Hershi

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

I think that's up to personal choice... there's nothing "wrong" nor nothing "right" about different age gaps (within a reasonable limit, not like decade)... but if both of them are comfortable with an older/younger wife/husband, then that seems to be perfectly fine.

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

true..!

Heck i took my black freind to the gurdwara yesterdai.

No problem at all. He was surprised when i told him that the Langar was free :D

haha :s i hear ya... same thing happened when i brought a freind to a local keertan session ... shes like woah! a free buffet!!!

vjkk vjkf!

bhenji guruji did soem mad kirpa on you for you to have enough courage to start wearing dastaar and present the khalsa image!...your situation sounds very very very familiar to mine... but you just have to stay strong.. know gurujis holding your arm and walking though it with you each second.. it'll get better hopefully :s but try to see the positive side to it... usually when people discourage you from something u believe in..the more you wanna show them, NO, this is right nad this is what im gonna do..! so keep your head up high bhenji!!!! and congrats :D

quik question 2 penjis & paajis...

would it be all good to take say a gori to the gurdwara if she wore the correct clothes etc?

please no debates just straight answers/views...

forgive me for my mistakes i am a sinner....

haha of course its okay!

im not sure if its called a 'ishnaan kirpan' but thats what i call it hehe :s ....its like on a stringy type gatra ...and its really small... they sell them at sacha sauda in toronto

vjkk vjkf!

do ardaas before going to bed...or try putting your alarm clock on the opposite side of your room so you have to get up and turn it off....

Waking Up For Amrit Vela

By G. Udham Singh in Gurmat Sidhaant Saagar

Translated by Admin www.tapoban.org

1. That Sikh who remembers Vahiguru at Amrit Vela will achieve liberation.

2. Ishnan, nitnem and simran/abhyaas at amrit vela can transform the individual

3. Only that person can wake up for amrit vela who forsakes laziness and remembers death.

4. It is just as essential for every Gursikh to wake up in the last quarter of the night, amrit vela, as it is to do simran.

5. That person that remains asleep at amrit vela goes without the blessings and grace of Vahiguru

6. The best way of waking up for amrit vela is to eat little at night and to go to sleep on time.

7. It is at amrit vela that currents of Vahiguru's blessings are flowing but those who remain asleep at this time cannot enjoy them

8. Until the stars disappear, it is the fourth quarter of the night, amrit vela,

which is considered the most conducive time to meditate and worship Vahiguru.

9. That person that longs to wake up at amrit vela will be woken up on

time by some secret power.

10. After doing Sohila Sahib, and before going to sleep, doing ardaas for the ability to wake up at amrit vela is very beneficial.

11. That Gursikh who is thirsting for naam and baaNee will find that this thirst will be like the alarm which wakes him/her up.

12. Even cows, birds and roosters wake up at amrit vela. If a Sikh does not, it is his own bad karma.

13. It is a natural phenomenon that at amrit vela, even flowers blossom and spread their scent more than at any other time.

14. That person who wants to meditate on Vahiguru must make it a daily habit to wake up at amrit vela.

15. It is not enough to just wake up at amrit vela, ishnaan and simran are also essential.

16. Those individuals who spend their nights lost in vices and evil and then sleep through amrit vela are destroying their own lives.

17. The way in which our minds can be attached to simran and baaNee at amrit vela is not possible at any other time.

18. All great saints, rishis, munis, bhagats and Gursikhs all have woken up at amrit vela.

19. That person's life is fruitful and worthwhile who wakes up every day at amrit vela and remembers Vahiguru.

Someone once told me while we were having this discussion thatthe tip of your nails...where like the white part starts is where guruji drew a line ..showing u cut from there or something...it was a while ago so i dun remember exactly....hm i hope i made sense lol.

hehe i already posted this:

http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=33742

but ya... its really a eye opener! :s

nice! thankssss :s

i admit... its snowing in atlanta!! its a miracleeeeeeee :s

I admit... i ate more than usual today after class

and then watch Dr. phil for an hour..!

From the Simpsons:-

Homer: Marge? Since I'm not talking to Lisa, would you please ask her to pass me the syrup?

Marge: Dear, please pass your father the syrup, Lisa.

Lisa: Bart, tell Dad I will only pass the syrup if it won't be used on any meat product.

Bart: You dunkin' your sausages in that syrup homeboy?

Homer: Marge, tell Bart I just want to drink a nice glass of syrup like I do every morning.

Marge: Tell him yourself, you're ignoring Lisa, not Bart.

Homer: Bart, thank your mother for pointing that out.

Marge: Homer, you're not not-talking to me and secondly I heard what you said.

Homer: Lisa, tell your mother to get off my case.

Bart: Uhhh, dad, Lisa's the one you're not talking to.

Homer: Bart, go to your room.

hahahhaha o mannn...i lhavent seen that show in a whileeeee :s

I've heard this story like a million times and each time its amazing ... reminds u hukums hukum! guruji knows whats in for ya! :s

vaheguru...that was a nice read!

vaheguru.... reallyyy a wake up call... i usually fly through ardaas after doing sukasaan sahib paying no attention to what im actually saying... :s

vaheguru.....thats sad

Eka bani ek guru eko shabad vichar

Just to teach us this, Guru Nanak toiled taking ten different Bodies and full two centuries and a half to drive the lesson home - this lesson of Returning Home; and thus putting us in direct contact with the Shabad, the Ultimate.

How much did people heed then, and how much do we heed now?

Does, or does not our 'honest answer' put us to shame- burning shame?

And that is the trouble; that is the tragedy

- with our entire being,

- with the entire fabric of our Society today,

- with our leaders in the political field, and

- with our leaders in the religious field and more with them than with any other.

Yes I feel ashamed.

vaheguru....

I have a couple of Amritdhari friends who used to swear a lot :D

I don't really want to tell them to stop it, but one day I said, "You swear a lot!" They never did it again - they were sooo embarrased! :s

I did apologize tho, don't like making my friends feel guilty.

same here!... i know some who just swear away and i told em to calm downnnnn but he still does it but adds a sorry after each time ..for example ...i *******sorry... and blah blah blah ****..sorry blah blah...and so on!

haha... man i think i've watched like every single episode of 'fresh prince of bel-air' ..i even memorize the rap thingie in the beggining of the shows hehe :s ....gOoOo will smith!!!!

I admit.. i farted on the bus today and gave a dirty look to the bibi (for farting) sitting next to me while covering my nose :D

thanks for sharing :D

hahaha :s

i admit.... i should be workin on my essay thingie right now rather than sikhsangat-ing! hehe

n heera veerji....half ur posts on here have to do with food.... now im hungryyy! cant eat till 4 30 arg.

sant ji woke up the panth, and started the movement to make us reliase wat was happening, in the future if mahraj wants, his gursikhs shall surely finish the movement, but at da moment we need to concentrate on our jeevans, jus like sant ji did then we can look at the soldier part of sikhi

couldnt of said it better! ... we need to concentrate much more on our jeevans before anything :s

hehe i love lil kids!!! ... we usually have weekly sessions down here, usually on saturdays and theres this 5 yr old girl who ALWAYSssssss steals the chanaiy away from me! ah!!! and i mean ALWAYSSSs..she just comes and pokes me and puts her hands out..i sigh and hand them over *sniff sniff* so this one time i didnt feel like giving them up soi see her coming towards me so i like close my eyes extra hard and pretend i dont feel the poking...but she doesnt go away!! and im like doing simran twice as hard hopin the pokin would stop..

but no. poke poke poke!!! so i sigh once again and hand them over... sigh :s

but other than that..shes adorable! hehe

hehe that translation helped! ...

nice story...!