and when i do ardas, i ask guru sahib to help me get over these feelings, but truly in my heart i am asking him to let me be wit her..i dont kno wat to do...please any suggestions will help thanks

WJKKWJKF Our Guru's abolished the caste system. They were against it because in those times people would discrimnate against other castes and think they were lower and think that some castes couldn't reach God. They were against this discrimination That being said, I don't think there is anything wrong about following this system still and being proud of it. I am a Jatt and am proud of it. It is my heritage and the way I was brought up. It is just like me being proud to be a Punjabi, being a proud Khalistani, being a proud Sikh, it is just who I am. Yes I understand there are still huge flaws in the caste system that I do not agree with. I do not believe in discriminating, I have many different friends from different castes, just like I have many different friends from different races. I do not agree that one shouldn't marry someone from a different caste, because we are all sons and daughters of Guru Gobind Singh Ji, and have the same blood running in us. It is just our heritage and there is no reason why we can't go by our caste and be proud of it. If i were to say that I am a proud Punjabi would that be wrong? Just my thoughts on this topic because I am tired of people saying I can't be a Jatt and a Sikh. Guru Ji abolished discriminating against other castes, saying we are all equal, which I believe we are, but nothing wrong with understanding where we came from and our background. Sorry if I offended anyone WJKKWJKF

does it matter what bollywood is doing? just read bani and jaap naam....

sooooooo does anyone have it or is this topic just turned into "OMG theres another singhsta"