Gulzar Singh

Just noticed this was posted a while back. How is your search going @Sukhsingh96 ? Please try creating your profile on shaadi / jeevansathi. Suggest putting your background as Sikh - Gursikh. Set your location to a centrally located punjabi city like Ludhiana or else try Delhi. Write in your profile that you are planning to visit India soon. Let us know you get on!

What ended up happening to Sukha? Was he charged or found guilty of anything?

Fix this!

Wrong link. This is the correct link: https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-leeds-64225501 Tragic for the 2 kids involved.

On the topic of four castes, I have noticed no one caste is proficient in everything. All have their positive and weak points. Brahmins+Khatris are very good in intellect, command over languages, business sense, but lack in technical knowledge and artisan skills. With my own eyes I've seen they are literally unable to use a screwdriver. Jatts excel in health, stamina, stick up for each other, (over)confident. But education lacking. Big Ego. Impatient. Lohars, Ramdasia, Tarkhans etc excel in artisan skills requiring use of hands, fine motor skills (includes sewing etc), patience, technical knowledge. Weakness include lack of business sense, and like most engineering types reserved/not great communicators. Point is caste discrimination is mostly based on looking only at the negative aspects of each group and ignoring the positives. Might be helpful if we change perspective and see what we have to gain by marrying into another caste. The more we mix up the more likely we will produce offspring that have all the positives of the four castes in one person which is what Guru-ji wanted. A kind of superhuman! Think about it, a Singh who is a CEO, intelligent, physically fit, and can fix his own car! Ultimate Alpha!

Yep reap what you sow! However I will say this, sometimes it is our own fault for girls marrying out. Too many of us lack a caring nature and can be ridiculously harsh on our own with disabilities. I've heard a story were a cripple Sikh girl ended up marrying a muslim because apne couldn't look past it. Some families reject girls whose father is ill thinking that her offspring may get the same illness. Pathetic.

One thing I've noticed is apne who believe in caste can take advantage of those who don't believe in caste. Basically they put on a facade of not believing in caste only when it serves their purpose. Example when it comes to marriage, they will allow their son to marry a girl from another caste if she's pretty, educated, PR etc, but the same people would not allow their own daughter to marry a boy from another caste. If non-belief in caste is not genunie and reciprocated by the other party, it all feels very one-sided and a feeling of being taken advantage of which leads to tribalism. Very much like how muslims allow men to marry non-muslim women but not the other way around.