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  1. aaaw thank you paajee........ive just ordered it keep in chardi kalah and thank ju fateh
  2. can i buy it from anywhere? i've been to a few shops and cant get hold of it.........im from wolves, w.midlands... Thank ju
  3. please, i broke my mates CD of this album but i cant find it anywhere, i need the album, if anyone can help ill be greatful. Bhul chuck maaf
  4. trying using www.proudtobesikh.com a take the initials for each word of the 1st line and see wot u come up wid fateh
  5. cmon guys share ur humiliatingly funny stories............................this thread has stopped.........
  6. cant believe that man, that our fellow brothers could commit such a terrible act..............revenge is not the answer cos if it was why didnt Guru Gobind Singh avenge the death of His entire family............cos only God can provide Justice and by carry out such acts we are protraying ourselves not better than those muslims who use Islam to justify terrorism in 9/11.............. bhul chuck maaf
  7. hey this is a realy useful thread cos theres loads of stuff here that murakhs like me probably dont know......................GOD im soooooo uneducationed
  8. Again jst my personal opinion but i think there is an "image" issue if a guy keeps kesh and beard it is automatically assumed that the is REALY into his Sikhi but if a gal DOESNT Keep kesh it is assummed she dont care about SIKH........................lol i was at work yday and my colleuge (who is muslim) was interested in knowing if alcahol was ok for sikh to drink cos when he was in uni he goes " i had to sikh guys as mates and even though they kept their beards and kesh they could outdrink anyone on their table" :umm: so i think before making comments such referring to a single sex.......................we need to understand that it is across all genders that this problem occurs............. Bhul chuck maaf
  9. Banday jee you make a very good point.................my humble opinion is based on personal experiences cos here, love marriages are more and more common whether it is right or wrong, we cant change the fact that it is happening and the younger generation are changing.................... i guess what im trying to say is that if parents marry their children to someone cos and another someone sed "oh he/she are very well mannered, religious, etc etc, unless we see in for our own eyes...........its best to know all the facts about a person BEFORE marraige cos this is how i have seen girls lives ruined...AND is a main reason/cause for couples to get divorced.......especially when guys over here marry gals from India, i know one girl who did exactly as her parents sed, only met the guy three weeks before their wedding and he turned out to be a drunk and beat her so bad that she left him........................... Veerjee UR right cos parents may have to best intention for their children and wish nothing more than their happiness but without proper knowledge of an individual BEFORE such a commitment is agreed upon. i think there needs to be a balance that satifies both the younger and older generation...........so both are happy.................... again just my humble opinion bhul chuck maaf JustME zz
  10. i agree, my parent got divorced and now my dad is re-married but i never see him..............i constantly locked in their battles and i hated it........... i have noticed thought as the younger generations are having more love marraiges i feel there is a rush to get married so they can BE togther rathe than actually taking the marriage seriously................i feel its only when you live with someone you get to know whatits realy like and then couple decide maybe it wasnt such a good idea to rush the marriage....................... this is where the older generation needs to begome abit more liberal in the sense that people should realy realise and aget to know someone properly before you commit to the idea of marraige.................cos the santaty of marriage is special and shoukd be treated as a game........ bhul chuck maaf JustME xx
  11. bibijee ill try and email it to you if you like.........wots ur e-mail?

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  12. yeah i spoke to my doctor about the tiredness but as long as im on this medication i gonna be tired................with regards to me back i did have pysiotherapy but it too strenuos and the lady wasnt realy helping me............. i dont mind taking up yoga, im from the uk, wolverhampton to be specific, i found a few classes but goreh do em and its more pilates and they put this smelly thuuf and candels everwhere and it was more breating stuff and i nearly threw up cos it smelled that bad................... i gotta asmit im not too keen on vitamin tablets cos im already taking 13 tablets a day and i cant pysically take any more..................i just start throwing up............... i wanna eat more heathly and im working on that but veerjee ur rite my body fetel out of sync wid my mind............................i feel "chemically" unbalanced cos i take so much meds and if yoga will help then i dnt mind taking it up..................but where would i go in wolves cos i dont realy know that many places........... thank you for all ur help and suggestions bhul chuck maaf JustME xx
  13. pahjee im very sorry for ur loss but remember, death is another journey we must all undertake only on God knows why his time came so soon...........................He is with God and pray that their families get through this difficult time waheguru JustME xx
  14. i didnt even see that bin.....................lol..................Goad's tear? oooooookaaaaaay so God was crying cos Jusus suffered? even though Jesus was returning to God and eaverything that happend to Jesus wahs pre-ordained.............................???? :umm: The Bible itself has bee re-written and imho has also been distroted.........i mean what happend to Chrisy AFTER he came back to life..............isnt there like a good 60yrs of his life that isnt accounted for? im not critising but i hear that many different accounts that i get a wee bit confused..........
  15. i didnt click on this twice i promise, my finger accidently clicked on it................. honest.......................
  16. my diet terrible i must admit cos a physically cant eat too much cos i got a dodgy tummy lining, what kind of things will help in my situation.........? i have thought about yoga but simply do not have the time, are there any simple exercises i could do help my back......? im abit worried cos at first you couldnt notice but now my back going abit funny and it hurts when itry a sit up straight.......... bhul chuck maaf and thank u JustME xx
  17. im having serious problems keep up my nitnem cos of my back............i had surgery a few years back and since then i have developed an isse with my posture, cos i had 84 stitches across my tummy, i always used to sit with a "hunch-back" and now this has developsed into my natural position, hoever when im doing nitnem, i back litterly gives out after about 45 minutes to an hour, i've tried propping my back up against a wall with pillows etc but nuffin seems to be working.......... ive also tried correctingmy posture by sitting with a straight back as much as possible but my back gives out.................. Also im currently taking some medication that is making me VEEEEEEEERY lethargic (extreme tirdness) and sometimes i need to lie down when doing my nitnem........its driving me mad cos i cant concentrate properly and become irratable and i dont wanna be feeling like thhis when do my path...........i tired having cold ishaan but that hasnt helped.................im in the routine of getting up and have tried adjusting my sleeping patterns but my nitnem is being affected cos of all this Has anyone in the sangat had this problem and how did they overcome it? i would realy appreciate any suggestions
  18. This is a quote taken from a comment made on this article: - Theory – one must stay cool calm and collected at all times Practice – many sikhs suffer from high blood pressure. The tighter the turban – the angrier they get. Advice: take the turban off, lighten your burdens, you’ll have less weight on your head & your blood pressure will drop. I cant believe how rude and immature people can be...........this article has realy angered me...........i know i shouldnt be but its like someone saying something hurtful to ur parents.................sikhi is my everything and i hte when people used their own personal narrowminded prejudices to attak ones faith....... so i left a comment too............hehehehehehehe..............i wernt rude but i just put Mr Singh Christian in his place..................aaaaaaaaaaah feel better now xx
  19. lol this isnt realy funny cos i was mashed at the time but ill share it anyway......... when i was at uni doing my final year the last week b4 dissertation had to be the WORST week of my time i was sooo tired that my mate recommended i take Pro-plus................i was a wreak and did realy keep track of how many i was taking............................so basically i became realy hyper and started giggling in lectures........the nite before dissertation (i hadent slept for 2 nites straight cos id taken soo many of these tablets) and i strarted having these little treamors when my body would randomly jump and <admin-profanity filter activated>, i was sitting in the libarary and was getting sore seriously wierd stares...........lol. the worst was i was in the corner and there wernt that many people and just me and my partner and suddenly i kept seeing this figure/shadowy thing by me and i got seriouly freaked out..........i started walking around and i kept seeing it...................i began crying cos i thought it was a ghost and i ran and told my partener.........and then i showed him...................he looked at me and goes "erm..................sweetheart........that's ur shadow!" i was totaly embarrssed,needlees to say i finished i slept for like a week.................lol
  20. ooooooooooh is it that why Jesus says "why have you forsaken me?" i watched The Passion of the Christ last week and never understood why he sed that........................(penny finally drops) imho all religions are beautiful in their own way but it is man's perception and disstortion that destroys it's credibility..........................you shouldnt slander one faith to prove ur own is better cos WE ALL WORSHIP THE SAME GOD!!!!!!!!! that is what i never understand about these kind of articles..........what are they gonna prove by saying that........................(and nearly all that stuff is biased and based on personal issues rather than FACT...........................................lol
  21. aaaaaaaaaaaaw pahjee beautifully put..............we are all brothers and sister fighting the same cause of truth and khalsa...................each and everyone of us is beautiful inside once we embrace the God that resides within us.................tuk my a loooooooooong time to realise this i pray to God that todays youth and todays generation itself stops looking at the negatives and evils of each other and sees everything as pure as God intended it to be and love and support each other waheguru xx
  22. erm helooo im just gonna dive in so here goes...i felt realy wierd cos i been going through some emotional difficulties and would never discuss anything with ANYONE but after reading so many inspirational stories................mine aint anything like that but it may help me understand myself better and relise that other have also been through summat similar im from a typical "jatt" family (but no in my family farms, the all labourers) as i guess im from a labourer's family ours was the typical meat eating bear drinking family, that when to gurdwaras on diwali, vaisakhi etc etc.................my dad however was probably as close as i could get to sikhi...........i never knew much about sikhi..........nor didi want to.............i remember my dad dragging me to Wednesfield Gurdwara, wolverhampton, uk and me sitting there either falling asleep or notunderstanding a word the granthies had sed.............but then i turned 11 yrs old..................i was a sickly child and never eat, put on weight etc and suddenly i began vomiting wheni ate...............long story short i found out i had a massive cancerous tumour in my pancreas and docs gave me bout 6 months to live..............but through this i still didnt appreciate God and got realy scared......................my dad started taking me to gurdwara every sunday and i still didnt feel any closer to sikhi and wrapped myself with fear of dying.............again long story short...........the did this big op to remove the cancer and i found myself in remission...............so slowing life began to return to normal and thoughts and behaviour still neverbrought me close to God................... i began college.................i had lovely long hair (i now realise this ) up past my bum and i chopped it all off without a seconds though....................then the 5sins came swimming towards me and i got so caught up in it that God began even furthur ffrom my mind and i dived into a sinful and disgusting few months of my life......m,my folks got divorced and i never realy saw my dad again.................i'd been abused when i was younger and everything just came chrashing down on me and i began to litrlly self destruct............ then the pain started again...........vomiting etc was back...............two weeks later i found out the Cancer was back and had spread to multiple organs.................they started chemo......lost all my hair.....was even more ill............renounced God altogther, hated him for my suffering.................chemo didnt help cancer continued to spread and i went more and more off the rails.......id come home drunk most nights.................one morning i woke up and i had two tattoes and i did not remember having them done then one summer my massi dragged me down to Sedley St gurdwara to listen to Sant Baba Ranjit Singh, (the realy young guy) diwan and i sat there all angry..........but then i actually started to listen................from that moment i knew that his words were there to help me anf guide me...........i know alot of stuff has been sed about him but for that moment in time, on that day, in those few hours, is words reached a part of me i didnt know existed...............i went home and my massi came the next day to and were were going to meet him................i didnt like the way people were forcing me to touch his feet......but you know wot some folks can be like told him about my cancer..............(which i still have) and he told me to have sehaj path down my house...........i was like yeah right.....i could never do that..............two month later im getting up and 2.30am to prepar the langer at my house before Guru jee was coming to my house............for those 11 days i had my highs and lows but i did it!!!!!!!!!!!! i cried when maharajee saroop left my house............my cancer has been stable but even so often it worse.................i dont know how long i have and i dont realy care cos the sukh i have obtain through re-discovering who i realy am and when i come from..........words cant describe it.........................my kesh is growing back and i have finally found abit of peace..................... i hate myself for all the bad things ive done and i will have too reap what i have sown but i would never change my life or what my illness to one day get better cos its thought this dukh i found Maharajee path..........im so thankful for everyday that Gurujee gives me bakshish for rise and amrit vela to do my nitnem..............and when i find im too lazy to get up i could weap at my own selfishness i dont realy know what to think of Sant babajee but i know that if God resides in everyone.............i saw God in his words that day at that diwaan and thats what i cherish..........im by no means perfect cos alot of other stuff happend when i was younger and i still slip back into Narak but with Gurujee kirpa i hope that before my time comes i can take amrit.............cos at the moment im still looking for Him and keep forgetting that He is within me............................... Bhul chuck maaf (p.s. forgive my horrendus spelling cos i think faster than i type) JustME xx
  23. Your Dosha is Vata Creative and restless, you take in all of life's pleasures (maybe a little too much!). You're quick witted and very talkative, but you also tend to have a spotty memory. You tend to get very into ideas, people, and lifestyles... but only for a short time. It's difficult to hold your attention, and you sometimes feel with what life has to offer. With friends: You are very uncomfortable in new situations or with new people In love: You fall in and out of love very easily To achieve more balance: Live in a warm climate and spend some quiet time in nature What's Your Dosha? http://www.blogthings.com/whatsyourdoshaquiz/
  24. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww! soo tru
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