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alot of amritdhari youths are in relationships to some "undercover" others not so much. Alot of sikhs that i have come across always seem to have in their minds you shouldn't go to clubs etc... because all you go for is to look and chat up members of the opposite sex ( some go to the extreme that you should avoid even talking to people of the opposite sex) but at the same time you have sikhs youth in they baanas etc.. going to kirtan programmes and rehansbhais ( which is good) but all they do is talk to girls and boys their maybe even "flirt" , whats the difference between someone going to a club and trying to find someone and someone who goes to a gurdwara and does it. I find alot of people who wear dastaars and keep beards and maybe amritdhari to be really stuck up, they tend to stay away from people that may not be as into sikhi as them,

Amongst people specially youth are affected by relationships etc... why is it frowned upon in the sikh community? why are notions like your a papi etc.. used to describe these people? Is it even Wrong? if So why is it? Next Marriage what if your parents want to choice your marriage partner? sounds all nice n jolly as your parents know whats best for you etc.. but what if your parents are not so "religious" and say they want their "religious" son to marry a girl that maybe not so religious? maybe shes not even baptized and vis vis virsa for a girl marrying someone not so religious? Why is sex before marriage wrong? and if some one has done this are all past mistakes forgiven? thank you

well my question is do we really need god? why do we ahve to praise him to get his blessings? i dont wanna offend anyone but does god have an ego that he wants us to praise him??? i dont understand why one should praise god?

what are reasons for not wearing a kalgi at weddings i need help persuading family

i read this on another post by dal singh "If Sikhs can't bring their own kind into marriages we may as well give all non-amritdhari girls away to muslims or something because they are nothing to do with us ......no? " my question is ... can a non amritdhari marry non amritdharis?? theirs a hukamnama i think by guru gobind singh saying that one should give their daughters hand in marriage to a gursikh?? does this mean that people that may not be amritdhari should get married to amritdharis?? i might be wrong but in this day and age dating, marraige etc.. is becomnig a regular question amongst youth? is their anything in sikhi that says you cannot have a partner on the journey of life before you are even married?

Does the Sri Guru Granth Sahib Contridict itself? in some place you have quotes about meat eating and that theirs nuthing wrong with it e.g who knows were the sin lies , and what is meat and what is not, and then you have some quotes that say those that eat fish etc.. wil continue to go in the cycle of reincarnation

Why have many different parties supporting the same aim of a seprate Sikh state why not just join together surely that is the smart thing to do